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AITAH if I tell my friend who is pursuing music that she can’t sing

by Ankit
September 25, 2025
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Two friends, bound by years of shared history and dreams, find themselves at a crossroads where passion clashes with harsh reality. One, a talented writer turned hopeful singer, chases a bright future in LA’s music scene, while the other grapples with the painful truth of watching someone they love pursue a dream that may not be meant for her.

Caught between loyalty and honesty, the silent question lingers: when does support become enabling, and when does honesty become a necessary act of love? In the face of inevitable heartbreak, the line between encouragement and confrontation blurs, leaving friendship hanging in a delicate balance.

AITAH if I tell my friend who is pursuing music that she can’t sing

My (23F) friend (23F) who I've known since freshman year...

She is an incredible writer and went to a great...

She has released 3 songs and has an alb*m on...

And she's even worse live. All of her LA friends...

telling her she is amazing and supporting her but I...

" I want to support her and her future but...

Would it be better for a friend to say something,...

UPDATE: thank you everyone for a lot of constructive criticism...

I appreciate the reminder that art is never objective and...

What do you think of this story?





THE COMMENTS SECTION WENT WILD – REDDIT HAD *A LOT* TO SAY ABOUT THIS ONE.

nimzszn This is such a difficult situation because you're d**ned...

The worst part is that it seems like this is...

and you don't want to be the person to crush...

If you don't tell her, someone else will sooner or...

Tinaturtle79 as: Unless she sits you down and pleads for...

think she's not getting traction, keep it to yourself. If...

I'd say that the industry is so tough and you...

Jocelyn-1973 YWBTA. Perhaps she can't sing - or perhaps you...

There are definitely professional singers that earn a living singing...

Everything you say about it is subjective. Let nature handle...

pfooh she will not sell a lot - and she...

You do not tell her that she cannot sing. You...

First, she can learn to sing. Vocal lessons and a...

Third, quality and taste are very subjective. You want to...

a**eholierthanthou INFO: You mentioned she'd done live gigs, as well...

What's the reception been like from her audience? If it's...

then I think you have a reasonable objective a*sessment. If...

then I think it might be just your subjective opinion...

AffectionateBuy5877 YTA -be prepared to lose your friendship if you...

There are also quite a few examples of singers who...

If amazing singing alone got you a record deal then...

kurokomainu they all sound?). Just be th: YWBTA because there...

She is not going to say "Thanks for telling me!...

Here's me thinking I was pursuing my dream and all...

Obviously your opinion is right and everyone else's, including my...

Worldly_Science239 If she's getting gigs... if she's getting auditions... then...

The experience is what she is getting right now. She...

And let's be honest here, the marketplace will let her...

Exact_Holiday_4018 YWBTA if you think it is.: Good question.

In my friendship when I encountered something similar at ur...

Savingdollars We both ended up changing our career paths, stayed...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with the dilemma of wanting to support a friend while also being concerned about their realistic chances of success. Most agree that honesty, when delivered with kindness and sensitivity, can be more helpful than blind encouragement. The consensus seems to be that preserving the friendship and the friend’s dignity should come first, and that gently encouraging improvement or exploring other talents might be a better approach than outright criticism or silence.

In my opinion, it’s a tough but necessary conversation to have if the goal is to truly support her growth and well-being. Sometimes, friends can help by being honest yet encouraging, helping her find her true strengths rather than enabling a potentially harmful illusion. Ultimately, balancing kindness with honesty is the best way to support someone chasing their dreams, especially in a brutally competitive field like music.

Ankit

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