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AITA For how I reacted when my fiancèe deleted videos of my late GF from my laptop?

by Ankit
July 21, 2025
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In a quiet neighborhood where families have grown side by side like intertwined roots, memories linger in every corner. Two souls once shared a bond that spanned over a decade—a connection so deep it blurred the lines between two families, who celebrated life’s joys and weathered its storms together.

But life, in its unpredictable way, cast a shadow over this close-knit world when a brain tumor stole one half of that enduring love, leaving behind echoes of laughter, cherished nicknames, and a heartbroken community.

Now, as new chapters begin with a fresh promise of love and commitment, the past still follows close—woven into the fabric of everyday life, carried softly in the belongings and memories that remain. This is a story of love lost and love found, of grief and hope intertwined.

AITA For how I reacted when my fiancèe deleted videos of my late GF from my laptop?

I'll try to be quick here. My M27 former girlfriend...

Had many great memories together. She had a great sense...

We spent every occasion together and I had videos and...

My mom always says she lost a daughter and it...

I moved in with her and I brought some stuff...

My fiancèe would argue with my mom saying she makes...

I explained several times that my former was literally family...

And she asked about the videos I had of my...

I showed her the videos and how my family and...

She focused on the video I had of my GF's...

I really thought nothing of it because she said she...

I came back from the store after I left my...

I freaked out thinking I might've moved them but I...

I asked if she deleted the videos she first said...

I told her that those weren't just my gf's videos....

I lost it and she said that i should never...

She said she already told me she had no problem...

I asked since she said she had no problem and...

It was deliberate because only the videos were deleted and...

Mom was upset because of this and told my fiancee...

What do you think of this story?





LET’S SEE WHAT REDDIT COMMENTS HAD TO SAY – BECAUSE THIS STORY LEFT EVERYONE STUNNED.

yay_darkness NTA.

Anyone who gets jealous over the affection you or anyone...

I mean, feelings are irrational most of the time, but...

It'd be like telling you to not talk about a...

That's as close as your ex was to you AND...

my guy. Edit to add: Take your computer to a...

Most files aren't as 'gone' as people think they are...

I can't say if they'd get them all, but unless...

) is a geek and knew to shred and do...

MandaDian Ugh. NTA. I am (kind of) in the position...

My fiancé lost his significant other of 16 years shortly...

I would never destroy anything of her and I ENCOURAGE...

They raised each other's kids together. She helped shape him...

Your fiancée was just being petty and jealous and should...

ravenX4213 NTA NTA NTA break up right now, OP.

She destroyed treasured family memories and now she wants to...

ZenPrincess Dude how long did you wait between a 13...

Based on your ages you have to have gotten together...

If you are going back as far as 12 you...

and the longer you were together the less time you...

I also lost a partner of 7 years and I...

This is a shitting thing for her to do. Also,

WafflingAroundInPjs it's shitty to rush into a marriage: Unpopular opinion...

It sounds like you are still in love with your...

so not sure why you got engaged or why your...

Plus, your family isn't respectful of your fiancée because they...

so why would she care how they feel after she...

Few_Story3588 NTA but you need a computer expert to get...

Glad-Translator-3502 Call someone quickly before it's too late to retrieve...

with a ghost, you never broke up with the love...

I understand the pain and why this is important to...

Her trying to be the bigger person and saying it...

it clearly does and I'm sure it would be a...

alone would make her being TA. It's ok to remember...

you've stated several times how important she was to you...

My question is are you guys really ready to have...

Sorry it seems like your fiancé is constantly being reminded...

Balance, honouring a memory while still making the fiancé feel...

Point out as well your mother might have unintentionally already...

abeleo EDIT: Thanks for your awards!: ESH She has no...

But you and your family seem to be a bunch...

she's perfect," has the unspoken finish of "not like your...

but you do every time she brings it up or...

Your fiancee is seeing herself as your silver medal, that...

And everything about your post confirms that deep-down, you feel...

You two should break up because neither of you are...

And you want somebody that will accept being number three...

JTbazillion NTA Oh my GOSSSSSSH NTA so hard.

Imagine being jealous and insecure because of someone who is...

and so jealous and insecure that you cannot allow people...

That would not be a good marriage to go into.

She is already trying to negate your feelings and your...

Your grief over the death of your ex girlfriend is...

It doesn't compete with your future love, it exists apart...

dart1126 NTA. Take it to a computer expert. They may...

I've watched enough true crime shows to know that perps...

erased. They are really just moved to a file space...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize deeply with the complexity of this situation. The original poster’s grief and the strong bond they shared with their late girlfriend’s family highlight how intertwined their lives had become, making the loss profoundly impactful. Many commenters suggest that keeping mementos from a past relationship, especially one so significant, is a natural part of grieving and healing. However, some also caution about the importance of setting boundaries and ensuring that these keepsakes don’t create tension or misunderstandings with a new partner.

In my opinion, this story underscores the delicate balance between honoring a cherished past and embracing a new future. Grief doesn’t simply vanish when life moves forward, and it’s human to carry pieces of those we’ve lost with us. What matters most is open communication and mutual respect between partners, allowing space for both remembrance and growth. Ultimately, love and loss coexist, and navigating that truth with kindness is what helps people heal and build new chapters in their lives.

Ankit

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