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AITA for giving both of my kids the same money for Back to School Shopping?

by Ankit
September 22, 2025
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Fourteen-year-old twins Sara and Syed stand on the cusp of high school, their youth teetering between innocence and burgeoning independence. Entrusted with $600 each for clothes, their parents wrestle with the balance between giving freedom and guiding responsibility, knowing this moment is more than just about shopping—it’s a lesson in growing up.

As they step into the bustling mall, the twins face a world of choices, learning to navigate wants versus needs under watchful, yet restrained eyes. This day marks a quiet rite of passage, where money becomes a tool for self-discovery and the first steps toward adulthood unfold with every decision made.

AITA for giving both of my kids the same money for Back to School Shopping?

We've got twins, Sara and Syed. They're 14 and entering...

I decided I'd just give them some money and let...

My idea is they're old enough to budget and make...

​ So they both said they wanted to go to...

We had a few conversations about the most efficient way...

Find out the stores you want to shop at, get...

then when we get to the mall do a walkthru...

​ Syed took my advice well. He went into a...

He bought 3 pairs of pants for $100, 5 shirts...

​ Sara kinda just casually shopped through the stores and...

She actually ended up with about 2x the amount of...

I told her then she can return some stuff and...

I said oh well, thems the brakes. You gotta budget...

​ When we got home Sara cried to my Wife...

She points out that she had to spend $50 just...

separate from the $300. Why does a 14 year old...

I would just buy her more underwear if she really...

But as a girl, she needs at least 2 weeks...

its about spending enough to put them on the same...

What do you think of this story?





HERE’S HOW REDDIT BLEW UP AFTER HEARING THIS – PEOPLE COULDN’T BELIEVE IT.

BaffledMum NAH, but... Price good bras, and then tell me...

Plus women's clothes typically do cost more then the equivalent...

) There can even be tax differences, depending on where...

thecatinthemask YTA for your dismissive att*tude.

Son goes to a few different stores and gets good...

Daughter goes to a few different stores and gets good...

According to you,

she bought 100{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f} more clothes for only

50{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f} more money.

NotSorry2019 Considering that girls' clothes almost always cost more than...

Thank you very much for the two silvers and a...

And for those worrying about my son and his fashion...

his is still developing/he thinks shopping is torture/barely tolerates shifting...

BranWafr As he continues to mature, we will support his...

but leaning towards YTA. Your wife and daughter are correct...

mostly because of undergarments. Most guys can just buy a...

A girl is going to spend that much on one...

soap-poisoning And they'll most likely also need some sports bras...

women (or teen girls) often costs more than men's clothing...

It's just one of those unfair realities women have to...

consider that just ONE decent basic bra for a girl...

Another thing to consider - can she still wear most...

EmmaLuigi or is she having to get a: YTA for...

We are telling you that girls don't want to talk...

listening! Let your daughter go shopping with your wife next...

CopperTodd17 NAH - but just so you know - as...

I spend $70 on one bra - even when there's...

once every 3 months) I find one bra for $30...

poeadam I don't think Sara meant underwear as in the...

like a good parent. You definitely were nice and fair....

bras alone are pricey as f**k and there is some...

gla*sisnotgla*s Edited to YTA (formerly everyone sucks) because of OP's...

at night and I didn't read the numbers of Sara's...

Thanks to everyone who commented and pointed out that she...

L**tfulGumby Leaving original comment below: ) Original: Sara needs to...

Women DO in fact need and wear far more underwear...

$80 would get me a bra and like 3 pairs...

Women's clothing often does cost more as well. Equal doesn't...

Reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many appreciated the parent’s balanced approach to teaching financial responsibility. Letting Sara and Syed manage their own money while still providing guidance seemed to resonate well, with commenters praising the blend of freedom and oversight. Some suggested even more structured budgeting lessons, while others felt the mall walkthrough was a smart way to encourage comparison shopping and thoughtful spending.

Personally, it seems like a great middle ground—giving teenagers the autonomy to make decisions but with a safety net of parental advice. It’s an important life skill to learn early, and this method encourages both independence and critical thinking. Hopefully, Sara and Syed will come away feeling empowered and better prepared to handle money in the future.

Ankit

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