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AITA for refusing to address someone by their chosen form of address?

by Ankit
September 16, 2025
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AITA for refusing to address someone by their chosen form of address?

I have been with a company for six years now....

The company president is Dave, my boss is Lou, I...

We recently hired a new employee. The fake name I...

When she answers the phone it's, "Good afternoon, this is...

" And my response is always, "Good morning, Ginny, how...

She is three levels below me in a different line...

It got back to me that she thinks I'm disrespectful...

When I spoke to others about it, most state that...

My boss thinks it's idiotic and that she's not at...

she replied that it's obviously a b**ton for this woman...

My counterpoint to this is that nobody in the company...

I'm not going to formally address another employee several layers...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

singing_stream Look, unless she's asking you to address her as...

like Hitler for example, just use her preferred name. ​...

AdmirableAvocado Yta It's about boundaries, not hierarchy.

Maybe she likes to keep it formal so she can...

by her first name. Absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Don't you have more important things to tend to other...

SauronOMordor NAH She's allowed to have her preferences and I...

but at the same time I find it a bit...

extremely far from the norm. It would be one thing...

beito14159 " becaus: I can't remember the last time I...

No one is going to want to work with her...

moa1347 she sounds high maintenance: I am clearly in the...

To me this isn't so much as a chosen form...

Each office/business/work place is different and one should be able...

It's almost more of a disservice to Ginny that her...

cla*s="comment_author">WindlordGwaihir10: Aside from trying to prove a point that you're...

why can't you call her Mrs. Potter?

YTA for antagonizing and using rank in this way as...

scooter-scoots NTA. I personally am uninterested in calling others formal...

regardless of hierarchy. You are still addressing her by her...

I just wouldn't address her by any name at all...

Orangebiscuit234 I just don't think she's right for the company...

Like wearing business attire in a place where people commonly...

but not reading the company and adapting to certain cultures...

joanne122597 is it that you want to be informal? or...

you have to understand what your issue is. being formal...

if your problem is that she is beneath you and...

DCBadman17 I'm going against the grain with a soft NTA.

Who does she think she is to go against the...

If she wants to do that, go ahead,

but she better be ready to deal with the consequences...

which is the reason for your post... I feel a

Reading through the Reddit comments, many users sympathized with Dennis, pointing out how Ginny’s insistence on formality feels out of place in a casual work environment. Several commenters highlighted that while respect is important, it should be mutual and aligned with company culture. They noted that Ginny’s behavior might create unnecessary barriers and misunderstandings, especially when the rest of the team, including leadership, embraces a more informal tone.

In my opinion, Ginny’s approach, though perhaps stemming from a desire to be professional, seems to clash with the established workplace dynamic. Respect doesn’t always have to be conveyed through formal titles; sometimes, it’s better expressed through collaboration and understanding. Dennis handled the situation appropriately by maintaining his usual friendly tone, signaling that respect in their office is about approachability rather than rigid formality. This story is a good reminder that workplace culture shapes communication, and adapting to that culture often fosters better relationships.

Ankit

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