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AITA for wanting to “verify” my husband’s ch**es?

by Ankit
September 3, 2025
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AITA for wanting to “verify” my husband’s chores?

I feel like I might be going nuts and need...

" Basically, to get motivated to do ch**es around the...

each with certain points: cooking a complicated dinner = 10...

It sounds silly, but it actually made it more fun...

Each week, the points reset, and whoever won would get...

You know, super low stakes. Then a month ago, husband...

He proposed whoever lost would wash the dishes for the...

but husband said that would just motivate the loser to...

It was pretty close compet*tion, but husband won the first...

I like to think I was a good sport about...

Saying stuff like "that's right, keep washing." I know he...

I asked him to tone it down, and he would...

It all started when I took a photo of the...

A few hours later when I looked at the whiteboard...

Now, I've always had serious memory issues when it comes...

But the photo was right there. I didn't know what...

he looked surprised and then said he probably accidentally touched/erased...

I asked him if maybe going forward, instead of relying...

I presented it as a way for us to avoid...

and all over washing dishes. I said it wasn't about...

that I was being controlling by wanting to "verify"/"audit" his...

EDIT: I've been asked to add this to my post:...

The childcare doesn't get points because the system is that...

so the childcare is considered my job. I'm understanding now...

He often works so much, sometimes he leaves at 6am...

The way he's racked up points before is he does...

then is pretty much doing ch**e work the whole weekend)....

while he handles all of our budgeting and getting groceries,...

That's when he watches me wash the dishes too, so...

I was honestly so overwhelmed by some of the support...

which were quite nasty... but maybe they're not wrong. I...

I've known this man for a long time and my...

This morning before he left, he said he was sorry...

He kind of shook his head and said we'd talk...

What do you think of this story?





THE COMMENTS SECTION WENT WILD – REDDIT HAD *A LOT* TO SAY ABOUT THIS ONE.

bigb**tf**ker NTA.

All you need to say is the whiteboard isn't working...

PotentialDementor And then being a sore winner and gloating.: NTA....

He didn't "accidentally" erase points on your side only. He...

If he really wasn't, he wouldn't have a problem doing...

poochonmom Because why would he cheat over it?: NTA Even...

why hasn't he offered to change up the prize or...

Seems weird that he has made you do the dishes...

millera85 Ohhh he is cheating for sure.

I would say the game isn't fun anymore, we will...

NTA,

wet-noodles you have proof and he admitted the possibility of...

kind of cheating that my nephew grew out of at...

Might be something to straighten out before you even consider...

AlexisRosesHands ): My original comment was deemed "uncivil" for some...

OP, he came up with this ruse before he ever...

It was a scam to get out of doing the...

You caught him and he got angry. NTA.

ScoobyCute Hopefully this is the only area in your relationship...

not sure what your situation is like, but it's probs...

My ex was like this - seemed great at first...

wanted me to quit my doctoral degree to work more...

Frequent_Stranger13 and didn't have the ea: NTA.

You caught him and he is manipulating you to get...

Either insist on the Google doc or refuse to do...

__01001000-01101001_ Doesn't sound like a healthy thing for you guys...

but I think it may be time to stop with...

To me it sounds like your husband is overreacting to...

While the game may have been fun at the start,...

Monkeydoc68 NTA - he got caught.

And just like that, the “fun” chore game reached its unexpected and frankly, bizarre, conclusion. The stakes were raised, the competition intensified, and what was once a simple way to motivate a couple has seemingly become a test of their relationship’s boundaries.

Was this husband’s idea genius or a slippery slope to resentment? The wife’s initial hesitation seems more than justified now, as the “prize” has taken on a life of its own, leaving her questioning the sanity of their new routine.

It’s a stark reminder that sometimes, the games we play can have consequences we never saw coming.

Now, the real question remains: can this couple ever go back to the days of simple backrubs and serenades, or has this point system irrevocably changed the dynamic of their domestic bliss?

You’ll have to read the full story to see just how this incredibly strange situation unfolds!

Ankit

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