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AITA for not wanting to continue supporting my daughter’s (12F) gymnastics training

by Ankit
August 24, 2025
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A mother watches her daughter pour every ounce of passion and dedication into gymnastics, a sport that has captured her heart since childhood. The girl, now 12 and towering at 5’7″, trains relentlessly twenty hours a week, weekends filled with intense competitions chasing dreams of a Division 1 scholarship or even the Olympics. Yet, beneath the pride in her commitment lies a growing worry: her height, an unlikely ally in this sport, threatens to dim the bright future she so desperately strives for.

Despite the sacrifices the early mornings, late nights, missed social moments, and mounting injuries the mother grapples with the harsh reality of the odds stacked against her daughter. The financial strain, the toll on family life, and the physical and emotional challenges weigh heavily. In the silent moments, she questions the price of hope when success seems almost out of reach, torn between supporting a dream and protecting her child from the heartbreak of an unforgiving sport.

AITA for not wanting to continue supporting my daughter’s (12F) gymnastics training

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When my daughter was young, we introduced her to gymnastics....

Now she is 12, training 20 hours a week, spending...

She is starting to have ambition for D1 scholarship, or...

D1 gymnastics scholarship is already rare, the odds of her...

She's almost always the first one at the gym and...

turns down social events because she "needs to train", does...

Yet I cannot justify blowing thousands of dollars a year...

All the hours spent at her training, driving her to...

She under-rotates her sk**ls because of her height, and gets...

Her life is going in the wrong direction because of...

Frankly, it breaks my heart to tell her to give...

She would get much better reward if she channels her...

H**l, she plays tennis with the family only casually, yet...

Needless to say, she did not take that well. She...

I told her over and over that I love her,...

I tried to reason with her - telling her chasing...

Our family is now phoning us to try to persuade...

If she has the right body type to be an...

However that is not the case! Sometimes I feel like...

but to think it through, I was the person who...

It should be my right to call it off, especially...

What do you think of this story?





LET’S SEE WHAT REDDIT COMMENTS HAD TO SAY – BECAUSE THIS STORY LEFT EVERYONE STUNNED.

sheramom4 YTA.

You are taking away her pa*sion instead of trying to...

I was a dancer and too tall for anything but...

awf**kity I was aware of my limitations but dance was...

20 hours a week, frequent injuries, no social life,

and grades not as good as they could be are...

JaneAustenite17 Nta. All the yta people are totally unrealistic.

You're spending thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours and...

" Her grades and social life are suffering and she's...

LW7694 Parents are supposed to step in when necessary.: NTA.

I was a compet*tive figure skater and then I grew...

Edit: why the downvotes? I loved still competing in something...

gypsiemariposa NTA I was a gymnast and you're right.

All these people saying your the a-hole have no idea...

This sport is ridiculously expensive, time consuming, and if she...

her chances of permanently injuring herself sky rocket.

Myobright2344 She will never be able to compete as she...

understand all the Y T A 's here. OP has...

that her daughters grades are suffering, and then it feels...

If the daughter is willing to compromise and stand down...

Express-Rise7171 I would hope to OP would be willing to...

The most important thing you wrote is your daughter is...

Gymnastics is very hard on your body even if you...

The daily wear and tear means a 18 yo is...

TheSaltySyren NTA My mom is 5'9″ and she irreparably damaged...

She had to have knee surgery at age 21. )...

When I was a teenager she explained why and I...

I'm on my phone but I'm sure they exist.

YMMV-But Info: did you discuss this with her coach or...

How does she do in compet*tion? There are many people...

I think you've made a serious mistake here by just...

Peachy_pi32 NTA - people are missing the fact that her...

she's inflicting herself more harm than her peers.

What happens if she gets an injury at some point...

An education is just as important as a pa*sion.

After reading through the Reddit comments on this heartfelt story, it’s clear that many sympathize deeply with the parent’s concerns. Users often emphasize the importance of balancing passion with practicality, suggesting that while dedication is admirable, physical realities in sports like gymnastics can’t be ignored. Many commenters also advocate for open communication with the daughter about her goals and exploring other interests or sports where her height might be less of a barrier. The consensus seems to be that supporting her commitment is crucial, but so is helping her build a future that values her well-being and happiness above all.

In my opinion, this story highlights the difficult crossroads many parents face when nurturing a child’s dreams that may not be entirely realistic. While the daughter’s discipline and love for gymnastics are commendable, the parent’s worries about the physical limitations and the toll on family life are valid. It might be worthwhile to encourage her to continue enjoying gymnastics for what it brings her personally, rather than solely focusing on elite achievements. Finding joy in the sport without the pressure of an Olympic dream could lead to a healthier, more fulfilling experience for the whole family.

Ankit

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