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AITA for not sharing more money with my wife

by Ankit
September 23, 2025
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They have journeyed together for nearly a decade, building a life woven with love and shared dreams. Through every challenge and triumph, their partnership has been a dance of balance and understanding, where money was never just numbers, but a reflection of trust and respect.

As their lives intertwine deeper with marriage and joint goals, they redefined fairness—not by equal halves, but by what each could give, honoring their individual journeys while nurturing their shared future. In this delicate harmony, their love quietly thrived, untouched by the shifting tides of fortune.

AITA for not sharing more money with my wife

My wife and I have been together for close to...

When we moved in together we split rent and utilities...

When we got married we created a joint savings and...

we also both contribute to the savings account to someday...

We no longer split everything 50/50 and instead now contribute...

What ever is left from those contributions becomes our own...

Like I said for most of our relationship she has...

a similar argument could be made when we started doing...

This never really bothered me as I thought it still...

About 2 years ago my wife left her job to...

We figured that we would continue to do things they...

At this point I always have more money kicking around...

She has never expressed an issue but it often feels...

for pocket money. 80-90{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f} of the time we go out...

the remainder of times we go out either being we...

Health insurance is also taken out of my check and...

I put extra money I have into a completely separate...

account. She has her own as well however I don't...

My thinking is that I created this saving account out...

what we do it and having money sitting around not...

I'll note that we do not own a house or...

I supported her leaving her job and at this point...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

WebbieVanderquack NAH, but if it's "lying beneath the surface," dredge...

fredinNH NAH. I know that many married couples keep separate...

Personally, we've always combined everything and treated all money as...

Neither of us would ever spend a big amount without...

MsWhatsit83 I can't see having separate accounts because one of...

YTA. I don't understand the point of married couples separating...

If you want to have separate "mad money" accounts, then...

Ravenous_Pet NTA.

The arrangement was just fine for her when she made...

Insurance is also taken out of your pay, not hers.

My husband and I have the arrangement that I pay...

thicklover he pays the cell phones, groceries, and any out...

Before your wife left her previous place of employment to...

imjustdesi situation?: NTA. If it was okay for you to...

I don't think marriage means you have to pool ALL...

Voidg If she doesn't like it, she can go back...

You are covering more then half of the responsibilities financially....

It would be unfair to live the same way bringing...

Jekay99 It was refreshing to read how well set up...

I didn't read the entire post as I strongly believe...

parties. Divorce is what's "50: 50". The "50: 50", "yours,...

kekabillie NAH.

I think you're being thoughtful and it's ultimately up to...

What my partner and I are considering doing when we...

paying for bills/necessities/making contributions to our savings, and deciding on...

littlehagrid This is the problem when you split everything,

me and the Mrs put all the money into a...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people appreciate the fairness in the couple’s approach to managing their finances. Splitting expenses based on income percentage rather than an equal 50/50 split tends to reduce financial strain and resentment, especially when there’s an income disparity. Commenters also highlighted the importance of maintaining some personal spending money, which helps preserve individual freedom and prevents financial disagreements from affecting the relationship.

In my opinion, this couple’s strategy exemplifies a mature and respectful way to handle shared finances. By adapting their system as their circumstances changed, they demonstrated good communication and flexibility. Ultimately, financial arrangements in relationships should be tailored to fit the couple’s unique situation, and this story offers a great example of how to do that thoughtfully.

Ankit

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