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AITAH for telling my husband to not be surprised and wonder what happened when he loses me and our kids?

by Alex Johnson
October 17, 2025
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For a decade, she built her life around love, family, and shared moments—two children at the heart of it all. Yet beneath the surface, her husband’s presence, once dependable when it mattered most, began to feel like a fading echo, replaced by the glow of a computer screen and distant excuses.

As the weekend of cherished parades arrived, a hopeful plan unraveled in the shadow of his withdrawal. When he chose solitude over celebration, she carried the weight of disappointment but still found joy in her children’s laughter, a bittersweet reminder of the life they once dreamed of sharing together.

AITAH for telling my husband to not be surprised and wonder what happened when he loses me and our kids?

My (32F) husband (30M) have been together for 10 years....

He's never been super active in our kids lives but...

He has been playing video games on his computer more...

We had a weekend of parades and events in town...

So we skipped all the others and planned to all...

About 2 hours before we have to leave he turns...

This is when he decides he is going to just...

The kids didn't seem to show they had any care...

It cost $80 to get started. I got paid in...

He turns around and calls his mom to borrow the...

My MIL and I have a somewhat strained relationship, and...

I told him it would have been nice if he...

He tries to tell me he "thought" he did, then...

Neither the kids nor I received anything from him for...

That following weekend our daughter had an art fair showcasing...

He was up until 3-4 am the night before on...

He finally woke up and started moving around as we...

My daughter didn't seem to mind, but my heart just...

I was very proud of her and she was so...

My daughter then says to me, "I'm kind of glad...

" As if my heart wasn't hurt enough, it took...

Something my husband wouldn't have been happy to do or...

I told him it was sad that he couldn't take...

and the kids go no contact with him, to not...

What do you think of this story?





HERE’S HOW REDDIT BLEW UP AFTER HEARING THIS – PEOPLE COULDN’T BELIEVE IT.

ValleygirlNorCal So when are you going to start believing him?...

What about him are you expecting to miraculously change? Get...

Make sure the divorce decree/shared parenting agreement requires both of...

and make sure you both have equal time with the...

He is taking advantage of you while having zero commitment...

miyuki_m The day he wakes up alone should be tomorrow.

If it doesn't shake some sense into him, make it...

YTA for showing your daughter that it's acceptable to tolerate...

We don't have to tolerate shitty men who take us...

ETA: Your son should also be learning this lesson. Please...

JohnExcrement I wouldn't be telling him I'm sad. I'd be...

ghostoftommyknocker What a lame excuse for a man.: >He laughed...

And that's your cue to leave. He thinks you're bluffing...

Ok-Boysenberry1022 Sounds like he doesn't even like you that much...

cla*s="comment_author">FunStorm6487: Why do you want to live like this?

Muscle-Cars-1970 ‍: NTA.

But it's hard to believe you typed all that out...

He's completely checked out. To the point that your daughter...

and is already happier when he's not around to f***...

You should work on that "him waking up alone" thing...

BlackSea5 NTA- I spent 14 years with someone like that,

I've been so happy and thriving the 2 years without...

notyoureffingproblem It seems that you and the kids are better...

RJack151 NTA, and you are right. When the kids get...

they will realize that he never spends any time with...

The only question will be: Will you still be with...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear many sympathize with the OP’s frustration. The husband’s increasing distance and prioritization of video games over family events have understandably hurt the OP and the children. While some commenters suggest deeper communication or counseling, others advise the OP to consider the long-term implications of this behavior on their relationship and family dynamics.

In my opinion, the husband’s pattern signals a need for honest conversations about commitment and involvement in family life. It’s important for both partners to feel valued and supported, especially when children are involved. Hopefully, this situation can be a catalyst for change, leading to better mutual understanding and stronger bonds within the family.

Alex Johnson

Alex is an expert in finance and often shares tips on managing personal money.

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