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(throwaway) AITA for Taking My Daughter’s College Fund Back After She Said She Was Going No-Contact?

by Ankit
July 25, 2025
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A mother’s heart carries the weight of sacrifice, hope, and unspoken dreams. For years, she has tirelessly balanced the roles of both parents, shielding her children from hardship while planting seeds for their future. Every dollar saved, every sleepless night endured, was for the promise of a brighter tomorrow—one where Ella and Jake could chase their dreams without the heavy chains of debt.

But hope can be fragile, especially when love and change enter the picture. The daughter who once shared dreams now seems like a stranger, her warmth replaced by cold distance and hurtful words. The mother watches, aching and confused, as the bond they built begins to unravel, leaving her to wonder if the sacrifices made will ever be enough.

(throwaway) AITA for Taking My Daughter’s College Fund Back After She Said She Was Going No-Contact?

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A bit of background: I (45F) am a single mom...

and I've worked extremely hard to support them both emotionally...

and I've been saving part of that money for their...

We've had many talks about how important education is, and...

I wasn't able to afford luxuries like vacations or new...

Recently, though, things have become strained with Ella. She started...

She's become distant, rude, and dismissive of anything I say....

" I've tried giving her space, but last week, during...

I was devastated. After everything I sacrificed, to hear that...

I didn't want to react out of emotion, so I...

then I wasn't going to fund her education. I told...

she should consider her fund off the table, and I'd...

She thinks I'm trying to control her by dangling the...

Some say I'm within my rights because the money is...

Others say that I'm punishing her for her feelings and...

So, AITA for taking back my daughter's college fund after...

Update: First of all, I want to thank everyone who...

I think the best thing I can do is try...

As for the money, I'm going to hold onto it...

To those saying I must be abusive or controlling, I...

The idea of withholding the money didn't even come up...

What do you think of this story?





LET’S SEE WHAT REDDIT COMMENTS HAD TO SAY – BECAUSE THIS STORY LEFT EVERYONE STUNNED.

Cute-Profession9983 There are two big questions here 1) Is it...

OR 2) Is there an ongoing underlying issue with you...

Silvrmoon_ I'm not going to weigh in on this because...

there's a good chance your daughter is being a**sed/manipulated. It...

WhiteJadedB**terfly Please keep an open mind that she might be...

mean no financial contact too, why is your daughter so...

DrunkPyrite Lol. She's either dependant on you, or she's not....

Laughingfoxcreates INFO: When she says you're suffocating her and treating...

examples? What do you argue about? Is her boyfriend trying...

Way too one sided for me to give a balanced...

tialaila You're intentionally being vague and "not going into details"...

actually about,

are you smothering her and is she trying to create...

Condensed_Sarcasm extremely aware i might get down voted: There's a...

Honestly, if she was demanding you give her a lump...

It's her life and you've put this money aside for...

Yes, her boyfriend could be manipulating her and he knows...

Arickm I feel we aren't getting a good picture of...

I find it unlikely that she just went off on...

Mitochondria0 >My husband left behind a life insurance policy,

and I've been saving part of that money for their...

Did she have any right to the money from her...

Fit-Mathematician-91 If it was for their education why are you...

here but... I would not give the money directly to...

If she got into a college I would make the...

as that was what was communicated to her. She may...

Reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many empathize deeply with the mother’s struggle to balance her hopes for her children’s future with the emotional challenges of their changing behavior. Commenters often praised her dedication and sacrifices, recognizing the genuine love she has for Ella and Jake. At the same time, some highlighted the complexity of adolescent relationships and how new influences can strain family dynamics, urging for patience and open communication rather than immediate judgment of Ella’s choices.

In my opinion, this story underscores the difficulty many parents face when children start asserting independence, especially during critical life transitions like college. While the mother’s intentions are undeniably noble, it’s important to remember that relationships can be pivotal learning experiences for young adults. Navigating this tension with empathy and dialogue may help heal the rift and keep the family bonds strong. Ultimately, every family’s journey is unique, and finding a way to support both personal growth and shared values is the real challenge here.

Ankit

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