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Manager Called Me Insolent After I Quit Because I Need to Keep My Better Paying Jobs

by Ankit
September 10, 2025
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At just nineteen, he found himself caught in a relentless struggle, trying to escape the suffocating toxicity of his family home. With the world shut down and his familiar job on pause, he was forced to take on new challenges just to survive, juggling multiple cleaning jobs alongside university, desperate to carve out a space where he could breathe and find stability.

But returning to the leisure centre, a place that once felt like a second home, brought new complications. The weight of balancing better-paying work with the demands of his old job loomed over him, threatening to push him beyond his limits. What should have been a simple conversation about cutting back hours spiraled into a confrontation that challenged his resolve and tested the fragile balance he’d fought so hard to achieve.

AITA for telling my manager it’s not my problem if nobody can do my job?

So some background is needed here; I'm 19M and have...

Up until recently my job was cleaning the gym and...

Thing is my parents' house is very toxic and it...

I took on two new cleaning jobs to cover my...

all apart from the café part, and I realised just...

Since the two new jobs pay significantly better than this...

I elected to stop working in the café when it...

I told this to one of the two café managers...

the issue; this morning the other café manager messaged me...

I replied saying: "Sorry I think there's been some missed...

I told [other manager] I won't be working the café...

She began complaining to me that the café is short...

At one point in my life I'd have folded and...

sorting a replacement isn't my problem". She then got upset...

I'm really being to panic that I'm going to get...

EDIT: A timeline of my work cause some people seem...

My jobs are cleaning the gym area and the hall/function...

**March 2020**: when Covid hits and Lockdown 1 happens the...

Am briefly furloughed again for the circuit breaker lockdown in...

**Jan 2021**: Johnson announces 3rd Lockdown, I'm back onto furlough....

However, my furlough pay and SFE payments combined aren't really...

I apply at an agency and get two cleaning jobs...

It's significantly better pay and a better contract and allows...

sans café, re opens and I go back to cleaning...

I'm basically at my limit for how much I can...

What do you think of this story?





THE COMMENTS SECTION WENT WILD – REDDIT HAD *A LOT* TO SAY ABOUT THIS ONE.

hey-demons-its-me-ya NTA Sounds like the manager is trying to scare...

~~Report you to the GM at a place you no...

Lol~~ You got the okay from the other manager, you...

The manager is just mad that they have to do...

Edit: nvm OP does still work at the centre,

marydonovan I stand by that the manager is still ju:...

lacitar The Director of Hurt Feelings?: NTA. Advicate for yourself...

Write an email to the GM. Explain what the manager...

nexutus Good for you to standing up to her! May...

sorting a replacement isn't my problem"That is 100{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f} correct.

I don't know when and why this developed into a...

Normal staff is accountable for getting their task done, in...

lIllIlIIIlIIIIlIlIll :- >

"I'm sorry about the inconvenience but I had my notice...

She then got upset and called me rude and insolent...

Sorting out a replacement is literally management's job. However, saying...

lordheart Lol.... NTA.

"Sorry we furloughed you and couldn't you know pay you...

but since we are back we expect you to drop...

Otherwise-Table1935 NTA the manager has bad communication. amantiana: NTA.

You did everything appropriately in preparing to leave, and I...

This person was trying to play on your guilt and...

Now she's using threats against you, which shows she's just...

FallOnTheStars NTA. However: If this situation ever happens again, try...

Instead of "I can no longer work in the café,...

I had to take on two other jobs to make...

While I would love to quit one of those positions...

Muninwing If there was a way you: NTA. Learn this...

Your job is your responsibility- anything past that, including replacing...

If said manager thought you were doing the job poorly,...

they would not blink before they let you go. Unless...

employer/employee loyalty has not really been a real force in...

After sharing his situation, the Redditor explained that when the café reopened, he decided to stop working there to balance his new, better-paying cleaning jobs and university commitments. One of the café managers agreed with this arrangement, but the other manager unexpectedly confronted him, insisting he either continue working or quit altogether. This led to tension and confusion, as the Redditor had thought the matter was settled.

From the Reddit comments, many sympathized with the Redditor, emphasizing the importance of managing mental health and workload, especially given his difficult home situation. Others noted the café manager’s behavior was unprofessional and unfair. Personally, it seems the Redditor made a responsible choice prioritizing his well-being and financial stability. Sometimes, setting boundaries at work is necessary, even if it creates temporary friction.

Ankit

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