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Me [21M] with my parents, they stalked and h***ssed me for 2 years and don’t think it was wrong.

by Ankit
July 23, 2025
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From a young age, the weight of silence and forced smiles bore heavily on a troubled soul. Amidst the shadows of undiagnosed depression and the harsh echoes of a father’s relentless demands, a child’s true feelings were stifled, replaced by a mandate to appear happy at all costs. This was a home where love was measured in compliance, not comfort, and where a smile was less a sign of joy and more a token extracted by fear.

Beneath the surface of good grades and impeccable behavior lay a quiet struggle for acceptance and peace. The child, unseen and unheard, navigated a world of internal battles and external expectations, longing for understanding rather than punishment. This story is a stark reminder of the hidden wounds carried behind forced smiles and the profound impact of emotional neglect.

Me [21M] with my parents, they stalked and harassed me for 2 years and don’t think it was wrong.

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Long story short, my parents did a lot of stuff...

(I'll post some details, feel free to skip to the...

That isn't an exaggeration, my father would literally scream "SMILE!"...

But they didn't really have anything else to punish me...

I smoked pot a couple of times, but never during...

My parents had banned me from using the computer, the...

(I want to note, I never broke any rules, snuck...

) I asked if I could have my iPod back,...

The important thing here is that I legitimately believed that...

(Just to clarify: He never said I was only allowed...

My father ended up tearing my room apart looking for...

I went to the office, and they had him on...

I'm not an idiot, so I realized that apparently I...

As a brief aside, my father has a huge temper...

He once got really p**sed at us (though he couldn't...

His explanation was that they must have renovated the building....

He's also screamed and yelled at me because HE got...

and yelling at me for THAT distracted him while driving)...

He once yelled at my friend for taking a slice...

) I should also clarify that he stopped physical punishment...

He's willing to punish me because HE got a speeding...

Even if I'd told the truth he wouldn't have believed...

After about 5 minutes of him yelling and me denying...

(Honestly, that's the only part of this I regret. I...

He told me he'd packed a bag and that I...

he'd drop me off at the homeless shelter. He also...

I don't know if you've ever known someone with a...

I spent the rest of the day doing housework and...

My parents had always stressed that university was entirely up...

But they also punished me for any grades that might...

I once got punished for a B+ on a math...

My parents do a lot of that, saying they act...

I'd be fine if you were, even though you're definitely...

I was one of those kids that coasted through cla*ses...

After my first term (I pa*sed, but just barely) my...

They used the GPS on my phone to track my...

I had to speak with them ranging from twice a...

Or call the don to check on me. Or call...

Once my father actually threatened to use my university pa*sword...

I was on my way to the university at the...

They once yelled at me for at good long while...

I didn't, my pay-as-you-go balance cut out halfway through. He...

I didn't even want a phone, but they needed a...

Their argument was that my failing grades in school (partially...

but I think most of it is to blame on...

to spend so much time hara*sing me that it was...

What kid wants to hear that his parents blame HIM...

I was pretty happy. But then 2 days later they...

I still have no idea why they would lie like...

After a couple of years of this, I ended up...

I realized I just couldn't do it anymore. I called...

They were very much against it, and called me an...

Officially I was bored of university and wanted to actually...

I knew the whole "you're comparing your behind-the-scenes to other's...

I though EVERYONE was constantly yelled at by parents. I...

It turns out that lying about divorce ISN'T a common...

I slowly realized that if I was ever going to...

After a year of doing work at a few jobs,...

I told him I needed time to recover from what...

His response was pretty patronizing, and I didn't talk with...

it was just him and my mother that I couldn't...

) I also emphasized that it was wrong for me...

in my defense, I was once punished for a speeding...

And a lot of the lies I told, I honestly...

All 3 times I came close to suicide were after...

so I had to spend an entire Sat**day writing and...

and it was still the highest mark out of the...

###Aftereffects I still have a bunch of mental issues after...

No, seriously. To order chinese food, I needed to do...

I nearly had a panic attack the first time when...

But until very recently, whenever I had to make a...

I also have pretty bad social anxiety. I once left...

