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AITA I want to go on a trip against my wife’s wishes

by Emily Davis
October 16, 2025
in Relationships
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In the quiet tension of a marriage stretched thin by unspoken sacrifices, a husband yearns for a moment of escape, a brief breath of freedom that has eluded him for years. His plea for a vacation is not just about travel—it is a desperate call for recognition, a fragile hope that his needs might finally be seen in the shadow of relentless parenting duties.

But his wife, burdened by stress and the weight of responsibility, shuts the door on his request, her refusal a shield against the chaos she fears alone. Their love, once a shared journey, now stands at a crossroads where fairness and duty clash, leaving both trapped in a silent struggle for understanding and relief.

AITA I want to go on a trip against my wife’s wishes

So I(27M) have been married to Vee(27F) for 5 years....

This year my guy friends have planned to go for...

We usually don't go on trips and haven't gone on...

So I told my wife that I want to go...

She said no because she doesn't want to take care...

Also, she wanted us to go to Europe on our...

She said that its my duty to take care of...

I told her that I am not complaining but it's...

Now she's mad at me because I want to go...

on her for 2 weeks. AITA? Edit 1: she goes...

Edit 2: childcare split- I used to do the dirty...

We just do alternate nights since it's bottle feeding. We...

I have a morning shift(6am-2pm) so I did childcare after...

Edit 3: When one of us goes on a vacation,

daughter stays with parents for the shift timings and after...

edits y'all . Anyway, we take family trips over the...

Edit 5: she left me with the baby 8 months...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

0biterdicta NTA because of the double standard.

If she gets 1-3 weeks every year to have a...

you should absolutely be able to get 2 weeks to...

But there does need to be some sorting out of...

whitewer Nta, there is a huge double standard going on...

So it's all good for you to be the babysitter...

but f**k if you want to go on your own...

that's her deciding that the only one who gets to...

ForwardPlenty and her being controlling: NTA When couples decide to...

then they need to make things equal. She takes two...

Besides, "Europe" is a pretty big place and you don't...

GreekAmericanDom NTA You need to have a serious conversation with...

It is also her duty to take care of your...

flares_waves NTA you are not complaining and it is unfair...

GradeAgarbage Europe is big just go to different places when...

It seems your wife is having a bit of FOMO...

I am curious how long her vacations usually are, though,...

Is there any family or friends that can help her...

Lladyjane Info: why do you bottle feed a three year...

Money_These NTA.

Everyone - regardless of marital status - is ent*tled to...

Your wife is being selfish considering she's enjoyed her girls'...

It's only fair to share responsibilities and allow the other...

SweatyFig3000 So... you take care of your daughter all by...

why isn't she willing to return this favor for you?...

This seems really unfair and unreasonable of her. Europe is...

dragonb**t42069 NTA: NTA, wife is definitely pulling a double standard.

She has no problem with leaving you with your daughter...

After reading through the Reddit comments, many users sided with the husband, emphasizing that both parents should get equal opportunities for a break, especially since he’s taken on childcare duties before. Some argued that the wife’s refusal seemed one-sided, and that a little compromise could go a long way in maintaining fairness and preventing resentment. Others pointed out the importance of communication and finding a middle ground that respects both partners’ needs.

In my opinion, this situation highlights a common challenge in parenting partnerships—balancing responsibilities while also nurturing individual well-being. It seems crucial for the couple to have an open and honest conversation about their needs and expectations. Perhaps planning staggered trips or sharing childcare duties more flexibly could help both enjoy their time off without feeling burdened or neglected. Ultimately, mutual respect and understanding will be key to resolving this disagreement.

Emily Davis

Emily writes heartfelt stories about family, parenting, and personal growth.

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