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My husband quit his job to drink and game, now he claims he owns my entire homestead

by Charlie Brown
October 16, 2025
in Relationships
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In the quiet promise of their early years, a couple wove dreams of family and freedom, sketching a life where love and labor intertwined on their own small homestead. She invested her savings and spirit into the land, planting seeds not just for crops, but for a future where her children could grow surrounded by the fruits of their shared dreams.

But as seasons changed and life’s realities crept in, the harmony they envisioned began to tremble under unspoken tensions. What started as mutual hope flickered into a complex dance of expectations and compromises, where the line between support and sacrifice blurred in the soil they both hoped would nurture their happiness.

AITAH My husband said It’s my fault.

My (37)m husband and I (35)f have been married for...

Before we got married we had a conversation about what...

Two of our biggest wants/goals were he wanted a stay...

He never wanted me to work and I agreed and...

I used my saving to buy our house which had...

keep that in mind because it will come up later....

After about 3 months I became pregnant with our son...

Fast-forward 4 years later and I'm pregnant with our daughter...

My husband thought it was great and would make jokes...

After I had our daughter he started complaining about how...

He worked part-time for 2 years and then quit his...

to doing the homestead on my own and he still...

He drank almost everyday and did nothing but play video...

I've worked hard to get our land where it needed...

and is the biggest reason why he completely quit his....

I ended up sitting down with him and having a...

the times he paid the bills and I was at...

he had a home-cooked meal almost everyday, and I worked...

He became irrate with me and started saying I was...

Fast-forward another year and he's doing the same stuff only...

His friend starts coming over almost everyday,

only he starts talking to my husband about his behavior...

it and when his friend isn't around he mocks him...

I told him that it seemed as he was projecting...

friend over then he should talk to him about it....

I've watched the person I love become an alcoholic. His...

He calls me his goody 2 shoe wife and until...

His best friend made a pa*s at me and told...

I told him no and that even if I divorced...

A few nights ago my husband had a bonfire party...

He got wasted and I caught him kissing one of...

His bestfriend told him he wasn't man enough for me...

My husband began yelling at me and called me his...

I explained to him that I'm not perfect and I...

He made such a huge scene with all of our...

After the party was over he ended up waking our...

I tried calming my husband down and telling him to...

him to him. My husband became quiet and looked down...

I put him back in bed and told him that...

My husband argued with me some more, said I emasculated...

All I've tried to do is my best, I don't...

I feel like it's my fault, maybe I should have...

I don't know what to do or how to go...

I don't know, and he's got me looking in the...

I don't even know who he is anymore. Did me...

It sucks because no one wants their family apart but...

This morning he left to one of his friends houses...

sell our home and buisness but we signed a prenupt...

EDIT* I was able to set up an intervention with...

The friend he was with thankfully went with it and...

I ended up calling the police and because we live...

The police officers said the facility would hold him for...

I hope he wakes up so that he can at...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

Ok-Win3088 Thank you to everyone, and sorry for not putting...

I appreciate everyones comments. I need to stop being an...

I had hoped he would open his eyes, but I...

You all have helped me tremendously. It's so difficult when...

heartbh I will take action today.: Jesus Christ lady, get...

Do you want this train wreck raising your children? He...

No one can hold someone like this above the water,...

GreenTravelBadger When he sat around drinking and playing videogames while...

that was the best time to take decisive action. Now...

Oh, in addition to the standard "Nobody else will ever...

prepare yourself for the "I'm going to k**l myself". None...

CareyAHHH NTA: You are scared of being a single mom,...

Marriage should be a partnership, and you have a liability...

Would you want your children to stay with a partner...

You are showing your children what a marriage should look...

I admit, I have never been married, or even in...

But I was a child who witnessed my parents' marriage...

Vegetable-Cod-2340 NTA Op,

you seem quite capable of running that homestead on your...

You didn't do anything wrong, he has a problem and...

Please look into your options for removing him from the...

Randa08 Wow I'm so sorry it's hard to watch someone...

especially when they turn their self hate onto you. He...

he probably won't even think of it till he hits...

It's not you fault, you built the life you wanted,

Amazing_Recover_9666 don't let him ruin that for you: D**n he's...

he's wearing you down by picking at everything you do...

Let me tel you now, you are doing well, you...

He got comfortable and the real him came out. He...

He is lit abusing you and taking advantage of you...

Just be done kick his a*s to the curb and...

He's disgusting after all that and cheating in front of...

a**se. We live, we learn and we move on. Don't...

Show them how strong and amazing you're and take the...

Halot*tan04 Wishing you the very best: You're NTA.

I would seek out a lawyer just in case because...

Panaccolade But relationships are work and both parties need to...

Get that idle f**k out of your life, woman. He's...

he doesn't contribute to raising the children and he's an...

He emasculated himself by acting like a petulant brat instead...

Keep the homestead and the kids, throw away the alleged...

just like his other jibes at your expense, he's projecting.

He KNOWS he isn't worth a d**n thing as a...

420-believe-it NTA get your divorce and be happy

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people sympathize with the wife’s dedication to fulfilling their shared dream of a small homestead, especially since she took the financial initiative to buy the property and start the business. Commenters appreciated that she was able to contribute financially without compromising her role as a stay-at-home mom, which was part of their original agreement. However, some pointed out the importance of clear communication about money and contributions, especially since the husband had no savings and presumably felt some pressure or insecurity about the financial dynamics.

In my opinion, this story highlights the challenges couples face when balancing traditional roles with financial realities. The wife’s efforts to make their homestead sustainable and profitable show resourcefulness and commitment, and the husband’s initial support indicates a strong partnership. For this arrangement to thrive, ongoing dialogue about finances, responsibilities, and expectations is crucial so both partners feel valued and secure. Ultimately, their shared goals can be achieved with mutual respect and honest communication.

Charlie Brown

Charlie is a creative mind who enjoys writing about art, music, and culture.

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