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AITAH for telling my fiance that his family will be the reason why we don’t get married?

by John Doe
October 16, 2025
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In the quiet moments of their shared life, a young couple stands at the crossroads of love and expectation. Bound by years of commitment and the joy of their first child, they face an unyielding storm—not from each other, but from the shadows of disapproval cast by family who refuse to see the love that binds them.

As they dream of a wedding intimate and true to their hearts, the couple confronts a painful truth: the battle for their future is not just about vows or venues, but about claiming their right to choose their own path. In this struggle, their love is tested, and the fight to protect it becomes a defining moment of courage and resolve.

AITAH for telling my fiance that his family will be the reason why we don’t get married?

Me '26F' and my fiance '26M' have been together for...

His family has always had something to say about our...

But before I agreed to accept the proposal, I told...

Now our first child just turned one and we were...

We have scheduled time off to start checking out venues....

They wanted us to have a big wedding so THEY...

I told my fiance that it's not their wedding therefore,...

This is where the disconnect happens - he sided with...

But that's not the only problem, he disclosed to his...

They told him to force me out of it. As...

Or that I should put his name on the condo....

I no longer feel comfortable marrying him since it doesn't...

Our scheduled time off is approaching this Monday and I...

I know he loves them and I admire him for...

This has been eating me up inside because I feel...

the type to really talk stuff about my relationship -...

And I don't want to tear apart our family but...

My email was full on notifications. Hopefully I didn't end...

- What they said is normally relayed to me/shown to...

They're normally "I will tell her, ma/da" or "I will...

Try to accommodate him AND his parents. From our anniversary,...

- So many people think contraception works 100% and it...

While I support women's right, I personally wouldn't make the...

I asked him what were his so that both sides...

I disclosed about wanting a prenup and a postnup and...

I offered to have my lawyer a*sist him, he declined...

What did we want, what are our expectations and what...

Not my family despite my dad practically begging me to...

My fiance was not comfortable with it and he said...

We sat down with my dad, my dad said he...

So when that was all settled, my and my fiance...

Now this is where it gets tricky, HE wants a...

Yes I suggested it and not because I didn't want...

I was the one that suggested we do in the...

I told him this would be more accommodating because I...

- I worked WAY too hard in school to get...

I grew up with parents who wanted financial literacy and...

The condo we call home is a gift to myself....

I suggested that we all just have a sit down...

I asked him MANY TIMES(throughout our entire relationship) if he...

He said that he KNOWS that they can be unreasonable...

I suggested that I should just have a sit down...

Don't know what to do because neither of the choices...

Sorry if I couldn't get to all of you. I...

It's physically impossible to just to wait, I feel like...

Update 11/11 - I saw that many of you want...

A lot happened within those hours of talking but it...

I'm still trying to recollect my thoughts and calm my...

For now, this is all the update while I pick...

What do you think of this story?





HERE’S HOW REDDIT BLEW UP AFTER HEARING THIS – PEOPLE COULDN’T BELIEVE IT.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 NTA Op, see a therapist and discuss this with...

He sounds very easy led, so if you're ending things...

See a lawyer and tell him about the parents ,see...

Be prepared that when you end things , it may...

I would also recommend you be clear that after the...

relationship with them. If you need to go further you...

I'm sorry this is happening, because it sounds like you...

but I'm so proud of you for recognizing that a...

desertrat_1000 Well, just think of the next how many years...

Sensitive-Ad-5406 Can he stand up to them? Good luck.: "Until...

I will not tie myself to a person who refuses...

WE decided on a small wedding; you backtrack because mummy...

New-Comment2668 Either choose a wife and child, or coparenting because...

Prenups are not saying that you expect the marriage to...

Nobody gets car insurance because they are PLANNING to have...

As far as his parents are concerned, you have a...

They do not respect you and they are going to...

Either your fiancé does not have a backbone where his...

Bare minimum,

you and your fiancé need pre-marital counseling so you can...

his parents. Btw, when I married my husband, he made...

I asked for a prenup that would protect what he...

sh**ltrice 1 tell him the legal documents are non negotiable....

2 He needs to decide now where his allegiance lies...

ArmyPatate but based on your narrative, I fear he is...

He doesn't sound very reliable.

DisenchantedMandrake NTA I am wondering if hus reluctance to do...

rather two faced about things and doesn't want that coming...

but then whining to his family about how controlling, disagreeable...

Definitely protect your a*sets and cover your finances, yourself, and...

Impressive_Rain_4834 Girl your asking us should you live the rest...

The answer is the obvious love, you just don't like...

So do what you know you need to do.

Any_A*sumption_2023 Doing a pre-nup before I married my second husband...

He made a lot more money than I, but he...

It can be set up to protect both parties. For...

In your case though.... sounds like his family is going...

and complaining about you not being a good wife at...

And that's the core problem. Can you tell him that...

I actually had to do something like that with my...

We were having a small wedding (12 people, family and...

who was in her 20s and ALWAYS got what she...

No, I'm not kidding. He actually would have. He never...

His choice . She didn't come of course, but it...

Your fiancee needs to grow a backbone now, or they...

So here's an alternative suggestion: if they want a big-a*s...

Your responsibility will be to turn up in your wedding...

David5051 To me it seems like he resents how much...

you do not need him financially. His family wanting you...

Him not wanting your father to pay for the wedding...

He's hiding some strong misogynistic beliefs and that is why...

he's afraid that they will get to the root of...

If I were in your place I'd make couples counseling...

This is something that must be forced right now or...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with the bride-to-be’s desire to set boundaries and prioritize her own vision for the wedding and relationship. The consensus is that while family input can be valuable, the couple’s autonomy should come first, especially when it comes to major life decisions like marriage and starting a family. Commenters also supported the idea of prenups as a healthy step for couples to protect their futures regardless of external opinions.

In my opinion, this story highlights a common challenge faced by many couples: balancing family expectations with their own needs and values. It’s crucial for partners to communicate openly and stand united when navigating pressure from relatives. Ultimately, a wedding and marriage should reflect the couple’s love and commitment, not just family traditions or preferences.

John Doe

John is a seasoned writer with a passion for storytelling and technology.

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