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AITA for yelling at my brother late at night when he came into my room to ask for my suitcase?

by Ankit
July 22, 2025
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In the stillness of a familiar home, emotions stir as a sibling prepares for his first journey overseas. For his sister, the tension isn’t just about luggage—it’s about respect, memories, and the unspoken value we place on the things that feel like extensions of ourselves. What seems like a simple favor becomes a symbol of deeper concerns about being heard and considered.

As night falls and quiet unease takes hold, a seemingly small dispute over a suitcase reveals the emotional threads that tie a family together—and sometimes strain them. The upcoming departure brings more than just travel plans; it carries a moment of reckoning where personal boundaries, past grievances, and love collide in the silence before goodbye.

AITA for yelling at my brother late at night when he came into my room to ask for my suitcase?

I (25F) live at home with my family. My younger...

Two older family ones and one that belongs to me...

I'm also going on a trip soon, and he's not...

Last night around 11: 30PM (the night before he flies),...

At that point, I had already gone to bed because...

Just as I'm finally almost asleep, I hear someone in...

I sleep with earplugs, so I couldn't fully hear him,...

I told him to leave because I needed to sleep....

told him to get out, and said I'd wake him...

My mom came upstairs too because of the noise, and...

It took me about an hour to fall back asleep....

my brother texted me: "Okay sorry I came into your...

You could've just given me the suitcase and I'd have...

But if you slam any doors or make loud noises...

To me, this felt manipulative and borderline threatening. He completely...

Instead, he called me dramatic, blamed me for upsetting our...

I sent him a message explaining my side: that he...

And that how he spoke to me was not okay....

--------------------------- *UPDATE: * A few things have happened since last...

For those saying I should've taken the suitcase with me...

so even if my brother had tried to take it,...

I didn't fully engage, but I did respond politely and...

Turns out, there was nothing actually wrong with them. One...

and the other he said looked "too bulky" and "had...

He probably freaked out at the sight of the broken...

So it seems like at least on some level, he...

I said what I needed to say, and I feel...

What do you think of this story?





LET’S SEE WHAT REDDIT COMMENTS HAD TO SAY – BECAUSE THIS STORY LEFT EVERYONE STUNNED.

Ancient-Flan-2739 Take your suitcase to work with you,

Working-Bench-1751 just in case: your brother is the a*shole he...

citrus_cinnamon pay to replace it he could have just bought...

again" well did you really? Or was that a direct...

Also him saying he would have bought you a new...

If he has 200€ to buy you a new suitcase...

CharacterOnly8670 take yours.: He has over a week to buy...

He can plan a trip to Japan but can plan...

Dittoheadforever NTA: You're NTA and I hope you brought your...

stealing it. >

Last night around 11: 30PM (the night before he flies),

he starts packing and apparently discovers that the other suitcases...

Sucks for your dad that you may have woken him...

but I can't say I would not be shouting at...

VordovKolnir NTA. Make some noise anyways. Put the suitcase in...

And let him know if he ever enters your room...

reallynotsohappy >But if you slam any doors or make loud...

I'll take your suitcase anyway after you leave. So your...

I would do everything to annoy them in the morning,...

We don't allow manipulation in our house. NTA, and I...

Your brother is an a*shole, especially with that text, and...

If I were your mum,

I would be more upset that he was packing only...

*Like okay, I pack my stuff the night before my...

OGWolfMen *: Nta,

no means no and he's an idiot for ignoring that...

cla*s="comment_author">East-Relative2011: NTA.

I would have slammed doors and made noise as I...

cla*s="comment_author">Euphoric_Peanut1492: First, put your suitcase in your car.

Then, proceed with your normal morning routine, even if you...

Just before your leave for work, wake him up and...

Reddit commenters overwhelmingly sided with the original poster, noting that the brother’s sudden claim that all other suitcases were unusable felt more like an excuse than an accident. Many pointed out that his history of being careless only added to the frustration, and taking the expensive suitcase without permission crossed a clear boundary that should have been respected.

From my perspective, this story underscores how essential it is to honor personal boundaries—especially within families. A simple “no” should be enough, and dismissing it erodes trust. While travel stress is real, it doesn’t justify ignoring someone’s wishes. Hopefully, this moment sparks better communication and a renewed sense of respect moving forward.

Ankit

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