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AITA for not telling my boyfriend I received my unemployment?

by Ankit
August 22, 2025
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AITA for not telling my boyfriend I received my unemployment?

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I'm 28F and he is 30M. On mobile. I met...

However, after I landed a great job 2 years into...

My salary was now doubled what he made and I...

A year after that he was doing an odd job...

This is now his excuse for not working; while he...

Anyways, the job I worked for was forced to shut...

Since I have been laid off he definitely has picked...

I applied for unemployment in the beginning of April and...

During the time that I was waiting for unemployment he...

week vacation and now he is talking about wanting to...

I told him I wasnt comfortable with any of that...

Now, given the fact that I want to use the...

I know that as soon as he finds out he...

So I was out at the shop getting some new...

I lied and said that my mom gave me some...

I asked her why she would think that and she...

" I must have had a weird look on my...

squared away." I never agreed to that and I'm not...

She said she understands why I want to hide it...

She said withholding the information from him would make me...

My boyfriend saw me through the window (just my luck)...

So, I told him about the unemployment money and then...

Initially he was offended but after I broke down and...

He instantly caved and saved he had no idea that...

He says he is going to try to find a...

even claiming he "lost himself in the moment" because he...

He also called his sister in front of me (on...

I guess we will see where this goes from here...

What do you think of this story?





LET’S SEE WHAT REDDIT COMMENTS HAD TO SAY – BECAUSE THIS STORY LEFT EVERYONE STUNNED.

Bab**balou NTA You need to protect yourself against this guy,...

They seem to see your money as their's to spend...

Do you really want to be with someone like this?...

Havinganoffday NTA. And a huge f**king side note: RUN!

the_u_in_colour Dude you need to break up. The red flags...

Let alone the fact he's a freeloader (mental health and...

and he's more than willing to throw around your money...

He made a commitment of thousands of dollars to someone...

nippitybibble Oh honey get out now. What has he been...

I doubt this behavior is new. It's called financial infidelity...

Cancel that debit card and cancel the relationship before you...

Socialist7878 NTA for protecting yourself.: NTA.

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he was becoming more and more impatient about receiving that...

and now he is talking about wanting to buy a...

You two are struggling to get by and he wants...

fecklessrachel NTA for not telling him,

but I am sure we all know there are some...

_saturnish_ NTA and he's financially using you. Why are you...

What does he bring to the relationship *currently*? I saw...

YesNoMaybe_IMO NTA - And some serious red flags.

Any money you receive is meant for *you* to use...

It's really concerning that your boyfriend has laid claim to...

her own loan. I wouldn't tell him about it,

Andreaxox but I would seriously consider whether or not someone...

boyfriend sounds a bit unrealistic &

should be considering your future together ( $780 guitar for...

considering everything with COVID it's not a bad idea to...

Had a lot of us known this pandemic was going...

cla*s="comment_author">mother_ofkats: Info: Do you have a joint account?

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear many readers sympathize with her frustration and concern. Users pointed out that her partner’s behavior seems selfish and immature, especially given the financial strain caused by her job loss during the pandemic. Many advised setting boundaries and encouraging him to contribute more fairly to their shared expenses rather than indulging in luxuries like boats or vacations while they’re struggling. Others suggested having a serious conversation about their future and whether his lack of consistent work ethic is something she can accept long-term.

From my perspective, this situation highlights the importance of mutual responsibility and communication in a relationship, especially during tough times. While injuries and setbacks happen, it’s crucial for both partners to support each other practically and emotionally. If one person consistently shoulders the financial burden without appreciation or effort from the other, resentment is bound to build. It might be time for her to reassess their dynamic and consider what she truly wants from this partnership moving forward.

Ankit

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