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AITA for refusing to take care of my husband when he’s “sick”?

by Jane Smith
October 23, 2025
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A mother’s world is unraveling, caught between the relentless cries of her newborn and the crushing weight of exhaustion. With her baby fighting sleep and cluster feeding nonstop, every moment feels like an endless battle against despair, leaving her utterly depleted and yearning for just a moment’s reprieve.

Meanwhile, her husband, bound by the demands of his own grueling job, retreats into his own struggles, unable or unwilling to bridge the growing divide. Their shared exhaustion breeds silence and tension, and the mother faces the overwhelming loneliness of parenthood on the edge of collapse.

AITA for refusing to take care of my husband when he’s “sick”?

Both my husband and I work FT. I work from...

She's cl**ter feeding but she's fighting sleep as well, so...

I'm completely worn down and exhausted. Thank God my job...

And my husband hasn't helped at all because he's been...

So I'm depleted. And yes, he 100% knows this.

I literally just sent him a text at 3pm saying...

I would definitely not be cooking. Well, he gets home...

I tell him to go take a shower. He says...

I go sit on the bed and attempt to decompress...

I say "listen, I know you're feeling ill right now...

" He gets up and walks off without saying anything...

Well, at 8: 40 (so 30 minutes ago) I go...

But my husband is sitting directly in front of her...

So I said no. At this point I'm all but...

He said "seriously?" So I said "dead a*s. I f**king...

" He snapped at this point and said "Its not...

He texted me from the bedroom and said "I don't...

" So I responded with "yeah and you used to...

for 5 god d**n minutes." He moved to the guest...

What do you think of this story?





AFTER THIS STORY DROPPED, REDDIT WENT INTO MELTDOWN MODE – CHECK OUT WHAT PEOPLE SAID.

WielderOfAphorisms My dear lady, this isn't about you being an...

You are exhausted and need a break and some support....

If you have someone who can watch your baby for...

Wishing you rest and a little untouched peace.

Euphoric_Care_2516 Why isn't he coming home with food for you...

letting you eat while he tends to the baby. Then...

Then you guys get the baby down to sleep. Both...

So he's sick, well guess what? Parents don't get the...

No_Hippo_1472 NTA: Why the h**l is this man playing video...

taking care of a newborn? I'm so, so tired of...

It seems like having children is an eye-opener to how...

Significant_Rub_4589 Wait, wait. Why would you have been responsible for...

Why couldn't he cook? He had plenty of time to...

Top-Beat-7423 Basically he acted like a teenage son.: NTA.

Kittytigris Tell him to call his mom: A) he's a...

B) you're busy with the baby. You told him already...

He thinks it is. He's an idiot. C)you need some...

Cannabis_CatSlave NTA He isn't very sick if he is well...

neanderbeast NTA, if he's sick enough to be hungry then...

And good luck with the baby, it does get better.

Leahthevagabond NTA - if he can play video games why...

DELILAHBELLE2605 NTA. The three month cl**ter feeding sleep regression is...

Good news is then their little tummies get bigger and...

You truly cannot understand touched out unless you've been there.

I remember at that stage just crying thinking I'd never...

I'd offer you big hug but that's not you need....

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many empathize deeply with the mother’s exhaustion and the challenging dynamics in this household. The situation highlights the struggles of new parenthood, especially when both partners have demanding jobs and limited time to support each other. Commenters often pointed out the importance of teamwork and communication, emphasizing that even small gestures of help or understanding can make a huge difference for a sleep-deprived parent. The father’s role as a driver requiring rest was acknowledged, but many felt that some compromise or shared effort was necessary to alleviate the mother’s overwhelming fatigue.

In my opinion, this story underlines a critical need for couples to openly discuss their limits and expectations during such a demanding phase. While the father’s job is important, the mother’s mental and physical health cannot be ignored, especially with a newborn. Perhaps seeking additional support, whether from family, friends, or professional help, could ease the burden for both parents. Ultimately, parenting is a shared journey, and finding balance—even in small ways—can prevent situations like these from becoming sources of resentment or burnout.

Jane Smith

Jane loves exploring new cultures and writing about travel and lifestyle.

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