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Ex-husband wants to take our son on vacation and leave our daughter behind—I refused to help

by Ankit
September 22, 2025
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Four years after their divorce, a mother fights quietly against the sting of her ex-husband’s snide remarks, defending every dollar spent on vacations for their children. She lives frugally, pouring her love and resources into moments that mean the world to her kids, while he enjoys a life filled with luxuries and opportunities — yet their children’s shared time remains a fragile battleground.

Despite the distance and the unspoken tension, a simple question about Labor Day cracks open a door to hope, confusion, and the possibility of connection. The story lingers on the edge of what might be—a chance for a father to step up, a family to find balance, and a mother to witness the love her children crave beyond the divide.

AITA telling my ex husband I won’t ‘babysit’ my daughter

My ex-husband and I divorced about 4 years ago. I...

he went on one trip with them, which was cancelled...

but I live a pretty frugal life and my kids...

They live on a lake, with an in ground pool...

My ex seems to be buying a new truck, bought...

I just wish he'd take my two kids on the...

Here is where it gets weird: monday he asked me...

I don't have plans, so he asked if I could...

I asked why he wasn't going to take my daughter...

My kids are close, and if asked, I know my...

and he should ask his girlfriend (lives with them, been...

but apparently she's going on the trip too. I told...

We have a history of him being abusive, so I...

He called my controlling and I am trying to decide...

I 100{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f} will watch her, and he knows it.

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

CherryCherry5 NTA... It would be really unfair and mean to...

just as it would be unfair and mean to leave...

I don't understand. If it's because of cost, then do...

itsdirector NTA During his time with the kids, the kids...

I would love to know the hoops his mind has...

CapsFan1066 NTA but treading on Y T A territory if...

You have a divorce agreement, stick to it.

It's one thing going one on one with the kids...

Tkote420 territory particularly if the kids are as tight as...

it's about her being female.

Mountain_Monitor_262 He is not following his court order that needs...

coloradogrown85 OP, while he may be ent*tled to take a...

he can't ask you to take your daughter and "babysit"...

Mad_Garden_Gnome Period.: You've already given in by admitting availability.

ayymahi NTA He has the kids on HIS time.

I feel like this is a common occurrence with your...

arthobbies He excuse for not taking your daughter is weak...

shadow-foxe NTA it's so strange to me that anyone would...

have the daughter as for the same trip for her...

I'd also make sure daughter has a fun time when...

View this and mom/daughter time and the sting will be...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it seems many people sympathize with the original poster’s frustration about her ex-husband’s reluctance to take their kids on a vacation, especially when he appears financially capable. Commenters also noted the importance of co-parenting cooperation and how sometimes financial power dynamics can complicate shared custody arrangements. Many agreed that while both parents have a right to spend their money as they please, prioritizing quality time with the children should come first.

In my opinion, this story highlights the complexities that arise post-divorce, especially when it comes to shared parenting and vacations. Though the ex-husband is entitled to his choices, it would be beneficial for the children’s well-being if both parents made more of an effort to create memorable experiences with them. Ultimately, fostering positive relationships and putting the kids’ happiness first can help ease tensions and create a healthier family dynamic despite past differences.

Ankit

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