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WIBTA if I didn’t adopt my dead husbands children?

by Emily Davis
October 16, 2025
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A woman once stood on the edge of a broken family, caught between the shadows of a bitter past and the fragile ties of love. Married to a man with children from a previous life, she was never truly their mother, but now, with his sudden death, she faces an unimaginable crossroads. The children, once distant and out of reach, have become her silent responsibility as their mother battles a cruel terminal illness.

In the quiet aftermath of loss and looming sorrow, a plea bridges the chasm of resentment and grief. She is asked to become the guardian of lives intertwined with pain and hope, to step into a role she never sought but cannot refuse. This is a story of unexpected duty, resilience, and the haunting question of what it truly means to be family.

WIBTA if I didn’t adopt my dead husbands children?

H**lo, I of course know how awful this sounds. But...

Before I married my husband he had 3 children with...

But it's true) as they had only been divorced officially...

Unfortunately we only ended up getting weekends and the complete...

So it goes without saying i wasn't much of a...

My husband pa*sed away 2 years ago in an accident...

His wife called me up sometime last month to reveal...

Both her and my husbands parents are far to old...

who would be able to care for and support the...

She said her sister suffers from addiction and I'm not...

I told her I'd consider and needed to think it...

For her children when she's dead so soon but I'm...

What do you think of this story?





HERE’S HOW REDDIT BLEW UP AFTER HEARING THIS – PEOPLE COULDN’T BELIEVE IT.

chickenrer NAH. That is a tough decision to make. Good...

pet*t_cochon NAH but I would personally find it impossible to...

foster care. I know this is reddit,

and we're all (probably) westerners who strongly believe in taking...

but I urge you to consider another perspective.

themarshmallowdiva I work with children in foster care and adults...

I'm so sorry this series of events has fallen at...

If you aren't 150{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f} on board, don't even consider it....

Especially someone ELSE's children. This is a very serious decision....

CanadianKatfish Maybe reunite with the kids and see what sparks.

Find out what they want and how you feel around...

Remember also, these kids were the apples of your husband's...

Even if the two of you decided not to have...

anonymous-account-87 For people who thought it was relevant: •We were...

•the kids are now (10, 10,

14) •no we never got around to having kids of...

could reasonably support the three of them provided we all...

cla*s="comment_author">CyberTractor: NTA If you're not prepared to adopt three children,...

rosepetalmemories Info How long were you and your husband married?...

greenba***rdette NAH - it's a shit situation but ultimately not...

It's hard for me to believe they'd be better off...

wh3nlifegivesUl3mons ANYONE else currently in their lives.: NAH. This is...

this is obvious as foster care is less than ideal....

this is a huge commitment and burden to place on...

You would not be TA or even a bad person...

Order66-Cody This is tough, I'm gonna say NAH.

3 kids are a lot, especially as they have lost(...

However, I understand the mother side of it too. Dam...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with the complexity of the situation. The original poster is caught between grief, unresolved family tensions, and a heavy responsibility thrust upon her unexpectedly. Commenters often highlight the importance of communication and the well-being of the children, acknowledging that while the request is emotionally challenging, it comes from a place of concern for the kids’ future.

In my opinion, it’s a heartbreaking but crucial moment for all involved. The ex-wife’s terminal illness adds urgency to making a decision that prioritizes stability and love for the children. The original poster may feel unsure, but taking the time to consider the children’s needs and seeking support—whether from family, friends, or professionals—could make all the difference in navigating this difficult transition.

Emily Davis

Emily writes heartfelt stories about family, parenting, and personal growth.

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