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29M Reconnected With My 29F High School Love After 13 Years—Now She Blames Me for Not Marrying Her Sooner

by Charlie Brown
December 27, 2025
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29M Reconnected With My 29F High School Love After 13 Years—Now She Blames Me for Not Marrying Her Sooner

I (29M) reconnected with my high school girlfriend (29F) after...

I feel like I've tried to be thoughtful about our...

I need some perspective on whether I handled things poorly...

At 16, I had to move to the UK to...

We tried to make a long-distance relationship work, but in...

We didn't officially break up-we just drifted apart. I was...

Reconnecting After 13 Years In March 2023, I randomly saw...

At the time, she was living in Dubai, having moved...

A few days later, she got my number from Facebook...

she told me she had never stopped loving me and...

She, however, was all in-within two months, she wanted us...

The Move to the UK & Marriage Pressure Before we...

However, I think reconnecting with me accelerated her decision. She...

She arrived in the UK within three months of us...

From the moment she arrived, she told me that she...

That made me uncomfortable. I did want to marry her,...

Since she couldn't move unless she found a visa-sponsored job...

The Proposal & The Problems After a year and three...

Now, she's really unhappy. She hates her job and constantly...

• She moved to the UK for me, so I...

which obviously wasn't the right time to propose. But she...

She keeps telling me that I owe her because she...

Yes, I think reconnecting with me made her move faster,...

I proposed and we applied for the visa, but she's...

I'm struggling because I genuinely don't feel like I did...

Is there a way to fix this without feeling like...

What do you think of this story?





HERE’S HOW REDDIT BLEW UP AFTER HEARING THIS – PEOPLE COULDN’T BELIEVE IT.

BlueGreen_1956 NTA Dude, just no. Break up with her and...

Agoraphobe961 Do you really want to deal with this the...

Dude, she moved there for her sisters and realized you...

Tfuentexxx :- >

**But the thing is-she was already planning to move here...

I proposed and we applied for the visa, but she's...

Well, if she is not happy with what you are...

then she can find another moron who gets her what...

riggspyle94cv0 NTA. You're not in the wrong here.

You took the time to reconnect, get to know each...

Relationships, especially after such a long time, need time and...

You were right to not rush the marriage,

and the fact that she was already planning to move...

It seems like she's placing unrealistic pressure on you by...

Yes, reconnecting with you may have influenced her decision,

but she ultimately made the choice to move and could...

You've made a big step by proposing and applying for...

but it seems she's focused on the past and hasn't...

Her frustrations might be stemming from a combination of personal...

but this isn't fair for you to bear all the...

Express that you're committed to the relationship but want a...

Her continuing to put blame on you may be unhealthy...

Relationships require compromise and mutual respect, not just meeting someone...

Take time to focus on what you both want, but...

especially if they're unreasonable.

It's important she understands that relationships aren't about meeting arbitrary...

notheretoargu3 "should" happen.: Man, you need to wise up.

13 years of separation and she doesn't need to get...

Arguably more so than any other decade of life. You...

your mind fully developing, and the (presumably, no hate on...

All these things can fundamentally change who you are... and...

She's blaming you for everything, she's not respecting your boundaries...

NTAH, but you will be for the rest of your...

BulbasaurRanch This is a shining example of why you don't...

Expert_Amba*sador_66 Ok, let me make something very clear.

EVEN *IF* she moved to the UK specifically for you,...

Even if it was hypothetically "I won't date you unless...

You guys are adults, and you make adult decisions. Period.

Charlie Brown

Charlie is a creative mind who enjoys writing about art, music, and culture.

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