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AITA For Telling My Wife Her Body Doesn’t Look The Same As It Did Pre Pregnancy

by Jane Smith
October 16, 2025
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A man reflects on the deep bond he and his wife have shared since college, united by their passion for fitness and a history of overcoming personal struggles. Their love, tested by time and trials, now faces an unsettling silence as he senses a change in her after the birth of their daughter.

Haunted by memories of her past battle with anorexia and the new, secretive behaviors she exhibits, he stands on the edge of fear and confusion. The vibrant woman he knew seems to be slipping away, wrapped in shadows he desperately wants to understand.

AITA For Telling My Wife Her Body Doesn’t Look The Same As It Did Pre Pregnancy

Hi. 33M. I think I really f**ked up here. I've...

My wife kept up with it even more than I...

and in the past, I was actually worried she was...

I know she had anorexia in middle school (was hospitalized...

She's always eaten a lot since I've known her so...

but she's always been pretty particular about what she puts...

My wife had our first baby (a little girl) about...

and when she doesn't, she asks me not to look....

This past weekend, I decided to surprise my wife with...

My wife was excited at first, but when we got...

I was totally taken aback, and told her I just...

I asked if there was a reason she seemed so...

I told her she's beautiful and has absolutely nothing to...

" As I mentioned before, my wife worked out religiously...

I do think the difference in how she looks post...

My wife is still beautiful obviously, and I kept repeating...

asking if she looked the same as before, and I...

She kept asking me follow up questions like "how much...

believe me when I say she looks great and (2)...

On the trip, she wanted to hike and just be...

but she didn't really want to eat anything other than...

I kept trying to get her to have some ice...

She probably asked me at least thirty times in two...

" We're home now and she seems to be really...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

shyfidelity This is so sad. You didn't do anything wrong...

RevolutionaryGift157 She's gonna slip back into ED-adjacent behavior.: NTA. You...

You have been supportive and loving which is exactly what...

I would also suggest that you gently suggest her bring...

DELILAHBELLE2605 Oh man. NTA. Your wife is obviously struggling and...

You didn't go anything wrong. Of course she does not...

Even my feet went up a size with my first...

That's nature. You need to tell her that you love...

It's pretty common to feel like she's feeling at 3...

She'll feel like herself again. In the meantime her having...

Tenprovincesaway NAH, but your wife needs medical follow up because...

It's common after giving birth.

lucille12121 Your wife is holding herself to an impossible standard...

I feel awful for her. Maybe for womenkind, in general....

and the whole world tells you that you've failing unless...

I'm sorry to the whole family, you, your wife, and...

I suspect you inadvertently confirmed a deep fear she already...

She's probably been harboring this fear since before you met...

That she is not enough, generally. This is the normal...

You can tell her she's beautiful, but it won't be...

And self-perception is directly connected to desire for s*x for...

If you can, speak to a therapist about how you...

Your wife should speak to a therapist too, ideally one...

You're a good husband, OP. Editing to add - your...

This is a medical disorder and should be considered with...

queenrosa NTA but your wife needs professional help with her...

Get her to see a therapist. You did the best...

If you said she looked the same, she wouldn't believe...

Suzeli55 Your wife hasn't had an eating disorder since middle...

Get her some help right away.

CharlotteLucasOP Time for some supportive therapy as the feelings that...

rearing their heads again, it seems, after the rollercoaster/loss of...

And TBH it may have been her disordered/obsessive food/weight ideas...

and orth**exia, to an unhealthy extreme, rather than the comparatively-easy-to-spot...

Sometimes an obsession with the "health value" of foods/calories/macros/percents of...

one Can and Cannot eat, under the guise of Just...

Being afraid/angry about enjoying treats in moderation that don't cause...

where you'd reasonably avoid some select food types,) is not...

Especially as parents now raising a daughter of your own,

I hope y'all can work through this in a compa*sionate...

isn't a pre-requisite for worth/lovability. NTA but it's time for...

Organic_Kangaroo_945 It's extremely common for eating disorders to resurface after...

You should continue to try and support her with love...

attention such as therapy. NTA but this is going to...

ChakraMama318 Here's the thing about ED- you don't heal from...

They are also a coping mechanism that has to do...

So when your baby essentially hijacked her body and she...

including weight gain and all the changes: it freaked her...

It is time for her to bring this to counseling...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people sympathize with the husband’s concerns but also emphasize the importance of approaching the situation with empathy and care. Commenters often suggest that the wife’s past struggles with anorexia and her current secretive behavior around food and bathroom habits could be red flags for a possible relapse or a new eating disorder. They recommend open, non-judgmental communication and possibly seeking professional help to address the underlying issues rather than jumping to conclusions or accusations.

In my opinion, this story highlights how postpartum changes can deeply affect mental health, especially for someone with a history of eating disorders. It’s crucial that the husband supports his wife without blame and encourages her to get the help she needs. Fitness and health are important, but they shouldn’t come at the cost of wellbeing, especially after such a life-altering event as childbirth. This couple’s situation reminds us how delicate recovery can be and how important patience and understanding are in these moments.

Jane Smith

Jane loves exploring new cultures and writing about travel and lifestyle.

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