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AITA for ruining my friend’s career?

by Ankit
September 16, 2025
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In a world where loyalty often goes unnoticed and underappreciated, one man clings stubbornly to a company that has offered him little more than stagnant pay and relentless demands. For seven long years, he endured minimal raises and crushing expectations, sacrificing his own well-being for a place that never truly valued him.

Meanwhile, his colleague, fed up with the toxic environment, took a leap of faith and left the suffocating grasp of their old employer. By nurturing genuine relationships and standing firm in his worth, he found freedom, respect, and a fresh start—earning not just a better paycheck but a life renewed, leaving behind the bitter echoes of unreciprocated loyalty.

AITA for ruining my friend’s career?

I work with someone who is weirdly devoted to our...

We work on a small consulting company but our biggest...

I maintained good relationships with that client and was sick...

they expected you to answer emails 24×7 and they would...

I left a few months ago and went back to...

They were interested in moving since I'd worked on their...

They eventually changed companies and I got a huge bonus....

My old friend is angry because he also worked on...

Legally I never signed anything saying I couldn't approach old...

on and he's probably not going anywhere with it.

I offered him a job since we could get him...

I think it's insane he wouldn't go for more money...

was to "betray" the boss.

What do you think of this story?





THIS STORY SHOOK THE INTERNET – AND REDDITORS DIDN’T HOLD BACK.

Krakengreyjoy NTA >

I offered him a job since we could get him...

switching companies. That's ridiculous. It's not 1955 anymore. He's only...

​ EDIT: ALSO, you did **NOT** ruin his career.

CuriouslyFlavored NTA Your old co-workers poor career decisions are not...

Ecjg2010 NTA.

you tried to recruit him and he chose to be...

Dannah_Montanah you didn't have a NDA either, so you did...

he has a terrible mentality and if you're in the...

yequalsy Go where you're appreciated, it's not your fault he...

You would not be TA even without offering him a...

costaa95 NAH. You have no NDAs or compet*tion clauses and...

notmymain1988 They can make their own choices in life and...

: NTA - If they had taken care of their...

TemptingPenguin369 this would not have happen. edit > typo: NTA.

He's got the old-school mentality about being loyal to the...

He has the career he wants, apparently, since he didn't...

Trixie-applecreek You made the right move and unless you signed...

As long as you didn't sign a non compete clause...

Your friend will figure it out soon enough that even...

ProbablyLongComment They'll do something at at some point that will...

though I'm not sure on the legalities involved. You apparently...

though a case could perhaps be made for using privileged...

In any case, it's unlikely that your former boss would...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people sympathize with the original poster’s frustration and decision to leave a toxic work environment for better opportunities. The consensus is that loyalty to a company shouldn’t come at the cost of fair compensation and work-life balance, especially when the company takes employees for granted. Many commenters praised the move to a client who recognized the value and rewarded the dedication properly, highlighting the importance of knowing one’s worth in the job market.

In my opinion, this story underscores a common issue in small consulting firms where employee dedication is often exploited without adequate reward. While loyalty is admirable, it shouldn’t be blind or self-destructive. The friend’s anger is understandable on a personal level, but the original poster made a pragmatic choice that prioritized their career growth and well-being. Sometimes, the best way to advance professionally is to seek out environments that appreciate and compensate your skills fairly.

Ankit

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