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AITA for getting angry at my wife for drinking while pregnant?

by Ankit
August 20, 2025
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In the quiet anticipation of their first child, two women navigated the fragile path of hope and heartbreak. After enduring the pain of two miscarriages, they made the courageous decision to carry their baby together, bound by love and sacrifice. Each step forward was marked by promises—she would give up wine, and her partner would surrender cigarettes—symbols of their commitment to protect the fragile life growing within.

But when the weight of expectation met the harsh reality of temptation, that promise shattered in an instant. The discovery of her wife drinking alone, a bottle nearly empty, was a breach not just of vows but of trust forged in pain and resilience. In that moment, the fragile balance of hope teetered on the edge, exposing raw emotions and the silent battles they each fought in the name of love and survival.

AITA for getting angry at my wife for drinking while pregnant?

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My wife and I (both women) are in our 30s...

She's now in her second trimester. My wife loves wine...

We're aware that she could still drink a couple of...

we both sat down and agreed that she would give...

but picked it up again later because of the stress)....

Last night, I came home later than usual and found...

I was shocked, but didn't say anything, a*suming she'd just...

asked them what they'd been up to and soon found...

I'm not proud of it, but I lost it. I...

as it was late anyway) and I started crying as...

endangering our child's life like that, telling her I was...

as pregnant women can still drink every once in a...

I then told her (which is the thing I regret...

then maybe she wasn't ready to be a mother. She...

I haven't seen her since (we have different working schedules)...

I (though with other words) basically told her to go...

What do you think of this story?





LET’S SEE WHAT REDDIT COMMENTS HAD TO SAY – BECAUSE THIS STORY LEFT EVERYONE STUNNED.

juliuspepperwoodchi NTA Holy shit that is dangerous for your fetus.

Also, what friend just goes along with a pregnant woman...

Sure, a SINGLE gla*s of wine, ~~even one a day,~~*edit:...

on top of the fact that you both made an...

em_abdo NTA.. And no its not ok to have TWO...

tidderor NTA. A whole bottle of wine while pregnant? That's...

When I was pregnant my OB was very candid with...

The reason most docs say not to drink at all,...

is that if you tell some people they can have...

lightwoodorchestra " Which i: NTA. This is a huge, huge...

Tbh, this sounds to be like your wife is an...

This is not normal behavior for a pregnant woman. If...

AcingSpades It is permanent brain damage.: NTA. Fetal alcohol syndrome...

NumaNumaYayy She shouldn't be drinking at all, ideally.: Oh man...

Totally, totally NTA.

I can't imagine having drunk more than a couple of...

champagne max). The technicalities in the guidance are *so* unhelpful...

likewhatevertho NTA. There's a reason pregnant mothers aren't supposed to...

and it's called fetal alcohol syndrome. That's pretty common knowledge.

You may regret the comment about her not being ready...

That's probably why it got such a strong reaction from...

MaoMaoDumpling NTA - jeesuz christ,

you guys had TWO miscarriages and she's still willing to...

This is self destructive and dangerous behavior. She drank an...

MsBaseball34 You're right, she's not ready to be a mother.:...

a whole freaking bottle??? That's ridiculous. Especially considering the pact...

dorofeho NTA fetal alcohol syndrome is a real thing and...

I genuinely find this obsession with drinking alcohol at home...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with the original poster’s frustration and concern. Most commenters agree that the wife’s decision to drink heavily during pregnancy, especially after the couple mutually agreed to abstain from alcohol and smoking to support a healthy pregnancy, is deeply troubling. Many expressed that this behavior could potentially harm the baby and damage the trust between partners. Some suggested seeking professional help or counseling to address the drinking and underlying issues, while others emphasized the importance of open communication and mutual respect in a relationship, especially during such a critical time.

In my opinion, this situation highlights the complex challenges couples can face during pregnancy, particularly when dealing with past trauma like miscarriages. It’s admirable that both partners made sacrifices for the wellbeing of their future child, and it’s understandably upsetting when those commitments are broken. Ultimately, addressing this issue with empathy and seeking support—whether from healthcare professionals, counselors, or support groups—will be crucial for the health of both the baby and the relationship. While the wife’s actions were disappointing, the focus should remain on finding a constructive path forward for the entire family.

Ankit

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