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AITA for appropriating the word “Sober”?

by Ankit
September 2, 2025
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AITA for appropriating the word “Sober”?

This happened on Friday. My coworkers were planning on going...

I don't particularly like to drink or go out with...

" Nobody has ever tried to pressure me into going...

it'll be fun.." yadda yadda. Saying I'm "Sober" immediately shuts...

another coworker overhears congratulated me on 2 years of sobriety...

I quickly and quietly told her that I wasn't really...

She said that I'm an a*shole for appropriating language when...

I told her I'm not using it to seek validation...

Should I not use that term anymore or is my...

From this point on I will be more a*sertive and...

As for the coworker who confided in me, I will...

I will fully support her and back her up if...

What do you think of this story?





THIS STORY SHOOK THE INTERNET – AND REDDITORS DIDN’T HOLD BACK.

blergmachine327 NAH I don't necessarily think that either of you...

You are using very specific language "sober for two years"...

Many people in the recovery community are protective of that...

Hypers*xtual This is also something that people outside of the...

You're trying to avoid a pretty awful alcohol culture that...

However, your use of that term implies you're an alcoholic...

FoxUniCarKilo YTA You're not appropriating "sober" You are lying and...

belongs to a specific groups of people to insinuate that...

The only reason you have the luxury of thinking she's...

ClarinetKitten journey she went on to get where: Saying that...

However saying "I'm 2 years sober" is language that's very...

Especially reading your comments that say you have drank during...

I'm not sure if you're necessarily an AH but for...

Uppernwbear "I'm two-years sober" is *very* specific and language almost...

community of which your co-worker is a member. Are you...

While I don't think it takes away from people with...

Find another excuse - I cla*sify this as a reason.

Break-Down_Live Can you use the phrase 'I practice sober living'...

Would that still be considered a leading phrase? If so,...

Melodic_Ordinary_109 NAH. I get why she's upset but as a...

a lot of people seem to think its okay to...

then they think you owe them an explanation why. Lying...

but saying you're sober is technically true, and the only...

Siriuxx I see a lot of people saying you're someone...

you're sober when you weren't an addict. As a former...

You aren't going to NA or AA meetings and pretending...

StreetofChimes I dislike the obligatory drink culture. It is frustrating...

But now that you know that a coworker is actually...

Your coworker is actually struggling with addiction and has expressed...

psalmwest Info: have you actually not drank alcohol in two...

In the end, the office erupted in a debate that went far beyond just one person’s social plans. The employee’s attempt to navigate coworker invitations with a simple, fabricated “sobriety” claim led to an explosive confrontation with another colleague who felt the term was being trivialized.

This situation highlights a complex issue: the appropriation of language and the potential harm it can cause to those who genuinely live with addiction. While the employee sought a practical solution to personal discomfort, their methods inadvertently caused offense, underscoring the importance of mindful communication and respecting the lived experiences of others.

The ultimate outcome? A valuable lesson learned, albeit the hard way. The employee has pledged to be more direct and honest in the future, choosing assertiveness over convenient deception.

It’s a stark reminder that while setting boundaries is crucial, the way we communicate them can have unintended consequences, potentially creating more conflict than it resolves.

Ankit

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