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AITA for telling my boyfriend’s friends I’d rather not vacation with them and that they’re gluttonous?

by Ankit
September 23, 2025
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In the tapestry of love and friendship, sometimes the threads that bind us also unravel our deepest hopes. She had trusted the promise of a magical weekend, envisioning laughter and shared adventures with both her boyfriend and his closest friends. Yet, beneath the surface of what should have been joy, a quiet tension brewed, threatening to overshadow the very essence of their time together.

As the group descended into routine and dissatisfaction, her dreams of connection and fun faded into the background, replaced by frustration and a sense of isolation. The vibrant magic of Disneyland became a stark contrast to the cold reality of unmet expectations, revealing the fragile balance between companionship and individual desires.

AITA for telling my boyfriend’s friends I’d rather not vacation with them and that they’re gluttonous?

I (23f) have been with my boyfriend (28m) for 4...

Over the years they have become my friends as well...

Now here's where it all starts. Back in February 2019,...

It was originally going to be just us 2, but...

4 were guys and 2 were women and they were...

I agreed since I thought that it would be fun,...

They only wanted to eat at the various Disney restaurants....

The food is overpriced and I just don't feel comfortable...

but they sat along while their partners ate. This would...

but they guilted him into not leaving them behind "we...

Fast forward to this past weekend, the original Disney 6...

One of the guys said he'd love to join us...

" I paused, and then said to the group "To...

" My boyfriend's closest friend asked why I didn't want...

" He then followed up with "Oh you didn't have...

It's okay if you do, but it's clear we're just...

After they left, my boyfriend said I was being a...

What do you think of this story?





AFTER THIS STORY DROPPED, REDDIT WENT INTO MELTDOWN MODE – CHECK OUT WHAT PEOPLE SAID.

Fleetdancer YTA. How to keep friends: "I want this to...

but we should all hang out again soon." How to...

stressedstud " Guess which one you picked?: YTA.

I'm sorry that your Disney experience last time didn't go...

moralprolapse But, calling them fat for them enjoying food on...

There's nothing wrong with feeling the way you felt, but...

You should've pulled your bf aside and told him what...

peanutb**ter_vibez That would've been fine, no hurt feelings.: YTA.

You called them gluttonous to their faces instead of just...

I didn't have a lot of fun in that group...

I'd be cool if we didn't repeat that or if...

acmack78 YTA,.

All you had to do was remove gluttonous and stick...

a fun vacation. Instead you were rude in your choice...

HermioneGranger7243 Edit: spelling: YTA. Your boyfriend was right, that was...

You should not have voiced those opinions (and voiced them...

You should have waited until after the night was over...

Bookish4269 they left. Now you are the high maintenance B...

People saying you were rude seem to be missing the...

Your friends were *incredibly* rude to invite themselves along when...

It is simply *not ok* to presume to invite yourself...

It puts the person in the uncomfortable position of having...

LJnosywritter ESH but some more than others.

They shouldn't have invented themself, your SO shouldn't have agreed...

But you didn't need to name call or call them...

Unless over 2 days they had something like 20 full...

DepressedDyslexic If you had said "actually I'd like this to...

would have been N T A. Inviting themselves wasn't great...

But you swung so far into ah territory with judging...

justalilb*mblebee NTA for wanting to holiday your way,

but using the word "gluttonous" makes you sound like you...

Food tourism is a huge thing,

and if thats how they want to spend their holiday...

Edit: two to/too corrections

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with the original poster’s frustration. The consensus seems to be that while it’s understandable for the boyfriend to want to include his close friends, the dynamics of the group outing clearly didn’t align with her expectations, leading to a disappointing experience. Many commenters suggested better communication beforehand about the plan and considering everyone’s interests to avoid such mismatched outings in the future.

In my opinion, the story highlights a common relationship challenge—balancing time and activities between your partner and your shared social circle. It’s important for couples to discuss and set clear boundaries or compromises for group events to ensure everyone enjoys themselves. This Disneyland trip could have been a great bonding experience, but it ended up exposing underlying differences in preferences and priorities that need to be addressed openly.

Ankit

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