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AITA for giving my housemate an ultimatum regarding her cat?

by Ankit
September 19, 2025
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In a shared house where responsibility intertwines with compassion, a fragile life depended on the promise made by one to care for a rescued cat struggling with obesity. The hopeful beginning, marked by agreement and understanding, soon unraveled as neglect crept in—forgotten litter boxes and broken vows to maintain a strict diet—turning care into chaos.

As the cat’s health spiraled, suffering in silence with constant diarrhea and discomfort, the housemates were caught in a heartbreaking struggle between empathy and frustration. What started as a shared commitment became a painful lesson in the consequences of broken promises, revealing the deep emotional toll neglect can inflict on both the innocent and those who witness it.

AITA for giving my housemate an ultimatum regarding her cat?

So, I'm living in a house with two others (All...

a condition of adoption for this cat was to keep...

All is well and good, housemate agrees to all condition...

All is pretty fine most of the time aside from...

I think OK fair enough maybe she just hasn't realized...

The diet she agreed to keep the cat on was...

`So, cat starts having constant diarrhea, which, due to the...

Myself and our other housemate tell her that she needs...

After another 2 months of this she has continuously refused...

both of which she has an absurd amount of since...

and she doesn't have any work commitments whatsoever.

More recently she has added spending days at a time...

the cat usually freaks out at this and scratches at...

We've been letting her cat out of course but we...

diet that we would be taking the cat to the...

Her response to this was to tell us that we're...

She has since blocked communication through messenger which is realistically...

What do you think of this story?





AFTER THIS STORY DROPPED, REDDIT WENT INTO MELTDOWN MODE – CHECK OUT WHAT PEOPLE SAID.

Madam_Cholet NTA, but screw making an ultimatum,

just take the cat back to the shelter so it...

TheOtherOneK Save your messages to her, take pics/videos,

then return cat to the shelter with pics/videos for proof...

as well as you & other roommate.

ashes2ashes33 Edit: NTA: NTA I'm the other housemate and while...

or anything, I would continually asked her like, 'hey, are...

' One time she told me it was because she...

She has the biggest wardrobe in the house.

Fujoshi_kun I wou: You would only be TA if you...

Thank you for caring more for that cat than the...

Please make sure the cat goes back to the shelter...

MissDoneWithThisShit NTA if she's leaving it unattended for long periods...

not cleaning up after it I would be calling the...

Also call the place she got it from and tell...

ieya404 hardly ever around and your worried about the: >...

since the cat is "her business", I a*sume that means...

;) No, in all seriousness - she took on a...

sathelitha I appreciate all of the input here and I'll...

morning. - Contacted the shelter this morning, they're opening an...

- She fled with the cat to her boyfriends place...

FirebirdWriter NTA but don't wait. Report her for neglect and...

Think about the living h**l it is in. It's possible...

I am a cat expert having done feral rehabilitation and...

Some of this includes getting shelters shut down that were...

cla*s="comment_author">timeactor: NTA. sounds to me, she will always have someone...

no_good_woords She will not care, whatever you do, she never...

That is a living animal were talking about. She agreed...

If she doesnt take the cat to the vet in...

Reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many readers sympathize with the frustration of living with a housemate who neglects their responsibilities, especially when it comes to the wellbeing of a vulnerable pet. Most commenters agree that the cat’s health and hygiene needs should be prioritized, and that the housemate’s disregard for the agreed-upon diet and litter box cleaning is both unfair and harmful. Some suggest having a serious conversation with the housemate or even contacting the rescue shelter for advice or intervention.

In my opinion, the situation highlights the importance of clear communication and accountability when sharing living spaces and caring for pets. The cat’s health is clearly deteriorating due to negligence, and it’s not just a minor inconvenience anymore—it’s a welfare issue. The other housemates should consider setting firm boundaries or involving the shelter to ensure the cat receives the proper care it needs. At the end of the day, adopting a pet comes with serious responsibilities, and ignoring those can have real consequences for everyone involved.

Ankit

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