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AITA for refusing to meet my dad’s new gf, but agreeing to meet my mom’s new bf? (Age gap weirdness)

by Michael Lee
October 16, 2025
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From the fractured pieces of a long-divorced family, a young woman reflects on the stark contrasts between her parents’ lives—her father’s carousel of fleeting relationships leaving no room for her childhood presence, and her mother’s quiet sacrifice, dedicating years solely to her daughter’s happiness. The absence of her father’s steadiness and the unyielding devotion of her mother paint a poignant picture of love, loss, and resilience.

Now, as her mother tentatively steps into a new chapter of love with a man two decades her senior, the daughter witnesses a rare, joyful transformation that warms her heart. Despite the unconventional nature of this relationship, she embraces it wholeheartedly, recognizing her mother’s long-overdue chance at happiness and cherishing the fragile hope it brings to their shared story.

AITA for refusing to meet my dad’s new gf, but agreeing to meet my mom’s new bf? (Age gap weirdness)

I am 23/F. My parents [both 47] divorced 18 years...

I never even got to spend the night with him...

On the polar end of the spectrum is my mom....

Her whole life revolved around providing for and entertaining me....

I have *never* seen my mom look giddy before -...

and to not freak out, but that if I was...

(I AM! This woman deserves it.) She cried happy tears,...

" She has already moved in with him, and I...

She is one year **younger** than me. He is 47,...

My dad keeps pointing out how I'm a hypocrite because...

And he will say, "If you think I'm creepy for...

I mean, he is right... the age gap is almost...

Scott might be old enough to be my mom's dad......

Honestly, I'm starting to look back on my dad's relationship...

I am 100% going to meet Scott, and unless y'all...

What do you think of this story?





THIS STORY SHOOK THE INTERNET – AND REDDITORS DIDN’T HOLD BACK.

Nvnv_man NTA You see your Dad for what he is,...

The two aren't the same, you know it, you just...

Your Dad has dated countless younger women-itself an issue, and...

or in a view that only women of a certain...

He didn't seek to integrate you in his new life,...

but partly bc he valued having the girl in the...

You were not his priority. He never offered to cut...

Your mom, however, has always prioritized you, even to make...

We don't know if she's habitually attracted to older men,...

All we know is they met due to circumstances and...

Plus, she selflessly offers you veto power over her relationship....

He doesn't really care that you approve his girl-he just...

He acts ent*tled to get your approval, without doing one...

He's an AH, and I suspect women dump him when...

In fact, tell him if he continues to date your...

etc-and then say they'll listen bc you are same age...

RememberKoomValley NTA. You're not a hypocrite, your dad's a creep.

The age gap is around the same number of years,...

but there's a VAST difference in maturity between someone in...

twenty years up from forty instead of down. I don't...

that forty-year-old has been an adult for a long time,...

The 22-year-old is just out of college and has had...

And your dad seems like that's probably his MO.

Jendi2016 I personally use a rule to determine if a...

(Your age ÷ 2) + 7 is the youngest you...

For your mom: (47-7) ×2= 80. 68

Also,

just how your mom was cool if you didnt want...

Cynical_Manatee NTA Edit: Thank you kind strangers for silver and...

the issue here is mental maturity and not a physical...

is way closer in mental maturity than a 40+ year...

For the same reason we have issue with a 20...

your dad creepy. If he really want to talk to...

let him know that "We are still in contact is...

SpacewomanSalome anyone else would just be creepy and not dad":...

Not that they don't matter at all but come on...

old and a 40 year old. Also its not a...

your dad has shown a pattern of dating much younger...

While your mom seems to have met someone special who...

postalgrip Your moms and her bf have the same maturity.

Your father and his gf don't, unless he has the...

Ask him if he'd be cool with you dating someone...

LucydDreaming I'm a woman under 30 with a huge age...

and I think you're absolutely NTA. I've spoken at length...

She thinks my relationship is not unhealthy for two main...

we met at work, and he doesn't have kids. If...

Your dad is fetishizing young women, he hasn't dated any...

2. We were both consenting adults in a similar place...

If a middle aged man is dating a girl who...

It often creates a power imbalance to have this kind...

it creates a dynamic where it's easy for the man...

I honestly think it makes complete sense that you view...

She's genuinely in love with the guy, and you value...

I honestly wish my family could be as cool as...

Your dad is clearly not taking things seriously with so...

JoKing917 a year younger than his daughter's age. No wonder...

The difference between the two situations is that in one...

"young one" is 47. It's not about the difference in...

everytrickinthebook Or she might be using him for money or...

Late to the party but I've been reading responses and...

I (23F) was in a relationship with someone almost a...

The power imbalance coupled with my lack of life experience...

I was manipulated, gaslighted, and made to feel like I...

" Your mom's relationship is different for a few reasons....

She spent her life putting you first while your father...

2- she talked to you about her relationship and told...

Given that your father has dated some of your friends,...

But all of that aside, you have every right to...

He's a predator going after girls his daughters age, even...

A man in his late 40's doesn't date women who...

vodka_philosophy mature and level headed.: NTA.

Your dad has pretty much been seeing younger women like...

so it seems more like he just wants a *younger...

OTOH, your mom is clearly involved in a serious relationship...

I'd tell your dad that you'll meet Haley after they've...

but he needs to show you that he's truly serious...

Reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear many people empathize deeply with the original poster’s experience. Users often praised her maturity and support for her mom’s newfound happiness, especially given the unconventional age gap. The community also reflected on the struggles of navigating family dynamics after divorce, with some sharing similar stories of absent or complicated parental relationships. The consensus was that love and companionship should be celebrated regardless of age differences, as long as it brings genuine joy and respect.

From my perspective, this story beautifully highlights the importance of embracing change and supporting loved ones in their pursuit of happiness. It’s heartwarming to see the daughter overcome initial reservations to fully back her mom’s relationship. Ultimately, the narrative reminds us that life can surprise us in the best ways when we remain open-minded and loving, especially towards those who have sacrificed much for us.

Michael Lee

Michael is a tech enthusiast sharing insights on software development and gadgets.

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