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AITA for choosing to move in my parents instead of my husband’s and suggesting a nursing home for his?

by Ankit
August 2, 2025
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AITA for choosing to move in my parents instead of my husband’s and suggesting a nursing home for his?

I (35f) have owned our home since before marriage, and...

but my husband (37m) has never paid anything towards it...

but my husband and I were both the youngest children,...

They can no longer stay in their home. Due to...

The other has four kids and lives in a two...

Both of my parents are older, and have recently retired....

My older brother is dead so it's just me that...

They also can contribute to the household finances. They wouldn't...

My husbands parents just live off social security and are...

They would be a major burden on us, we'd have...

My in laws also aren't very appreciative people, and I...

I mentioned that I want to move my parents in...

He thinks we should take his parents in and my...

I don't think this is reasonable at all, I expressed...

He said as his wife I should look after his...

I told him under no circumstances will his parents be...

I told him if he decides to stay I'll respect...

AITA for not being willing to let my i laws...

I think he thought I would cave but I'm not....

I bring a lot more to the table, and I'm...

but the relentless idea of sacrificing everything so your parents...

They've always treated me poorly and I'm not willing to...

I'm going to move my parents in later this month,...

He can't afford a lawyer so I'll find one to...

He doesn't make enough to pay for their care, so...

It's a truly awful place rampant with a**se and neglect,...

Edit pt 2: a lawyer can't represent us both apparently,...

I'll get myself a one and if he can't come...

What do you think of this story?





LET’S SEE WHAT REDDIT COMMENTS HAD TO SAY – BECAUSE THIS STORY LEFT EVERYONE STUNNED.

MJ_KW NTA, you will carry the burden of doing the...

By the sounds of it, your in laws need people...

DogsReadingBooks >He said as his wife I should look after...

Dittoheadforever That's misogynistic af. NTA.: You're NTA.

I was at N-A-H even though I thought you making...

your husband bounced the scales super hard with this statement-...

His parents need way more help than you can give...

gnothro he would want them in a facility where they...

I told him if he decides to stay I'll respect...

decision that would affect both of you in big ways,...

Oishiio42 NTA. It's not reasonable for him to expect you...

especially when it eliminates any possibility of being able to...

You're not asking him to take care of yours in...

Cataclysmus78 I am curious though.: From a purely pragmatic standpoint,

your idea (your parents move in; use the savings to...

He doesn't seem to have a cogent idea, other than...

With your idea, it seems like everyone wins. With his...

-usual-suspect- As a caregiver of someone with severe dementia who...

sbinjax Dementia patients end up needing round the clock care...

`He said as his wife I should look after his...

Move your parents in and he can go take care...

M1ssmessy NTA I'm really proud of you for getting that...

Whatever anyone else says; you were incredibly smart to. If...

bought the house, and he's paying off his student loans....

Also the part where he said "As his wife I...

sunset-tx-armadillo NTA -Until someone has taken care of elderly parents,

they truly don't understand how mentally & physically exhausting it...

Your husband is basically asking you to give up your...

My mother, a RN, took care of my father the...

Ankit

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