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AITA for not giving my ex’s wife more time with my kids and not including her in IEP discussions?

by Charlie Brown
October 16, 2025
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In the quiet unraveling of a marriage, love was slowly eclipsed by the relentless demands of work. What began as shared dreams and tender moments became shadowed by late nights at the office and missed celebrations, leaving a family caught in the wake of an ever-consuming obsession.

Amid the silence of abandoned anniversaries and neglected birthdays, a mother watches her partner drift further away, lost to the glow of a computer screen. The echoes of what once was now haunt the empty spaces where connection used to live, revealing a painful truth about sacrifice and the cost of ambition.

AITA for not giving my ex’s wife more time with my kids and not including her in IEP discussions?

I (34f) have three children (11, 10 and 8) with...

But he became a workaholic to the extreme. I'm talking...

He also skipped social events or time as a family...

He skipped his own mother's 60th birthday party to finish...

He also used to disappear inside and go do work...

For me the final straw was when he bailed on...

which was going to make him even busier. He was...

He'd maybe take a few hours some weekends to spend...

But he was willing to stay married and have more...

When we divorced and figured out custody he was upfront...

Originally a judge gave him 50/50 but his parents or...

He'd just sleep at the office or sneak in and...

To his credit that one weekend a month he does...

And I hate that they're so used to it and...

But at least he was honest about it instead of...

I don't know much about his wife but she was...

A month after they got married she called and asked...

I told her to speak to her husband about the...

She called another time and told me she wanted to...

She told the kids she wanted to see them more...

When my ex's wife was pregnant she wanted the kids...

My ex wasn't involved in that and when I spoke...

They rarely interacted with her at the house because my...

But when they were in his house and not actively...

Now her baby is here and she's very demanding.

She wants to see the kids more and she told...

which my kids do not want and we have talked...

The meetings for those only include the legal parents (be...

So she is insisting I find a way to include...

She told me she should be a part of discussing...

I also mentioned it to my ex but he was...

She is growing more angry and has accused me of...

She said she's the mother to their sibling and nobody...

I feel like I'm doing the right thing but I...

What do you think of this story?





AFTER THIS STORY DROPPED, REDDIT WENT INTO MELTDOWN MODE – CHECK OUT WHAT PEOPLE SAID.

ElenaElena85 How on earth did your ex find the time...

and have a child with someone when he barely makes...

ca*sowary32 NTA,

she probably convinced herself that her husband's custody was because...

gaps. It's going to take her some time to realize...

Maybe she needs to see the custody documents, they might...

You need to document the pressure she's putting on the...

Cute-Profession9983 NTA she's delusional and wants everyone to participate in...

Dry_Ask5493 She married the workaholic so she's trying to play...

I would tell her to back all the way off...

She hardly knows your kids so why in the world...

She needs to stop because it's not going to happen.

Hmm-1996 NTA she obviously had an idea what it would...

Unfortunately she married a man who didn't care about spending...

She needs to adjust her expectations.

If the dad was more involved with the kids maybe...

worked out. And noes she's having a baby of her...

There are fantastic step parents out there where the kids...

that's not going to happen as you don't need to...

You don't need to accommodate her because she married your...

ACM915 You are the one who's raising the kids: NTA-...

and she thinks that your children should be willing to...

She is not looking out for your children's best interest,...

If your ex-husband has not changed, then I doubt his...

United-Manner20 NTA and giving the information to your lawyer was...

I would ask your lawyer if you guys have enough...

and she's not to discuss this with your children.

I have a feeling that your ex led her to...

If she is increasing in her demands and getting angry,

that's going to spill over onto your children and you...

You know that your ex is not gonna step up...

he would step up and do the right thing and...

bookishmama_76 NTA - you should tell her to talk to...

Custody and the distant relationship with the kids is all...

She can't expect to build a real relationship with them...

Tell her that she should take into consideration that her...

freaking weekend a month. His lack of effort as a...

Then tell her to stop pressuring the kids and to...

Keep all communication with her via text or email for...

What I want to know is why in the h**l...

Otherwise_Degree_729 produce yet another kid who will not know his...

Who in their right mind gets married and has a...

Ladies and gentlemen **people don't change for anyone** if they...

Your ex should get a vasectomy. Why the fck does...

Due-Show-7250 She's delusional thinking that she'll create one big, patchwork...

Sadly, she can't see that under no circumstances it won't...

Reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many empathize with the narrator’s frustration and emotional pain caused by her ex-husband’s extreme workaholism. Commenters often highlighted how work should never consistently overshadow family commitments, especially with young children involved. Some shared similar experiences, noting how neglect can quietly erode relationships and lead to unavoidable breakups. Others pointed out that while ambition and dedication are commendable, balance is crucial to maintain healthy personal connections.

In my opinion, this story highlights a common yet complex issue many couples face today—the struggle to balance career and family life. The ex-husband’s work habits, though possibly driven by pressure or personal goals, ultimately damaged the relationship and family dynamic. It serves as a reminder that prioritizing loved ones and open communication are essential. Without those, even the strongest bonds can weaken, no matter the initial love or good intentions.

Charlie Brown

Charlie is a creative mind who enjoys writing about art, music, and culture.

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