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AITA for telling my friend it’s not my problem she married a useless man?

by Ankit
August 19, 2025
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She is a single mother by choice, embracing the challenges and joys of raising two young children conceived through donor insemination. With a stable career as a French teacher and a paid-off home secured through her parents’ inheritance, she carefully planned her journey into motherhood—saving a year’s worth of living expenses before taking sabbaticals to bond with her children while supplementing income through tutoring. Her thoughtful preparation reflects a determination to provide stability and love for her family on her own terms.

Yet, the friendship with her recently postpartum friend has become strained under the weight of comparison and unspoken struggles. Her friend, burdened by financial insecurity and the pressures of being the sole breadwinner while her husband remains unemployed, grapples with feelings of envy and despair. What began as a shared experience of new motherhood has unraveled into a painful reminder of the stark contrasts in their lives, exposing the fragile balance between support and resentment.

AITA for telling my friend it’s not my problem she married a useless man?

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I(32F) am a single mother of two kids (6M and...

I am lucky enough to have a good job (French...

Before I had either of my kids, I made sure...

While on sabbatical, I still tutor some kids for some...

She is the breadwinner in her household, and her husband...

It was great to be pregnant at the same time,...

She has been saying how jealous she is of me...

how she doesn't even have a couple hundred dollars in...

I usually ignore it, or brush it off, because I...

Well, starting about 10 days ago, she started hinting at...

Then she started remarking on how much free time I...

Then last night she came out with it, and asked...

I was firm, but polite, when I said that I...

She started almost begging me, saying she can't afford daycare,...

I again brought up her husband, and she said that...

I kept saying no, she kept pushing, until it escalated...

Now she blocked me, I am feeling very guilty about...

What do you think of this story?





LET’S SEE WHAT REDDIT COMMENTS HAD TO SAY – BECAUSE THIS STORY LEFT EVERYONE STUNNED.

owls_and_cardinals Eek. NTA.

I think there were no a*sholes here up to the...

You're exactly right that it's not your problem that she...

and while I do think a heavy dose of empathy...

crazycatchemist1 her having a husband who isn't employed AND cannot...

bedbound or otherwise physically incapable of work or childcare, he...

And if she isn't going to make him, she needs...

_mmiggs_ but at least she'll have one less mouth to...

but you're not wrong. Her husband hasn't worked for several...

they had a baby together, and yet he can't actually...

The norm is (should be) that if one parent works,...

WhoKnewHomesteading NTA. Tell her when she's lucky enough to have...

maybe she can have a paid for house too (extreme...

Beneficial_Mix_8803 Wait-her husband is at home all day, but not...

NTA regardless, but wtf... Like yeah, you were fortunate enough...

But how is demanding that someone else do free childcare...

after his own baby?

AvtrSpirit NTA "she started remarking on how much free time...

when one of them is a newborn?? WT actual F?...

Dapper_Research_8268 NTA - she kept pushing you until you had...

She's mad because you verbalized what she already knew. If...

then he should learn to be or go out and...

Watching your two kids and adding another baby will be...

cla*s="comment_author">Racc**nKey2860: Girl , you're fine . She kept pushing even...

Then you had to lay some truth on her ....

banjadev NTA. Real-life decisions,

when made without proper planning and thoughtful consideration, lead to...

It is not your job to bail her out of...

Emotional_Fan_7011 She, on the other hand, gave no thought whatsoever...

If nothing else, she needs to be nagging her husband...

while her useless husband sits on his a*s all day.

Ankit

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