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AITA for helping one of my sisters pay for college because she helped out with my kid but not the other

by Jane Smith
October 16, 2025
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In the quiet struggle of starting anew, a young woman and her husband dared to chase their dreams, abandoning stable jobs to build a business from the ground up while welcoming an unplanned child into their lives. Their journey was marked by hardship and hope, with the unexpected kindness of family—especially the youngest sister, whose unwavering support became a beacon of light amid the storm.

Now thriving against all odds, they offer a lifeline to the sister who stood by them, covering her college expenses as a heartfelt thank you. But when their other sister, who once distanced herself from their struggles, asks for help, the bonds of family are tested, revealing the complex tapestry of love, gratitude, and expectation.

AITA for helping one of my sisters pay for college because she helped out with my kid but not the other

I(27f) have two sisters (21f) and (17f). My husband and...

It was unplanned but we ended up deciding to keep...

One of my sisters is childfree and is not a...

Now our business is doing great, it's actually done even...

My youngest sister is starting college this year and we...

She's helped us out with our kid many times and...

My other sister who is in college heard about us...

We refused because it just wasn't something we were interested...

Now my parents are saying it's unfair and to at...

Again, my husband and I weren't really interested in that...

What do you think of this story?





THE COMMENTS SECTION WENT WILD – REDDIT HAD *A LOT* TO SAY ABOUT THIS ONE.

Embarra*sed-Bridge-8 YTA.

I'm unsure why you feel the need to tell us...

I'm also unsure how your 21 year old sister could...

the 21 year old would have been in college. I...

you're playing favourites with your sisters. Your call, but don't...

combatwombat1192 INFO: Need more context on your sisters. What's your...

What were they doing when you needed a babysitter? How...

You can do what you want with your own money....

But, if she's an otherwise lovely person, she's not wrong...

Book_devourer Nta You are repaying a very large favor to...

WhatTheVoss The same isn't true for the other sister. Your...

I get it - It is your money, you decide...

But more information is needed, since this is such a...

So the youngest probably had more free time and did...

What if the youngest absolutely loves children, but the older...

- off course she would not want to babysit then....

was she close to graduating back then, moving away, having...

I get that you want to reward the youngest for...

but this is such a large amount that I speculate...

I feel like the older one is getting punished for...

I don't know based on the info.

Why not reward the youngest if she really faces hardship...

She does face a managable future right now, since her...

Although I say you are the a*shole, then they cannot...

Baroness_Mayhem NTA - what you're doing sounds perfectly reasonable.

The older sister could have helped, she chose not to....

CarlowCarlo NTA and pay off a $65k loan, crazy? Unless...

Jigs2113 I actually think you are The A*shole unfortunately.

I don't think helping out your sibling with childcare means...

Maybe I don't know the full story,

but was your other sister just too busy with her...

If I were you I would pay for both of...

Even if you are justified in only paying for your...

I would advise you to consider the consequences this will...

I wouldn't blame your 21f sister at all if she...

Consistent_Language9 even if it was justified. YTA: Technically NTA, but...

I'm going to a*sume there's a bunch of other messed...

I can't imagine being willing to give one sibling 10s...

Especially when the timeline seems like one was a minor...

their own. (Couple years ago =2/3?, so one was 19/18...

but isn't it pretty well known that new business usually...

Then had a baby. I'm glad it worked out, but...

JohnDeere714 NTA. The youngest actually helped you and you're returning...

rogerdavies The other is just ent*tled and you don't owe...

(but older sibling) helped you out by not meddling in...

She knew or guessed or maybe couldn't care much about...

She may have different opinions and obligations that would eventually...

The real question is: Do you think she will be...

If you are absolutely sure about this then don't. That's...

BUT your whole argument about your interests means you are...

TLDR: YTA because it interest you to be one.

A 17years old has/or should have less on her plate...

Edit: Another idea: were your pregnancy happen sooner, the roles...

Your younger sister a rebellious kid who would endanger your...

And the middle sister was the help Because she didn't...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people sympathize with the original poster’s generous offer to support her youngest sister, who has been a huge help during tough times. Most agree that it’s reasonable to reward someone who has been so selfless, especially when the family has pulled through difficult financial situations together. However, there is also some concern over the older sister’s reaction and whether she might feel entitled to the same assistance, despite not having contributed in the same way.

In my opinion, the situation highlights the complexities of family dynamics and financial support. While it’s admirable that the poster and her husband want to help their youngest sister, they shouldn’t feel obligated to extend the same help to the older sister if the circumstances don’t align. Setting clear boundaries while appreciating those who have genuinely supported them is important, and hopefully, open communication will help prevent any resentment or misunderstandings going forward.

Jane Smith

Jane loves exploring new cultures and writing about travel and lifestyle.

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