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AITA for not wanting to apply to a Christian colleges?

by Ankit
September 20, 2025
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In a world where love should be unconditional, a young man’s truth shatters the fragile peace of his family. At just sixteen, he faces the harsh reality of rejection from the very people who vowed to support him, as his parents’ faith blinds them to the son they once cherished.

Caught between his identity and their rigid beliefs, he stands at a crossroads—his future held hostage by conditional love. The promise of education, once a symbol of hope, now feels like a chain, binding him to a life he does not choose.

AITA for not wanting to apply to a Christian colleges?

Recently my parents (M43 and F42), found out I (16M)...

I currently go to a college preparatory school, which is...

Since they found out, they've held my education over my...

Recently, I've been considering colleges, as I am a junior...

My parents decided that because they are paying for my...

I a*sumed that meant I was free to choose what...

I am no longer a Christian, as I feel there...

but I don't think I have an obligation to them...

Apparently I'm leeching off them and they say they could...

One of the schools in question is Pepperdine University, which...

They're also making me pay for my college application fees...

​ Edit: Please don't make this a debate of whether...

That's not what the purpose of this was and honestly...

I know y'all have good intentions but I just wanted...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

lkvwfurry NTA 1000{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f}.

They can't put conditions on their love.

Either they accept you "As god made you "(in their...

) Apply to whatever schools you want but prepare to...

In fact there are some LGBTQ+ organizations that give scholarships...

MahkaraM NTA - You're not leeching off them. You're 16.

And if they're making you pay application fees, they have...

(With that said, it would not surprise me if they...

In that case,

I would strongly recommend community or a state college over...

cla*s="comment_author">abjectobsolescence: > I a*sumed that meant I was free to...

You're an adult at college. You get to decide, whether...

mrschester NTA - however, if their requirement is that you...

knowing that even if you got accepted, their terms do...

CodyBellingersBong R/MaliciousCompliance: NTA and it's time to seriously consider what...

you turn 18. Hint- it may not be college (which...

Reasonable_rac**n You don't have to go to college. Or you...

Start planning now for an independent life. Get out of...

JudgeJed100 NTA - they aren't paying so they don't get...

get a say Since their " say" is based on...

honestly, considering their opinion of you has changed because of...

I would say they owe you more Any parents who...

cla*s="comment_author">bamf1701: NTA. If your parents aren't going to pay for...

then you are completely free to go wherever you want...

Especially since you are also paying for the application fees....

CodenameBuckwin Your parents sound big on control and judgement and,...

I can't imagine how weird it would be to go...

And I'm guessing you don't have a lot of money...

My advice (that you did not ask for) is to...

Ramguy2014 you're going to apply to them.: NTA. You're their...

Seriously, what are they gonna do if you don't apply...

After reading the Reddit comments, it’s clear many people empathize deeply with the OP’s struggle. The consensus seems to be that while parents have a right to set expectations, withholding support out of rejection of their child’s identity is harmful and unfair. Many commenters encouraged the OP to find a way to pursue their own path, even if that means seeking scholarships, financial aid, or alternative funding for college. The importance of living authentically and surrounding oneself with people who accept and support you is a recurring theme in the discussion.

In my opinion, the OP’s parents’ stance is understandably rooted in their beliefs, but ultimately, a parent’s role includes unconditional love and support, especially during such a formative time. While the OP’s parents are within their rights to set conditions tied to their financial support, it’s important for the OP to remember that their identity is valid and deserving of respect. Pursuing colleges that align with their true self may be challenging but is critical for their well-being and future happiness. It’s a difficult journey, but one that many find empowering in the long run.

Ankit

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