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AITA for refusing to keep providing my sister free childcare because of BIL’s choices?

by Ankit
August 29, 2025
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AITA for refusing to keep providing my sister free childcare because of BIL’s choices?

*TLDR*: I found out the reason my sister couldn't afford...

My husband 44m and I 38f live in NYC with...

My sister 33f "Anne" and her husband 32m "Sam" also...

Sam is originally from India, and only came to the...

Last dec my sister told me she and her husband...

and asked if my nanny could also watch her kids...

I asked my nanny if she was willing to and...

She agreed and for the past 7mo has been taking...

I brought up to my sister if she could find...

She begged me not to since daycares in NYC all...

I got concerned she couldn't even pay for a month...

I asked after her finances and she very reluctantly told...

and was spending thousands to sponsor his siblings' immigration process....

I was no longer willing to provide free child care....

He didn't take it very well and said his parents...

My sister was happy I stood up for her (she...

Sam are now constantly arguing over this. I told her...

and that had I known I was paying 27k more...

My husband agrees with me, but has said maybe I...

Sam is calling me an a*shole for his family suffer...

Some of my friends who also know them thinks I'm...

Edit: to be clear, my dilemma is because my sister...

So I could either try to talk her into leaving...

which I feel like would open me up to BiL...

Which is true that I could easily pay for his...

Also, we pay a lot of taxes here in nyc,...

I didn't mean to say BiL was sending 100K to...

I mean he was sending something like 2k/month (half of...

My sister knew he wanted to help his family come...

our kids" sense and now she's in too deep.

What do you think of this story?





THIS STORY SHOOK THE INTERNET – AND REDDITORS DIDN’T HOLD BACK.

Rgirl4 NTA you are sending $27,000 a year to bil's...

StAlvis NTA You're **never an a*shole** for choosing not to...

MissionRevolution306 NTA. In essence,

you are funding his family in India by freeing up...

Don't let them pressure you into doing this, your sister...

JustANormieGeek NTA, but your BIL is a major TA and...

Your sister needs to deal with her husband and stop...

but she's been willingly enabling him and using you to...

Bloodrayna NTA If you consider the exchange rate between the...

Sam could send his parents a thousand a month, still...

azsue123 Half their income is ridiculous, I don't care how...

It's not uncommon for new immigrants to send money home....

What they didn't do is send so much that they...

My question is, WTAF is that family spending $70k+ on...

There's absolutely no excuse to send that amount.

Saysaywhat91 NTA He opted to start a family and at...

If he wanted to fully support his family he never...

_Apricate_ It's not your job to make their marriage easier.:...

BIL more so. Lets break it down. Sister earns 70k/yr...

But they are leeching childcare costs off OP and BIL...

Sister should have put down her foot down long before...

Farahild He didn't take it very well and said his...

is doing the right thing by paying them back. He...

Internal_Set_6564 NTA. Frankly,

your sister should divorce her husband if he does not...

Ankit

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