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AITA for saying I wont pay for my daughters education if she switches her major?

by Ankit
September 26, 2025
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A father’s decade-long dream to secure his daughter’s future is shaken in an instant. He invested years of hope and hard-earned savings into her passion for computer science, believing it was the key to her success. But now, with a simple revelation, that foundation wavers.

The daughter’s unexpected decision to change her major is more than just a shift in academic focus—it becomes a moment charged with fear, disappointment, and the fragile balance between support and sacrifice. Their bond is tested as they confront the uncertain path ahead.

AITA for saying I wont pay for my daughters education if she switches her major?

As I said in my t*tle, last night I sat...

She has just started her first semester and I'm the...

as long as I feel she is actually setting herself...

She took ever cla*s she could on programming and computer...

I supported her through all this because I thought this...

This last week she was on fall break so she...

My daughter yesterday morning decided to casually drop that she's...

She is planning on switching into the liberal arts program....

but I was honestly a little shocked by how casually...

When I tried to get why she was switching all...

Apparently she has been talking with the councilors up there...

I tried to ask her the regular stuff "what about...

And she decided to ignore me and tell me that...

I'm the one paying for this I feel I have...

she is an adult. I am the one paying for...

But she needs to put more thought into the change...

And if in the end she decides that she's an...

We fought and she left saying i'm trying to control...

My ex called me up after and told me that...

​ All I want is for my daughter to have...

I have read a good amount of the responses on...

Before I say anything else let me clarify my position...

I do not have a problem with my daughter getting...

If my daughter called me up now and gave me...

I would support her 100{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f}. I don't care what my...

I am looking to spend over one hundred thousand dollars...

The least I feel I can ask of my daughter...

I get that young adults who go to college are...

And many of you have told me that I should...

For those two last points, I feel you are wrong....

This is what I have saved for 10 years to...

For people who claim that I should be throwing my...

Giving my daughter money for free, in my opinion, is...

Supporting her as she makes a choice she has given...

And the fact that she seems to think that I...

I am not arguing whether or not I am wrong....

​ I called my daughter and left a message saying...

If my daughter wants to go into LA, then that...

What do you think of this story?





HERE’S HOW REDDIT BLEW UP AFTER HEARING THIS – PEOPLE COULDN’T BELIEVE IT.

m***erousbudgie INFO. On what basis do you believe that liberal...

Most of my law school cla*s were liberal arts majors....

Tech is great, but let's be honest, if you're going...

proteins911 NTA it sounds like you don't care what she...

CourtOfPublicApplaus That seems entirely reasonable: >

I tried to ask her the regular stuff "what about...

And she decided to ignore me and tell me that...

Sounds very immature, and honestly, most college age kids still...

gingeralidocious at the point where the human is mature: YTA...

your relationship with your daughter, but speaking as someone who...

Every day I see students forced to pursue degrees they...

Happytequila I'm going out on a limb and saying NAH....

Like a proper sit down, calmly discuss concerns and ask...

I can't call you TA because honestly, I wish my...

But now I'm 32 with a useless degree, very specific...

12heidi and a ton of d: NTA Her group of...

It really is sad, as a teacher, to see students...

just to fit in with "the right friends". That degree...

and tell her that if she changes her mind,

H**lhound265 the money is there waiting for her to get...

education. Choice and freedom comes with a price tag and...

​ You're not exactly controlling her life and if she...

she needs to be able to support her own decisions...

snowlover324 NTA College isn't summer camp. The goal isn't to...

If she has no idea what she wants to do...

but not on my dime." I watched many friends take...

" when choosing their major,

labellementeuse only for them to wind up wit: Everyone in...

daughter and why should you do that if you're not...

She's your daughter. You're not investing in her so you...

You're spending money on her education to help her start...

cla*s="comment_author">viggysmalls: INFO: Would you pay for the degree if she...

I was very interested in history, I wanted to study...

He told me he didn't have the confidence that studying...

He said he'll make a bet with me, if I...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with both the parent and the daughter. Some commenters believe the parent is justified in wanting to protect their investment and ensure a stable future for their child, while others argue that a student’s happiness and passion should come first, even if it means switching majors. Many suggest open communication and compromise to find a balance between financial support and personal fulfillment.

In my opinion, while the parent’s concerns about financial responsibility are valid, it’s important to remember that college is also a time for growth and exploration. Pressuring the daughter to stick with a major she no longer feels passionate about could backfire in the long run. Encouraging her to pursue what truly interests her might lead to greater success and happiness, even if it means reassessing financial plans along the way.

Ankit

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