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AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s “my” money when my ex asked if she could borrow some?

by Ankit
August 22, 2025
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In the tangled web of co-parenting and past relationships, a father’s compassion shines through the shadows of hardship. Despite the pain of separation, he stands as a pillar of support for his ex, a hardworking mother struggling to regain her footing after losing her job. When a sudden car repair threatens to derail her fragile progress, he doesn’t hesitate to offer help an act of kindness rooted in their shared history and the love for their daughter.

Yet, beneath this gesture lies a storm of tension, as his current girlfriend questions the boundaries of loyalty and trust. The quiet generosity that once seemed simple now stirs doubts and insecurities, challenging the delicate balance between past and present. In this emotional crossroads, every choice weighs heavily, revealing the complexities of love, responsibility, and the unspoken debts that bind them all.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it’s “my” money when my ex asked if she could borrow some?

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Before anyone says anything, my ex is a hardworking mom...

The past months have been very difficult since she lost...

But today she told me there's a problem with her...

So I offered to pay whatever the cost is to...

Spending a little over a thousand bucks (or less depending...

My ex swore she would pay me back and she's...

When I told my girlfriend what happened, she asked me...

I told her it didn't feel necessary to talk to...

Then she asked if she's (my ex) even gonna pay...

My girlfriend admitted she doesn't like that I'm helping her...

Seriously she was making it sound like I pay all...

than a few hundred bucks. I was starting to get...

If she doesn't have a car, she can't work or...

no longer afford to pay rent where she lives so...

My girlfriend tried to argue but I told her I...

She stopped talking after that completely caught off guard by...

We haven't talked in a few hours and I'm wondering...

It's one thing if it was a lot of money...

Edit: have gotten asked this and figured it's important information....

Obviously if I knew it affected us both I would've...

What do you think of this story?





LET’S SEE WHAT REDDIT COMMENTS HAD TO SAY – BECAUSE THIS STORY LEFT EVERYONE STUNNED.

MaximusIsKing NTA! You're not just helping a random ex- this...

If she does well, your kid does well. If she...

Clearly you have a respectful relationship and she doesn't take...

You need to have a chat with your gf- if...

cla*s="comment_author">readyforactionplease: NTA. 75 years because you have a child together.

No matter what happened between you as a couple, it...

By loaning your ex the money to fix her car,

you are helping your child and showing them that you...

Mesapholis Read until "my gf asked me why I didn't...

Excuse me, do you share an account where your gf...

It is good that you are on such good terms...

TacoDude831 Throw that whole gf away, she seems ent*tled: Currently...

Like a joint account? Though, if you have money left...

Especially since it is more about your kid, you're honestly...

Cocoasneeze You see the indirect benefit, and if she's paid...

Your ex is not asking help to go on a...

And you're correct, if your ex doesn't have a working...

Your job as a parent is to put your daughter's...

I think you need to have an honest talk with...

Obligation_Tall a man with a daughter with: YNTA. First off....

You are 100{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f} right. You have a forever bond with...

Throwaway48382838 This is your girlfriend's problem. Your problem is deciding...

You made sure your daughters mother had a safe reliable...

If your ex doesn't take advantage of you and it...

ASomewhatAmbiguous There's no reason your relationship with her should be...

It honestly sounds like a jealousy issue. It *is* your...

You have a right to spend that money however you...

especially if she is good with paying it back. You...

lorelai_gilmore_20 Side note: It sounds like, regardless of the fact...

but I am concerned about your current girlfriend's reaction, because...

makes one worry about your daughter, if you marry this...

because clearly she's trying to imply that you shouldn't have...

Pain-n-stryife I'm gonna go NAH Your 100{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f} your

gf has no say in what you do with your...

good about paying you back. Glad you guys can coparent...

Now to be devils advocate your gf is probably just...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with the narrator’s generosity and understanding toward his ex during a tough time. Most commenters agree that his willingness to help his ex, especially since she has always repaid him, is commendable and shows a mature approach to co-parenting and financial support. The consensus seems to be that his girlfriend’s reaction might be overly harsh or insecure, considering the context and the financial stability the narrator enjoys. Many suggest that trust and open communication are key in such situations.

In my opinion, this story highlights the complexities of blended families and financial boundaries. It’s important to support loved ones in need, particularly when children are involved, but equally important to ensure that all parties feel respected and secure. The narrator’s decision to help his ex seems thoughtful and responsible, especially with a clear agreement for repayment. Hopefully, the narrator and his girlfriend can have an honest conversation to address any concerns, reinforcing trust rather than letting misunderstandings create unnecessary tension.

Ankit

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