The individual underwent an MRI-guided biopsy where a significant, though unrealistic, tattoo of a tarantula on their arm caused a healthcare professional to react strongly due to arachnophobia.
This incident led to a delay in the procedure. Afterward, the patient experienced painful numbness in both arms from being positioned for so long. When asked to turn over so the incision site could be dressed, the nurse with the phobia failed to assist, resulting in further delays and discomfort while another nurse struggled to maintain pressure on the bleeding site.

WIBTA if I ‘complain’ about my health care professional for running out of my room screaming over a tattoo.













As renowned organizational psychologist Dr. David Allen explains, “You can’t change what you don’t acknowledge.” This situation highlights a critical breakdown in professional conduct under stress, where a personal limitation (arachnophobia) directly interfered with the execution of required medical duties.
The nurse’s reaction, while stemming from a genuine phobia, crossed the line from a momentary reaction to a dereliction of duty when she failed to assist during the necessary repositioning after the biopsy. Professional healthcare environments require staff to manage personal triggers to ensure patient safety and comfort, especially during sensitive procedures. The delay in securing the incision site, forcing the patient to remain in an uncomfortable position while waiting for the second nurse to compensate, demonstrates a lapse in teamwork and accountability. The patient’s hesitation to report this is understandable, reflecting a common desire not to cause trouble or penalize someone for a recognized condition, but patient experience surveys exist precisely to address instances where professional standards are not met.
The patient’s actions in choosing to report the incident accurately are appropriate, provided the feedback focuses on the observable lack of assistance during the post-procedure care rather than solely on the initial phobia reaction. Moving forward, healthcare facilities should implement clearer protocols for managing staff anxieties that might affect patient interaction, and staff members must prioritize the patient’s immediate physical needs over managing their own acute distress.
THE COMMENTS SECTION WENT WILD – REDDIT HAD *A LOT* TO SAY ABOUT THIS ONE.






















The person writing is conflicted because they experienced poor care and frustration due to a staff member’s phobia impacting professional duties, but they also recognize that phobias are difficult struggles and they generally value the care at the facility.
The central question is whether reporting the unprofessional conduct in a feedback survey, which may impact staff performance evaluations, is justified given the impact on the patient’s comfort and care, or if the professional’s phobia warrants overlooking the inadequate assistance provided.







