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AITA for suggesting “paying” my husband with video game hours?

by Ankit
September 17, 2025
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In the quiet battle of a marriage strained by imbalance, a wife’s heart grows heavy with resentment. Her husband, lost in the endless escape of video games, drifts further from the reality of their shared home, leaving her to carry the weight of chores and bills alone. The silence between them is filled with unspoken frustrations and the aching question of how to reclaim partnership from the shadows of neglect.

Desperation sparks an unconventional idea—offering her husband the very thing he cherishes most as a reward for contributing to their life together. It’s a fragile hope that this playful exchange might bridge the gap, transforming resentment into cooperation, and loneliness into connection. Yet beneath this hopeful plan lies the raw truth of a love tested, and the silent plea for respect and shared responsibility.

AITA for suggesting “paying” my husband with video game hours?

H**lo. I asked a question how to not be resentful...

With all the feedback I came up with an idea...

Background: my husband doesn't work, doesn't clean, only video games...

When I suggest putting ch**es on the refrigerator he says...

I could in theory shut off his internet until ch**es...

Incident in question: After many suggestions I wondered how about...

This way he does work around the house and he...

I laid out what I thought was reasonable compensation for...

He basically yells at me that's even more demeaning and...

Some thinks it's hilarious and justified others think I'm being...

Some of the comments have mentioned he has no money...

He doesn't but he is an only child and would...

He was a hardworking student when I met him and...

I apologize if I wasn't clear on this.

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

IHaveSaidMyPiece NTA Your husband seems to be a b*m and...

However you're close to sucking if you keep going along...

shadow-foxe NTA- but dont do this. this is like a...

You are better off turning the internet off if he...

Find an actual adult to spend your life with. He...

cisero (FYI how is he buying games?: NTA but trade...

Imaginary_Cow_6379 NTA but if you've already talked to him and...

to make him start now. Kick him out, you're wasting...

SayceGards He can stay with any friends who think asking...

But dude.... you're (presumably) working, taking care of the house.......

Royal_Commission9286 This is crazy. Here is what you could do....

You don't pay for something that distracts your family. You...

He is dealing with addiction and you need to treat...

OleBarbs I would remove the problem all together until he...

Individual_Ad_9213 then he should be treated like a child. NTA:...

You could divorce him for acting like an underage child.

NotMyFirstChoice675 NTA but it sounds like your husband is very...

If he doesn't work I suggest you draw a line...

Cooking a meal, cook for yourself. Doing laundry. Only do...

Itzacr1mew4ve7 He'll soon realise how unfair he has been to...

: NTA. Is there any reasons behind him not working...

If not then it just sounds like hes treating you...

After reading through the Reddit comments and reflecting on this unique approach, it’s clear that many people empathize with the frustration of unbalanced household responsibilities. The idea of “paying” a spouse with video game time is unconventional, but it highlights a creative attempt to address the underlying issue: the need for partnership and mutual respect in managing a home. While some commenters felt this method might feel transactional or even infantilizing, others appreciated the attempt to meet the husband where he is and use his interests as motivation.

In my opinion, this situation underscores the importance of open communication and setting clear expectations in a relationship. While creative solutions like this can help temporarily, they are not a substitute for a deeper conversation about shared responsibility and respect. If chores become a source of resentment, it may be time to revisit how roles and contributions are defined, ensuring both partners feel valued and heard. Ultimately, collaboration and understanding remain key to maintaining harmony, whether or not video game time is involved.

Ankit

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