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AITA for telling my mother she has to buy me a new vibrator if she wants to keep living with me?

by Alex Johnson
October 16, 2025
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After a painful breakup, a mother seeks refuge in her daughter’s home, hoping for temporary solace. But what was meant to be a brief stay slowly turns into an invasion of boundaries, as the daughter watches her sanctuary slip away beneath the weight of unasked-for changes and silent resentment.

What began as an act of love and support spirals into a struggle for control and respect, leaving the daughter feeling like a guest in her own space. The tension brews quietly until it reaches a breaking point, revealing the fragile emotional fault lines between them.

AITA for telling my mother she has to buy me a new vibrator if she wants to keep living with me?

Alt. account for obvious reasons. My mother (F53) had a...

I (F31) am single, have a dog, and very much...

Since my mother moved in (despite claiming that it was...

She'll clean, do laundry, switch my dog's food brand, change...

At first I a*sumed she was just trying to make...

My room is strictly off limits yet she'll march in...

I feel like I've lost all the control I deserve...

I am generally very patient and I've forced myself to...

Yesterday, however, I came back home to find my vibrator...

My mother told me she found it and it was...

I was literally fuming, I told her she had no...

We have never even discussed s*x, vibrators, relationships, and now...

I told her I feel disgusted by what she did...

I told her since she's suddenly so open minded then...

I was so humiliated by this conversation, I felt invaded,...

I gave her the address of the s*x shop and...

My mother is very religious and old school and I...

Edit: Wow, is the internet still terrified of menstrual blood?...

People going 'ewww' and thinking I must be trolling cause...

What do you think of this story?





THIS STORY SHOOK THE INTERNET – AND REDDITORS DIDN’T HOLD BACK.

JackNotName ESH Your mom clearly needs boundaries.

What makes you an a*shole is "I just wanted to...

That does not give us the right to hurt back...

Had you done it purely as a boundary setting method,...

- You need to really sit down with your mom...

Explain to her that if she does not learn how...

whatforthen It's not help, if it makes the helpee angry.:...

y'all are weird. Her mom touched her f**king s*x toy....

d0n7w0rry4b0u717 ... I don't even know how to react to...

>My mother told me she found it and it was...

> >Edit: Wow, is the internet still terrified of menstrual...

yet I don't always right after cause I just fall...

People going 'ewww' and thinking I must be trolling cause...

You think people are trolling because of how unsanitary your...

I'm a woman who deals with menstruation just as much...

Plus, menstruation blood is a bit messier and more smelly...

The thought of someone using a vibrator while on their...

obviously need to put it down) is the most vile...

You're the one who is too lazy to wash blood...

Yeah, orgasms are exhausting but you're not out like a...

You can quickly get up and clean the thing off...

She'll clean, do laundry, switch my dog's food brand, change...

> >I told her I don't appreciate coming back from...

**ESH** but you're the one with the biggest problem. You're...

You need to get it together and stop living in...

I can't blame your mom much for being so overbearing...

Your mom is trying to take care of you because...

Still, invading privacy is a sucky thing to do so...

SantaPachaMama ESH yeah you mom needs boundaries. but.... you stored...

D**n, that's just wow... Edit. No I do not hate...

ToadFlax1 Don't make her buy u a new one, just...

u clearly said room is off limits and she betrayed...

cla*s="comment_author">thedumbdoubles: NTA. All the everybody sucks votes are nuts.

As if y'all (a*suming mostly men being grossed) haven't left...

I know I have. To give OP shit bc it's...

CreepyOrlando Her mom has no business being in there.: NTA...

borderline_cat Even without the vibrator thing she needs to realize...

I can't believe the top comments are about your f**king...

the only other person I allow to touch my vibrator...

If my mom found my vibrator in my home and...

It's not something you leave laying around your living room...

Houndogz NTA kick her out.

She isn't respecting you and thus doesn't deserve respect here...

to all of the other extreme issues going on here-...

wanting them to buy you a new seat cover.. no,

ur-humble-overlord you're not an a*shole, but you're missing the problems...

you said your room was off limits and she went...

although i don't think demanding a new vibrator is the...

i would just sit down with her and tell her...

because she isn't being a compliant roommate to the house...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many readers empathize with the original poster’s struggle to maintain personal boundaries and control in her own home. The consensus seems to be that while the mother’s intentions might stem from a desire to help or cope with her own difficulties, the impact on her daughter’s sense of autonomy is significant and harmful. Many suggest that open communication and setting firm, respectful boundaries are crucial steps toward resolving the tension and restoring balance in their living situation.

In my opinion, the story highlights a common yet challenging dynamic when family members live together under stressful circumstances. While compassion is important, it should not come at the cost of one’s personal space and peace of mind. The daughter’s frustration is understandable, and finding a way to express her needs clearly and kindly could help both parties heal and coexist more comfortably. Ultimately, both should strive for mutual respect and understanding to rebuild their relationship and regain harmony in the home.

Alex Johnson

Alex is an expert in finance and often shares tips on managing personal money.

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