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I Told My Dying Brother I Didn’t Like Him And My Mom Threatened To Kick Me Out

by Jane Smith
October 16, 2025
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From the moment he was born, the arrival of the younger brother was a bittersweet twist in a family’s carefully laid plans—a “happy surprise” shadowed by the weight of Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy. While parents clung to hope and love, their hearts bore the silent fear of what this diagnosis would mean, and a daughter once only child found her world irrevocably shifted.

Years of distance and resentment grew between siblings divided by age, experience, and the heavy demands of illness. As the boy’s condition worsened, the fragile balance of attention and affection strained, revealing the quiet, aching loneliness that often hides behind family bonds tested by circumstance.

AITA for absolutely despising my physically disabled brother?

When I was 13, my parents had my younger brother....

The main reason they only wanted one child is because...

My brother was born and my mom started noticing signs...

My parents have always ma*sively babied him, he has little...

and gets away with it because my parents don't want...

I've never connected with him at all, it's an awkward...

As well as that, I went from being an only...

Over the past year or so, he has deteriorated greatly...

He can't walk and requires a wheelchair, which meant giving...

In all honesty I find it quite embarra*sing having so...

He's already started showing signs of heart deterioration which means...

With the rate at which he's deteriorating, he's not expected...

I'm a key worker so I had just got home...

My mom asked me to watch him so she could...

he's not strong enough to move his own wheelchair" and...

As I said, we don't have a relationship and I...

He kept pestering me and eventually said "why do you...

My mom walked back in at that exact moment and...

I told her it's not like she'd notice anyway because...

I've read pretty much all your comments now, and all...

I have come to the conclusion that I have been...

He has limited time here and I'm going to make...

I apologised to my brother and he asked me to...

What do you think of this story?





AFTER THIS STORY DROPPED, REDDIT WENT INTO MELTDOWN MODE – CHECK OUT WHAT PEOPLE SAID.

HolyScheizze Not only are YTA, but you're also a major...

Your brother only has so much time left with you,...

You're 20 years old, stop acting so f**king childish.

senortipton After all these months of browsing AITA this is...

I have been in a very similar position to you...

u/unacaoimhe, some background so you can understand our similarities and...

**Backstory: ** When I was just 4 years old my...

He was, for all anyone could tell, a normal, healthy...

At 4 years old I had been very excited to...

I could not wait for him to get older. Several...

Unfortunately,

the amount of time he was off of oxygen resulted...

The doctors told my mother at the time that if...

and develop his sense of self since he could not...

At the time this was way too much for a...

My mother decided she would not give up on my...

Medicine at that time was not as advanced as it...

aspects except for a mild form of cerebral palsy. Despite...

it was a long road to reach this point and...

Having a brother who could not fulfill my own selfish...

developmental stage led to a deep-seated hatred for my brother...

That hatred would continue for many years until recently.

My brother's issues (like uncontrollable bowel movements and constantly injuring...

already fragile relationship and led to their separation. My parents...

I moved around at least every 2 years. Just enough...

I had nobody to look to but myself and as...

During that time my parents lived far enough away that...

was my view at the time) with all of these...

both physically and emotionally, and I regret it every time...

When I finally left for college I felt the most...

I could finally do everything I ever wanted without my...

Eventually my brother, who at this point was almost normal,...

My mother, whom it was no secret to that I...

I don't know how she got a hold of it,...

How since he was a little kid he had always...

wouldn't make fun of me, etc. etc. and how he...

How his entire inspiration for never giving up and trying...

despite all of the a**se I put him through. I...

That scenario led me to do serious introspection and I...

**Judgement: ** So as you can see I understand your...

I have lived with it for most of my life....

for me to take care of my brother like that,

for me to lose out on my childhood in many...

Your parents are certainly a*sholes for having a kid anyways...

but **YOU ARE MOST CERTAINLY YTA** because of what you...

I don't want you or your brother to live with...

Learn to accept him and your situation and treat him...

you are the light of his life and his hope...

dr** Yta for how you treated your brother, even more...

writesgud I'm trying to understand how someone could write this...

I can only guess that it's either fake, or real...

He wants to spend time with you. You don't have...

and it's understandable that you had to go through a...

But how many people still complain about getting the short...

You don't have to like him, and you can understandably...

but it's as if an earthquake hit your house 7...

Accept that you have a brother who's not doing well,...

You don't have to like it, but you don't get...

Let's say you got someone pregnant and had a new,...

Because that's what your parents are going through. Have some...

They asked you for a simple favor, watch your brother...

and even then you couldn't do that one small thing...

I don't know what it will take, but you've really...

You have a very sick brother, and parents who are...

You have it better than all of them, and yet...

If you can't do even that, then at least stop...

2nd edit: you may deep down think that everything will...

Because your parents will look back on this time with...

If you were a resentful a*shole, that's going to color...

You aren't to blame for the situation you're in, but...

And let me say, others have gone through far, far...

elliegalloooo i really wanted to give you the benefit of...

i understand you have a lot of resentment bc you...

i'm sorry your parents don't give you the love and...

to his face you don't like him when all he...

nor your parents. they're in a tough situation and i...

jesskunkel you're 20, if you're so bothered by him then...

It's not like he chose to be disabled. I understand...

You have no right to take out your anger at...

If you can't take not getting attention, then move out!

Also giant YTA for the part where you say you're...

I think your friends would understand that the equipment is...

M4Strings ESH except your brother. You suck for treating your...

I understand being resentful, but never once did you think...

Your parents really suck, not only for knowing the risks...

aspartameheart YTA - not for "not having a relationship" with...

but your generally a*sholish behavior and att*tude. You kid brother...

Might he be spoiled - maybe, I'm not there, but...

But even there, I get your parents wanting to spoil...

On your parents: it does not sound like they ask...

"Could you please look out for your younger sibling" is...

Honestly, I don't get your rage towards this child? Sure,...

You don't have to be best pals - but surely...

it's not like he can go anywhere, he's not strong...

NewYorkDancer as well as flat out teling a 7-year-old that...

Sorry, but he is a dead man rolling.n He may...

The only payment you are required to do is to...

badb-crow I just really, really hope you never have a...

Like,

I'm so very sorry (I'm not) that your parents are...

have his medical equipment in the house. What a hardship....

ArtPresence Move out. What? Not able to take care of...

YTA and your anger is misplaced on your brother.

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with the complex emotions involved in this family dynamic. The original poster’s feelings of resentment and disconnect are understandable given the sudden shift from being an only child to suddenly having a sibling with significant medical needs. Many commenters highlighted the importance of compassion and the challenges parents face in balancing care between siblings, especially with a serious illness like Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy.

In my opinion, this story sheds light on the often unseen emotional struggles within families dealing with chronic illness. While the parents’ focus on their son’s care is natural, it’s crucial to acknowledge and address the emotional needs of all children involved. Open communication and family support can help bridge gaps and foster connections, even when circumstances are difficult. Ultimately, understanding and empathy from all sides can lead to stronger family bonds despite the hardships.

Jane Smith

Jane loves exploring new cultures and writing about travel and lifestyle.

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