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New Mom Sends Husband To His Parents For Surgery Recovery Instead Of Helping Him Herself

by Ankit
September 14, 2025
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In the midst of unimaginable pain and exhaustion, a new mother fights through the aftermath of a traumatic delivery, her body battered from hours of pushing and an emergency c-section. Every breath and movement is a reminder of the strength it took to bring new life into the world, yet the physical toll leaves her vulnerable and struggling to recover alone.

As she grapples with her own suffering, her husband battles his own injury, fracturing his ankle just days before their baby’s arrival. With limited support and mounting pressure, she faces the heavy burden of caring for their newborn while managing her husband’s demands, realizing that sometimes true healing requires difficult boundaries and unwavering resilience.

AITA for trying to get my husband to recover from his surgery at his parents house instead of helping him myself?

1 week ago I had a traumatic delivery, after pushing...

on top of the pain from the c section -...

wasn't fun at all either. a couple days before my...

I'm in so much pain from t*ts to toes and...

it's hard enough having a newborn rely on me, which...

but having my husband whine about how much pain his...

out his hardest days with his parents so his mom...

the baby doesn't rely on him right now and it...

I know that it's my job as his wife to...

post partum has just made me kind of numb to...

that sounds horrible but this whole thing has just been...

trying to do what's best for me so that i...

EDIT: i spoke with his mom and she understands that...

my mom has been with me and i'm not alone.

he wouldn't expect me to do anything for him and...

plate...he did also have a major surgery and will need...

as for the people who think ITA for the way...

a bit of resentment surrounding the entire situation and the...

anyone can do about it.

i feel bad that he's in pain i genuinely would...

sleep doesn't have him well rested or how he's so...

hormones are all over the place trying to adjust to...

UPDATE: a lot of the comments are shitting on my...

the other half of the comments i'm seeing are shitting...

I understand he is in a tremendous amount of pain...

I hate to see him in any pain at all...

timing of it all was just awful. I read as...

I'm really struggling mentally emotionally and physically and I'm sure...

What do you think of this story?





THIS STORY SHOOK THE INTERNET – AND REDDITORS DIDN’T HOLD BACK.

WebAcceptable7932 NTA you are not physically able to give him...

Your priority is yourself and the baby. He needs somebody...

Would his mother be able to bring him by the...

InstructionTop4805 He sees the baby still but it wouldn't be...

You shouldn't even be out of bed yet! Is he...

Him going to Mom's is a partial solution, but you...

You shouldn't even be lifting anything heavier than your baby...

BanterPhobic NTA - you have to do what's best for...

at a time like this and your husband should support...

Your husband is also the AH for the lack of...

wicked-valentina but I won't focus on that here as it...

to care for him* It's HIS JOB as the husband...

Tell him to provide help for all of you, it...

Trick_Delivery4609 What a failure of a husband to be lying...

: NTA "Look husband. My mom is taking care of...

You may only come back once you are helpful again...

Amiedeslivres ": NTA I had a broken ankle (still have...

For the first few days, even standing was a no-no-foot...

And that sucker hurt like h**l any time it caught...

Until I was weight-bearing, there were many ordinary things I...

ichweisbescheid NTA You need help yourself maybe your mother can...

As for your husband, he needs to go to his...

LavenderKitty1 BTW how many days before you giving birth did...

You are recovering from major surgery yourself. If he's needing...

If he's able to stay at his parents' place that...

And if you have a mum or sister or close...

If he falls and needs help getting up,

ahknewb you would not be capable: NAH Comparing pain/suffering never...

It sounds like you're starting to realize that. Would having...

A close friend?

Having an extra set of hands would benefit everyone in...

Mapilean NTA. You said you suffered from lack of support...

while he only broke his ankle a coupla weeks ago...

You have your own child to take care of, plus...

Do send him to his parents, and when he gets...

Reading through the Reddit comments, many sympathized with the original poster’s situation, emphasizing how challenging it must be to recover from a difficult delivery while managing a newborn and a newly injured spouse. Several commenters encouraged setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care, noting that it’s okay to expect support from others, especially when physically and emotionally overwhelmed. Some also suggested that the husband’s healing might improve if he leaned on his own family for assistance, allowing the new mother to focus on her recovery and the baby.

Reflecting on the story and the community’s responses, it’s clear that balancing personal health and caregiving responsibilities requires tough decisions and open communication. The wife’s feelings are valid, and her suggestion for the husband to rest with his parents seems like a practical step towards ensuring both of them can recover properly. Ultimately, prioritizing the wellbeing of the primary caregiver and newborn is crucial, and sometimes that means asking for help and setting boundaries to protect one’s own mental and physical health.

Ankit

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