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AITA for not saying no when asked to have kids?

by Ankit
August 16, 2025
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Caught in an impossible crossroads, a young man finds his loyalty and love tested when a close friend reveals a shocking and deeply personal request—to father her child. What began as a casual lunch spirals into a whirlwind of emotions, confusion, and betrayal, shaking the foundation of his relationship and trust in those closest to him.

As his girlfriend grapples with feelings of anger and hurt, the man faces an agonizing dilemma: protect his committed relationship or navigate the complicated demands of a friend driven by desire and desperation. This story unfolds with raw tension, exposing the fragile boundaries of friendship, love, and personal integrity.

AITA for not saying no when asked to have kids?

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(PLEASE READ ALL EDITS AT THE END) Sorry for the...

(I know this reads bad, just letting you know I...

She said she had something important to ask us so...

I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a...

I knew she had a crush on me for a...

she doesn't like the idea of sperm donation and just...

I had absolutely NO intention on having a one night...

I didn't think it was that insulting to my gf...

Both my girlfriend and I weren't planning to have any...

Point is, my girlfriend is mad at me because I...

I'm just baffled by the whole thing, but apparently I'm...

(again, to clear up confusion I NEVER considered being a...

I said I wasn't going to sleep with our friend......

Sorry if this makes no sense, I'm still a little...

Trying to be as clear as possible. I just didn't...

Which I'm NOT. I just was at a loss for...

Though after reading this thread I think I should've shut...

Edit 2: Yeah, big old red flag here. I told...

I also asked if she's going to continue with the...

I got a phone call from her a few minutes...

So this is all just unfolding right now... At midnight....

My girlfriend and I both apologized to each other. I...

She apologized because she thinks she was taking out her...

" Speaking of,

the ex friend left some voicemails on my girlfriend's phone...

directed at my girlfriend.... so. That friendship is severed. In...

I called my godfather who helped me with my first...

Just in case, I'm a little paranoid since I lived...

This is my first time really opening up about something...

I definitely need to work on phrasing of things and...

Sorry for all the edits in my original post, this...

(PS I now know a lot about sperm donation, never...

Which, if I ever did consider it I'm sure I...

What do you think of this story?





LET’S SEE WHAT REDDIT COMMENTS HAD TO SAY – BECAUSE THIS STORY LEFT EVERYONE STUNNED.

imhappysteven YTA. And you're a dumba*s if you agree to...

This "sperm donation" is the golden handcuff - this chick...

Don't flatter yourself that it's your amazing genes she wants.

She literally wants you in her life for as long...

terrapharma Props to your gf.: If you are in the...

If she ever needs public a*sistance the state will come...

She also may hope that a child would be a...

I won't judge because I think it was a shock...

SqueaksScreech ESH except you gf she's a cinnamon roll. Dude...

This is a straight up insult to your girlfriend.

A*shole #1 literally wants to hang you and used the...

soggylandfill She's gonna then bring drama to break y'all up...

You're agreeing basically to give another woman children. A woman...

She wants you or whatever she can get from you...

That's insane. Edit: wow... "While you were sleeping", am I...

soap-poisoning You need to apologize profusely to your girlfriend and...

your life. She doesn't just want a baby - she...

I'm sure it must be flattering to have some woman...

Sharbubbles972 but YTA for not immediately and unequivocally rejecting the...

but you sound very very Naive. But not naive enough...

Why would you even want to give her your sperm...

and definitely take your GF on an amazing and well-planned...

Pyrus_Perseus Just throwing this out there cause I think I...

1) I am not ever going to sleep with a...

I personally don't want to do it, and this situation...

MayhemAbounds The only reason I gave that impression was because...

The fact she asked for a one night stand should...

It's so disrespectful to your gf and honestly absurd. Very...

I know lots of people who used donated sperm but...

hummingbirds_R_tasty NTA.

I think your girlfriend also sees right through this woman...

I mean really, what if she didn't get pregnant. Oh...

chibistarship YTA. This girl doesn't want your genes to have...

She wants you. She wants to have s*x with you...

Minimum, she would have a hold on you for 18...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with the original poster’s difficult position. Most agree that the friend’s request was inappropriate, especially given the nature of the proposed method—insisting on a one night stand rather than a more detached form of sperm donation. The consensus seems to be that the boundaries in friendships and relationships were crossed, and it’s understandable the girlfriend felt hurt and betrayed. Many commenters advise open communication and setting firm boundaries, emphasizing that consent and comfort must come first in any situation involving intimacy or reproduction.

In my opinion, this story highlights the importance of clear communication and respect in all relationships. While the friend’s desire to have a child with the original poster’s genes is unusual, it’s the way she went about it that caused the real problem. If she had approached the topic more respectfully and considered the feelings of both partners, the outcome might have been very different. Ultimately, it’s crucial for everyone involved to prioritize trust and mutual respect, ensuring that decisions about parenthood and intimacy are never made under pressure or discomfort.

Ankit

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