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AITAH for leaving my girlfriend after she told me she was pregnant?

by Michael Lee
October 20, 2025
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For seven years, he had been certain—no children, no exceptions. Their love was a delicate balance of unspoken sacrifices, with her quietly accepting his wishes even when her heart yearned for something more. But in secret, she chose a path of hope and deception, driven by a desperate desire to create a family, even if it meant breaking the foundation of their trust.

The revelation shattered everything he believed their future held. Betrayed and blindsided, he wrestled with a surge of emotions—hurt, anger, and disbelief—as she pleaded for his happiness with a secret that would change their lives forever. In that raw, painful moment, love and trust were torn apart, leaving only silence and sorrow in their wake.

AITAH for leaving my girlfriend after she told me she was pregnant?

I (25m) have been with my girlfriend (25f) for 7...

She did not necessarily share my sentiments, but said she...

So you can imagine my shock when she came to...

She then admitted that she had been thinking about kids...

she stopped taking her birth control pills and began poking...

She asked me if I was happy, and I responded...

I guess she went to my mom, because about an...

and when I tried to explain that she'd betrayed my...

My brother and sister are the only ones on my...

​ Edit: I have read some comments and have a...

I am a university graduate with student loans; I cannot...

I did not even think about a vasectomy because of...

Obviously, you need to have a word with your biology...

I will admit, the relationship should have ended after finding...

But again, I was young, in love, and trusting, and...

and I cannot blame them as this is social media...

Thank you to those who have actually helped me understand...

I will be seeking legal aid, and will work on...

and if they still refuse to understand, they will be...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

ChrisEye21 NTA AT ALL. I dont know if you can,...

Or sue her. Or something. I'm actually insanely angry reading...

I have told every girl ive been with since i...

They always say its not a problem, but deep down,...

If I were you, I would have done the exact...

I just looked it up. I dont know what country...

I saw an article that a woman in Germany did...

Jazzy404404 She basically r**ed you, and now you're the bad...

Seriously, reverse the genders, and you could be going to...

I would legally see what you can do to not...

dr_lucia It's ok to dump someone who poked holes in...

When people complain to you, don't tell them "she betrayed...

Tell people you can't be with someone who pokes holes...

Traditional-Pin1233 NTA in so many level, dude. Wow, your gf...

sikonat Neon red if there's any. Now this is baby...

Your consent was on basis of no kids and preventing...

She tampered with your birth control (and also didn't communicate...

Which is her right but she should've told you so...

I'd suggest telling people that is what she did and...

I'd suggest lawyering up and find out what you'll now...

[However if you're serious about no kids then I'd suggest...

partner even if you wear condoms. So think carefully here...

That was completely wrong .

(But if you have never wanted kids you should've been...

Given you also knew she didn't quite agree about kids.

Edit: *this vasectomy comment is an aside for the future...

End of. Those who are childfree should consider permanent birth...

The_Ghost_Reborn > I was completely taken aback, and for a...

She asked me if I was happy You can't be...

I'd do absolutely everything I could to get her out...

> I guess she went to my mom, because about...

I didn't speak to my mother for a year after...

and then tried to lie about it. Loyalty is huge....

I would tell them that I need my ex out...

and anyone that makes that harder for me to achieve...

I would also seriously consider the possibility that it's not...

Poking holes in condoms is less believable than her having...

As part of the "get out of my life" conversation,...

TickityTickityBoom She maliciously poked holes in condoms, that's s*xual a*sault.

Go to the police and show you are serious. You...

Equal_Audience_3415 Use the police report for a cease and desist...

This is known as reproductive a**se and/or reproductive coercion. Depending...

I would consult an attorney as to what options are...

her parents, friends, and anyone else- she a**sed you. S*xual...

-THE-UNKN0WN- Your actions are completely understandable.: No, what she did...

You are not the a*shole. That is the absolutely worst...

You need to start looking into the laws in your...

money for the next 20 years. To h**l with her....

She proved beyond a shadow of a doubt that you...

This is why all of us men who don't want...

but it is LITERALLY the only REAL form of reproductive...

I really wish they had spent more time decades ago...

SignedUpForThisPost9 HOLY SHIT. More red flags than the parade on...

As Jazzy404404 said, "She basically r**ed you, and now you're...

You explicitly said you don't want kids, and she basically...

You are most definitely NTA and not responsible for whatever...

After reading through the Reddit comments on this story, it’s clear that many people empathize with the original poster’s shock and betrayal. Most commenters agree that the girlfriend’s actions were a serious breach of trust and autonomy, as she completely disregarded the couple’s mutual agreement about not having children. Many also pointed out that such deception could irreparably damage a relationship, and that the poster was justified in ending things, given how fundamental the issue of having children was to their future plans.

In my opinion, this story highlights the critical importance of communication and respect in relationships. When partners have fundamentally different desires—especially about life-altering decisions like parenthood—it’s essential to be honest and respectful of each other’s boundaries. While the girlfriend’s desire for children is understandable, going behind her partner’s back to manipulate the situation was a violation of trust that can’t be overlooked. Ultimately, this serves as a cautionary tale about the need for transparency and mutual consent in any serious commitment.

Michael Lee

Michael is a tech enthusiast sharing insights on software development and gadgets.

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