I'm pretty sure I have depression too, though all of...

I should note, I've never seen a therapist or councillor...

You can see how that would be a problem) so...

and wondering if jumping from a 10th floor balcony would...

I wouldn't call them attempts, but my knife was at...

My research during my "high" periods tells me that that's...

Thanks to my group of friends, I've lost my virginity,...

###Contact 3 months ago I had surgery, and was recovering....

I sent an email asking if my father had realized...

His response basically said that he regretted it, but he...

I don't know what that means,

but I have the feeling that if I'd said "I...

the house, it would have just made things worse. I...

And they were lying about kicking me out. And I...

And she conveniently forgot about all the threats and the...

She talked at me for an hour and then even...

Note: Not whether I could forgive them or whether I...

Later, I met with my father and mother for dinner,...

I think that in their minds, this was me just...

I told them I couldn't handle being in a car...

But then they told me they wanted to to go...

I can't be in the same house with them and...

dr Parents (mostly father) stalked and hara*sed me for 2...

Went no contact for 6 months and went a long...

Tried to contact 3 months ago, they don't seem to...

Is this kind of thing normal, am I overreacting? Several...

I once spent 3 hours wandering around in the middle...

But am I overreacting? If I'm not, then how do...

Is there a way to repair this, and how do...

I'd like to maintain a relationship with my brother and...

And I don't really want to go around saying "Oh...

Is there a way to maintain those relationships while keeping...

Edit 1: Clearly this is legitimate. But is there a...

I've read every comment, I a*sure you. But I'm only...

What do you think of this story?





LET’S SEE WHAT REDDIT COMMENTS HAD TO SAY – BECAUSE THIS STORY LEFT EVERYONE STUNNED.

LadyMacDownvote No, you arent overreacting. You were a**sed.

You might find a lot of answers to questions and...

Your story follows a pattern I have seen from many...

pammylorel Have you considered that you may have ptsd? Please...

attackbetta It's not your fault that you are hurting and...

Op, I am so d**n sorry you've been through all...

your parents are 100{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f} not normal.

They are abusive narcissists, you are not overreacting.

I was only a few sentences in before I was...

scorch the earth and salt the ashes and hope they...

kittenkat4u they are fundame: *tears* my god,

if i was sitting next to you right now i'd...

i got the threat of an orphanage when i was...

please, please, PLEASE get yourself a psychiatrist and therapist(i know...

zotc I know it's hard, but you have to get...

ancient_scroll If even half of the stuff you wrote is...

and abusive to boot. I wouldn't call anything you mentioned...

Never breathing another word to them as long as they...

ChompwichQ up to and including that.: I've gone through some...

although admittedly nowhere as severe as your situation. I'm hoping,

as someone who has made it out of this situation...

Here goes: * People with normal,

loving parents have an exceptionally difficult time with the concept...

cla*s="comment_author">Freny1: Ah dude I'm so sorry. You're not overreacting. Not...

calliethedestroyer And continue to cut them out until you're more...

If anyone makes you uncomfortable or down right scared or...

Regardless of whether they are related to you or not!...

A_Kimbo Not if it's going to cause you horrible anxiety...

: As others have said, a therapist could be VERY...

I encourage you to search for a therapist that has...

Reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize deeply with the original poster’s experience. The consensus seems to be that the behavior of the parents—demanding forced smiles and punishing emotional expression—is a form of emotional abuse that can have long-lasting effects on a child’s mental health. Commenters often shared their own stories of similar situations, highlighting how damaging it is when parents prioritize appearances over genuine emotional well-being. The discussion also brought up important points about recognizing and addressing childhood trauma, and the importance of seeking therapy or support to heal from such experiences.

From my perspective, this story serves as a powerful reminder of how critical it is for parents to nurture their children’s emotional health rather than suppress it. The desire to see a happy face should never come at the cost of a child’s mental well-being. While the poster’s experience is painful, it also opens the door for conversations about empathy, understanding, and the importance of mental health awareness within families. Ultimately, stories like this can encourage others to speak out and seek the help they deserve, fostering a more compassionate approach to parenting in the future.

Ankit

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