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My Fiance Abandoned Me and Our Two Babies, So I Chose My Kids Over Dating Forever

by Ankit
September 27, 2025
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At just 22, she was thrust into the harrowing reality of single motherhood, left to navigate the world with two tiny children in her arms and an empty space where trust once lived. Her ex-fiancé vanished without a trace, taking not just their shared belongings but shattering the fragile foundation of their family, leaving her to piece together a life from the wreckage of betrayal and abandonment.

Months of unanswered calls and hollow reassurances culminated in a devastating truth: years of infidelity and a sudden, permanent disappearance. Yet, amidst the ruins, she found a fierce resilience, setting unwavering boundaries and reclaiming her power, determined to protect her children and rebuild a future defined not by loss, but by strength and hope.

AITAH for being a single mom in my 40s who doesn’t want to date single dads (40s-50s)?

When I was 22, I had two kids under the...

Took all his clothes, our emergency money, and every piece...

All I got from his parents was he was okay...

His affair partner had graduated from college, got a job...

5 years old, my youngest was about three months old,...

Honestly, the relationship was shit and it wasn't a huge...

They wouldn't meet my kids until we had dated for...

I would only go on a date after the babysitter...

I had 100{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f} custody 100{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f} of the time.

I couldn't just leave to go do anything spontaneous. And...

I usually got three responses to my dating rules. One,...

And three, they didn't want to parent another man's kids....

At 25, I came to the realization a relationship just...

went into therapy, and started taking night cla*ses at a...

I pretty much focused on giving my kids everything they...

And when I wasn't at work or school, I was...

If I wanted to get my hair done, *we* went...

My social life was basically zero. If I couldn't take...

" I cleaned my house, mowed my lawn, did all...

I put a lot of pressure on myself to not...

They're adults now and have "adult jobs." They're both in...

They are smart, responsible, and the two most amazing people...

We still talk every day/two days. We still hang out...

They went and grew up on me. About six months...

I agreed that it might be nice to dip my...

The issue I'm having is I state pretty clearly on...

For some reason, many men take that as I'm not...

* But for some reason, this is getting lost in...

I explain that I'm not interested in dating someone with...

I know how hard it is. And I'll be d**ned...

I don't want to go back to a parental relationship....

That means half the time their with their dad and...

" Like, dude, do you think only seeing your kids...

" So that means at a minimum if it goes...

Like *done* done raising kids even on the perimeter. I...

I don't want to go to recitals and concerts of...

Even though I am a "baby momma", I don't want...

Because even if a guy *says* I wouldn't have to...

In my eyes, if you're a parent Wednesday through Sat**day,...

One man got really mad at me and said I...

I said, "Just because you were 24 and I am...

I blocked him but it bothered me enough I'm awake...

Or maybe I should get a dog and wait another...

Am I an a*shole for not wanting to date single...

What do you think of this story?





AFTER THIS STORY DROPPED, REDDIT WENT INTO MELTDOWN MODE – CHECK OUT WHAT PEOPLE SAID.

Greenfrog2023 NTA. Date or dont date whoever you want. You...

Constant-Cupcake-962 You're nta for not wanting to parent someone else's...

just like they weren't ta for not wanting to parent...

It's ironic he called you a hypocrite after being a...

I will say though you may struggle at your age...

greenisler NTA the way I see it, your requirements seem...

Looking back at what you know now, about all these...

Just because you are getting kickbacks, doesn't mean you are...

Foreign_Fall_8266 th: Please, please, please stay this unapologetically true to...

You are not doing a single thing wrong for knowing...

UnluckyCountry2784 and I pray you find someone with the same...

Some single dad date so that someone will help them...

CuriousTina15 You want what you want.

I'd suggest changing your profile to saying you don't want...

Afke1968 Also you could try older men.: Nta I think...

They reasoned: mom has a lot of free time on...

can spend the rest of her life with. They mean...

If you close your eyes and think about the future,...

JollyForce9237 NTA But maybe consider dating men in their 50's...

tomram8487 NTA. Stop arguing with the guys.

They see your profile that you don't want to date...

gtatc NTA. You have absolute control over who you date.

Just bear in mind that the guys in their 40s...

Reading through the Reddit comments, many users expressed admiration for the resilience and strength shown by the author in such a challenging situation. The community largely supported her decision to prioritize her children’s well-being and set firm boundaries for dating, recognizing the importance of protecting her family from further emotional harm. Some commenters shared similar experiences, creating a sense of solidarity and encouragement for single parents facing abandonment.

From my perspective, this story highlights the harsh realities some people endure but also the power of perseverance and self-respect. The author’s journey from heartbreak to healing is a testament to the determination required to rebuild life after betrayal. It reminds us that while relationships can falter, the love and commitment to one’s children can inspire remarkable courage and growth.

Ankit

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