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AITA for kicking my friend off our vacation for making a joke about my boyfriend?

by Ankit
September 21, 2025
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A group of friends eagerly planned a much-anticipated trip to Miami, weaving their schedules and hopes together to create a moment of shared joy. Despite the challenges and compromises, especially around one friend’s rigid work commitments, they held onto the promise of escape and connection, their excitement tinged with the bittersweet effort to include everyone.

But beneath the surface of laughter and anticipation, a fragile tension stirred. In the quiet moments of New Year’s night, a seemingly casual remark cracked the foundation of trust, hinting at unspoken feelings and the painful complexities that can shadow even the closest bonds.

AITA for kicking my friend off our vacation for making a joke about my boyfriend?

On mobile so formatting might suck, sorry! So my friends...

We've been planning it for about a month now,

and originally it was going to be a float trip...

we're all fully vaccinated through our uni). One of my...

We worked around this and got days of the week...

She refuses to take off work for the trip despite...

On New Years, we all stayed on campus for the...

and my boyfriend (A) all spent the night together drinking...

That night, she made a pa*sing comment about how she...

and I chalked it up to drunken confessions and ignored...

Now for this trip, we had to seek out accommodations....

we downsized our group to just me, S, J, A,...

While discussing sleeping arrangements with S and J,

J decided to half joke about how she wanted to...

(Note, A and I have been dating for 3 years...

We've "broken up" to see other people once before in...

We were 18/19 at the time and haven't done it...

While talking with S privately, she also said that it...

I ended up shifting the dates of our stay and...

At first I just said it was because those were...

She's now calling me a manipulative b**ch and cursing me...

A has no idea because we haven't involved him in...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

CleanA*sociation9394 NTA it would have been a bit better to...

Weaselpanties but it's totally understandable to avoid a no-win discussion.:...

and you are right to trust your gut. You chose...

and the fact that she is cursing you out for...

decision IMO. I'm 50 and something I have noticed is...

HereFishyFishy4444 they are actual: NTA Trust your intuition on those...

Even if your bf wouldn't go for it, it just...

laurenthelyon NTA,

she obviously doesn't respect the sanct*ty of your relationship or...

dembowthennow Sounds like she's waiting around for it to end...

J is behaving inappropriately and that behavior would definitely ruin...

Let her rage - it's better than watching her hit...

PhantomMystique ESH. Absolutely J was being inappropriate and I wouldn't...

She is making you and him uncomfortable and that's not...

you should have confronted her directly rather than changing the...

thxbtnothx ESH.

Going against the grain here to say that she's clearly...

inappropriate her behaviour is.

You're painting yourself as if you did this for her...

noobilka That is a pretty vindictive thing to do. "...

But next time give a heads-up to your bf. It...

plootingaround NTA. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

EddaValkyrie ESH I do think it was was sneaky and...

You should've just told her directly why you weren't comfortable...

other - this would definitely be seen as pa*sive aggressive...

After reading through the Reddit comments on this story, it’s clear that many readers sympathize with the narrator’s frustration about J’s inflexibility, especially given her history of taking other vacations yet refusing to adjust her work schedule for this group trip. Most commenters seem to agree that while accommodating a friend is important, it shouldn’t come at the expense of the group’s overall plans—particularly when that friend has shown a pattern of prioritizing personal convenience over the collective experience.

In my opinion, the situation highlights the delicate balance between friendship and respect for each other’s time and commitments. While it’s commendable that the group tried to work around J’s schedule, her unwillingness to compromise despite having done so for other trips suggests a lack of consideration. Ultimately, friendships thrive on mutual effort, and sometimes that means making tough choices about who to include in plans when schedules just don’t align.

Ankit

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