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AITA for not letting my parents visit me after they sent me to a military boarding school in Turkmenistan

by Ankit
September 14, 2025
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In the heart of Chelyabinsk, Russia, a young boy’s rebellious spirit clashed with the expectations of his well-off family. Lost in a haze of drugs, arrests, and defiance, he found himself uprooted and sent far away to a military boarding school in Turkmenistan—a place as foreign in language as it was in culture, where his pleas for understanding were met with cold resolve.

Thrown into a world where the words themselves were barriers, he faced the brutal challenge of survival and transformation. Isolated yet not broken, his struggle became a testament to resilience, as the kindness of strangers and his own grit slowly carved a path through the darkest moments of his youth.

AITA for not letting my parents visit me after they sent me to a military boarding school in Turkmenistan

I grew up in Chelyabinsk, Russia, a fairly decent sized...

My parents were in charge of some local mining operations...

I was a bit of a shithead as a middle...

My parents then decided to send me to a military...

I begged them not to, I promised I'll change, I...

Really I think they just wanted me gone. My dad...

Nope turns out my school was in turkmen, f**king great....

After a year I eventually spoke proficient turkmen. My grades...

At this point my parents were dead to me. My...

so I had to work and provide for myself in...

Shes amazing. Her family took care of me too, I...

5 years until graduation which they did visit. At this...

they seemed all excited to see my and bring ne...

They were f**king p**sed saying in russian and their son,...

Not sure the equivalent or translation, and I fly a...

They're toxic af and just want to brag about me,...

My sister and other family are trying to mediate but...

What do you think of this story?





THE COMMENTS SECTION WENT WILD – REDDIT HAD *A LOT* TO SAY ABOUT THIS ONE.

MaxFuryToad NTA There is a surprising amount of rich guys...

like a single couple. They inevitably become deadbeats (if not...

You where lucky to be left alone and the fact...

ollyator shows they neith: NTA.

I agree with your a*sessment that your parents needs to...

where you didn't speak the language and then barely visiting...

Remarkable-Echo9427 I completely understand why you wouldn't want them in...

It sounds like you have done really well for yourself...

Congratulations on your school graduation and your career.

If there is a time in the future you're ready...

If that's not now, or ever, they need to respect...

ebwoods1 NTA They shipped you off to a school where...

Then ignored you until you became something that fit their...

I'm a bit petty and my coffee was mediocre this...

WebbieVanderquack ESH. >like what the f**k why?

Because you were "[difficult] as a middle schooler/teen," you "did...

" I don't know if military school in Turkmenistan was...

Squish_the_android but I also think you have to take some...

I was a bit of a shithead as a middle...

My parents then decided to send me to a military...

You have a super skewed view of how badly your...

IBALLISTIC54321 You're definitely not the a*shole here!

Even if you did drink and do drugs as a...

There's plenty of time to change and I feel your...

Another thing, they didn't even think of sending you to...

Either your parents wanted you to fail, or they didn't...

Trumpet6789 Something about this seems off.

OP spelling fairly complicated words correctly for the first paragraph...

didn't" that are misspelled. And only the occasional larger word...

OP is definently trying to pretend to be someone who...

redwineandgyozas throwing in r: NTA - I have nothing against...

from your own description it sounds like you needed it...

What makes them the a*sholes is "dumping" you there and...

SaharanDessert I can´t imagine what it must have been for...

I was a bit of a shithead as a middle...

My parents then decided to send me to a military...

I really hope your question here is rhetorical... >My parents...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many sympathize with the author’s tough transition to a Turkmen military boarding school, especially given the language barrier and cultural shock. Commenters often reflect on how difficult it must have been to adjust at such a young age, isolated from familiar support systems. Many also commend the resilience shown by the author, who eventually adapted despite the initial harshness and lack of choice in the matter.

In my opinion, this story highlights the complexity of tough love and the unintended consequences of parental decisions made out of frustration. While the intention might have been to teach discipline or push for change, the lack of communication and empathy can lead to lasting emotional scars. Ultimately, it’s a reminder that growth often comes from struggle, but support and understanding are crucial elements in any difficult journey.

Ankit

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