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AITA for offering my sister to pay for an abortion but not offering to support the child finacially if she keeps it?

by Ankit
July 24, 2025
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In the quiet desperation of a small, struggling family, a sister’s secret unfolds—a hidden burden that weighs heavily on her heart. With two young children already to care for, and financial strain tightening its grip, she finds herself at a crossroads, overwhelmed and scared. Her tears, raw and unfiltered, speak of a silent plea for understanding and support, revealing the fragile thread holding her world together.

Yet in this moment of vulnerability, there is a flicker of hope. Though not close, her sister and partner stand as a beacon of potential refuge, their stability a stark contrast to the chaos. The air is thick with unspoken fears and tentative reassurance, as they search for a way forward, united by love and the daunting challenge of an uncertain future.

AITA for offering my sister to pay for an abortion but not offering to support the child finacially if she keeps it?

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Some side info: My sister has two children (4yo, 2yo)...

Me and my partner are doing well financially and have...

since there was something very important she needed to tell...

She didn't even tell her husband at that point and...

Anyway she continued saying that they don't have the means...

I tried to calm her as much as I could,...

After a while she told me she looked up how...

So I basically offered that if she decides to abort,...

She asked me if I could afford that, so I...

I'm usually able to put some into savings and it...

She thanked me and told me that she needs time...

I drove there at the same evening. They greeted me...

She told me how she thought about what I said...

However she didn't want the abortion but suggested that I...

I was pretty much bewildered. I did not offer that....

Her husband blew up, telling me I'm an a*shole for...

I was overwhelmed by the situation and left immediatly after.

My sister texted me the following days relentlessly about how...

They also told the rest of the family which are...

​ EDIT: Thank you for your support, I will try...

What do you think of this story?





LET’S SEE WHAT REDDIT COMMENTS HAD TO SAY – BECAUSE THIS STORY LEFT EVERYONE STUNNED.

jess3474957 NTA. It's not that you don't support her. An...

ElectionA*sistance She's asking for that money along with monthly payments....

You offered a one time payment, they demanded on going...

Also, emotionally abusive much? Why isn't the rest of the...

msmomona NTA. Big time NTA. You were more than generous...

wiggleb**tbiscuits They overstepped big time by a*suming you'd become their...

Jesus christ on a cracker,

the leap from "you have generously offered to pay a...

we want your money" is. . .reallllly something. Tell all...

SqueaksBCOD NTA Stay strong and don't give in. Maybe even...

96babyxo Know you are doing the right thing and advocating...

Both of them sound like narcissists.

You offering to cover the cost of an abortion in...

and your brother in law was WAY out of line...

voltaire155 NTA. If she can barely afford 2 children now,

keeping the 3rd mistake shouldnt even be an option for...

She is a terrible parent and a terrible person for...

F**k her, f**k her asking for money. If she keeps...

snow_angel022968 call CPS on her because she clearly doesnt have...

offered a ONE time help, not help indefinitely. I'd still...

) but ONLY because it will help your current niblings.

SamJSchoenberg NTA The cost for an abortion is a limited...

is an unbounded expense. Even if you only promise to...

you have no idea that they won't still need it...

If you still feel like offering them something, maybe you...

Jax_Cat11 Nta, cut her out and block them.

You made an incredibly generous offer and they are being...

If they are already living beyond their means they'll continue...

income. If they don't take precautions then that's on them.

Reading through the Reddit comments, many users expressed sympathy for the sister’s difficult situation, recognizing the financial strain of adding another child to an already tight budget. Some commenters suggested practical solutions such as seeking community assistance, financial counseling, or even discussing options openly with her husband to make a joint decision. Others emphasized the importance of emotional support, encouraging the sister to lean on her family and friends during this challenging time. A few voices also highlighted the ethical considerations, emphasizing that the ultimate decision is deeply personal and should be respected regardless of the outcome.

From my perspective, this story highlights the complex balance between family loyalty and financial realities. It’s heartening to see the sister reaching out for support despite not being very close, showing a hopeful step toward addressing her worries. While the financial concerns are valid and pressing, the presence of a supportive sibling could make a significant difference in navigating this tough period. Ultimately, open communication within the family, combined with exploring available resources, can help transform this daunting situation into an opportunity for collective resilience and understanding.

Ankit

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