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Friends Called Me A Buzzk**l For Having A Dry Wedding And Demanded I Reveal My Secret

by Ankit
September 16, 2025
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AITA for not allowing alcohol at my wedding & not telling people why?

I (28f) am marrying my fiance James (25m) in September....

We will only be serving non-alcoholic options and there won't...

I'm a recovering alcoholic (sober 4 years 7 months) but...

I always lie and tell people I'm seriously intolerant to...

Only my best friends and immediate family know (and my...

big fun for the recovering alcoholic as you can imagine..!)...

Convos about our wedding came up and I don't remember...

I said it was going to be an alcohol free...

They asked why and I said I wasn't giving a...

I was called a buzzk**l and told that people go...

It ended up in this big debate about drinking at...

I said it was none of their business, pretty rudely...

One of James' friends said being honest about it was...

One of them also made a fairly unpleasant joke at...

I took myself out of the conversation because I was...

Edit: a few people have brought this up so I...

so we figured people won't (if they do I can't...

And we because we've told the venue there's no alcohol,...

So we'd have to pay a considerable amount if someone...

Edit: all of my comments are being downvoted (so I...

but I think I'm just going to ma*s email our...

but then I can say that it's a dry wedding...

That's probably better than lying any more seeing as the...

What do you think of this story?





THIS STORY SHOOK THE INTERNET – AND REDDITORS DIDN’T HOLD BACK.

MothmanNFT I do not think you're the a*shole for not...

not explaining why but I do think you're the a*shole...

front. So I guess Esh?

FatSadHappy They shouldn't be giving you trouble about it but...

alcohol or not - your choice. But warning about no...

it might affect choice if say driving vs expensive Uber...

cla*s="comment_author">Additional_Day949: YTA: Honestly you might have an actually riot on...

there is no alcohol if you don't warn people beforehand....

Every culture is different, but I go to a wedding...

Cannabis-aficionado YTA, and I'm sober, too.

At least make it known it's a dry wedding to...

I feel you're keeping this a secret because it might...

hibernativenaptosis I don't think you're an AH but this does...

like you're on the path to create a lot of...

Slight_Necessary8246 NTA - you are not obligated to have alcohol...

You are the a*shole for not putting it on the...

This isn't because they are alcoholics, just some people aren't...

aphrahannah but they don't get to: You don't owe anyone...

But they also dont owe you a complete acceptance of...

And they are free to debate whether weddings should be...

And they're going to guess that you're just demanding for...

champagneformyrealfr NTA for not wanting to talk about your personal...

but if you don't want people to react on the...

if you don't tell them, everyone will a*sume there will...

edc7 YTA for not informing people up front.

JSmith666 YTA-Not for not having alcohol at your wedding perse...

amount of steps to try and make their just not...

Like it or not alcohol at weddings in western cultures...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with the host’s concerns about safety and responsibility, especially with children around a pool. Several commenters agree that alcohol near water is a dangerous combination and commend the host for prioritizing safety over tradition. Others suggest compromises or additional supervision, but the consensus leans toward respecting the host’s rules since it is their property and event.

In my opinion, the host is right to set boundaries that ensure everyone’s safety and comfort. Hosting a celebration should not come at the cost of feeling pressured to accept risky behavior. While some family members may see the rules as strict, ultimately, the host has the final say in how their space is used. Finding a balance between fun and safety is key, and in this case, the host’s approach is a responsible and reasonable solution.

Ankit

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