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AITA for hanging up on an old friend while she cried about her divorce?

by Emily Davis
October 16, 2025
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For a decade, their friendship was a turbulent dance of shared memories and silent battles. Beneath the laughter and good times lay Bethany’s deep insecurities, manifesting as relentless competition that chipped away at the young woman’s confidence. Each achievement was shadowed by Bethany’s need to outshine, turning what should have been support into a battlefield of comparison.

The breaking point came in the darkest moment of loss, when grief demanded compassion but only met silence. As the woman faced the shattering death of her parents, Bethany chose her wedding plans over a friend’s pain, revealing the true colors of their bond. The painful decision to walk away was not just about ending a friendship, but reclaiming self-worth and peace from the ashes of neglect.

AITA for hanging up on an old friend while she cried about her divorce?

For 10 years I (25) was friends with Bethany (31)....

If I achieved something, Bethany had all ready done it...

I was very immature myself and snapped at her a...

At this point Bethany was engaged. This made our relationship...

But the final straw was when my parents died in...

I realized our relationship was emotionally draining and she didn't...

Bethany reached out to me to tell me she had...

She was crying in her call, saying she just needed...

maybe the years of building resentment and anger finally spewing...

Click. My boyfriend who overheard the call was shocked by...

We later discussed things, I explained my relationship with Bethany,...

So Reddit, was this action so bad I'm an a*shole?

What do you think of this story?





HERE’S HOW REDDIT BLEW UP AFTER HEARING THIS – PEOPLE COULDN’T BELIEVE IT.

gnimmuc6898 NTA your boyfriend is a jerk too DiamanteDog: NTA...

sorry she wasn't there for you. I'd be furious in...

" Like, you're supposed to breezily move past your friend...

_Kenndrah_ NTA I actually don't find what you said too...

It was blunt and honest but just saying "I don't...

You didn't swear or have a go at her;

you just told her straight up that you're not expending...

diesalittle NTA and I cannot the believe the people in...

cla*s="comment_author">tiredblonde: NTA. I get where you're coming from; people like...

Every time she needed you, you were there. It seems...

You distanced yourself after realizing that the friendship was one-sided....

you need to put your own mental health first in...

wanderl**tbunn NTA you need a new boyfriend and new friends...

NTA and talk to your bf about him placing importance...

hhogg11 NTA- you owe her NOTHING.

HufflepuffPrincess7 First of all NTA because you're right you owe...

kinder but then again she could've reached out when your...

Second you said you were friends for 10 years and...

I hope she wasn't shocked when you would act immaturely...

strawberrylipsticks you were friends with a 21 year old at...

NTA of course and i'd say rethink your relationship with...

reconnect, but the narrator remains cautious, recognizing the emotional toll their friendship took. Many commenters empathized with the narrator, praising their decision to prioritize mental health and setting boundaries despite the long history. Some expressed hope that Bethany had grown and matured, while others warned about repeating toxic patterns if the relationship resumed without significant change.

In my opinion, this story highlights the importance of self-awareness and the courage it takes to walk away from relationships that harm us, even if they have deep roots. Friendships, like any relationship, should uplift and support, not drain and diminish. The narrator’s experience serves as a reminder that sometimes, letting go is the healthiest choice, and healing begins with valuing one’s own well-being above all.

Emily Davis

Emily writes heartfelt stories about family, parenting, and personal growth.

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