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I dont want my younger brother and his wife living with us if they have a baby. AITAH?

by Emily Davis
October 16, 2025
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Amid the fragile hopes of new beginnings, a woman grapples with the weight of loss and the tender dream of starting a family. Her sanctuary, a home she built with her husband, now becomes a battleground of unspoken tensions as her youngest brother and his wife seek refuge beneath her roof, their struggles and desires clashing with her own silent grief.

As the announcement of another child from her older brother sparks an unrelenting competition, the quiet dinners turn into arenas of emotional strain. The youngest couple’s desperate quest to prove themselves ready for parenthood, despite their precarious situation, threatens to upend the fragile peace, leaving her torn between compassion and frustration in a house filled with unspoken battles.

I dont want my younger brother and his wife living with us if they have a baby. AITAH?

I (27F) and my husband (28M) recently bought our first...

My youngest brother "BB" (23M) and his wife "A" (23F)...

They have asked if they could rent our basement bedroom...

I am okay with that. However, my other brother "OB"...

This has somehow put "BB" and his wife in a...

Before me and my husband) "BB" and "A" continue to...

I am incredibly frustrated with them as they are asking...

I have expressed my opposition to them having a child...

I do not want them living in my house. At...

( after she brought it up) that they are making...

Now my family is telling me I have no business...

I also am having big feelings because I want the...

**I dont care who has a baby first.** Im excited...

not okay with Baby Brother using my home, that I...

Also, my parents are in separate states from us and...

But I said what I said and thats what I...

He told me that after I went outside at sunday...

Im not sure what else was said as I wasnt...

Apparently this meant we were "bullying them" and thats why...

My husband also expressed the problems we've had with them...

garage and made a HUGE mess. Paint all over. Our...

Some yard tools they played with while I was trimming...

So my husband and I wrote this up and I...

) and she helped me understand that I was not...

I know its not my business when you have kids...

* *I respect y'all's decision to have a baby as...

Our agreement was for you and (A) to live here...

but with the discussion of you actively trying to bring...

the future. It wouldn't be fair to any of us...

We need our own space and are concerned that if...

) She has been aggressive towards (my small dog) and...

We cannot and will not sacrifice our family's future to...

Im sorry it took the argument on sunday to help...

I will continue to help you find a cheaper car...

Small Update evening of 4-23: My dad called me !...

He didnt know My brother had asked to live in...

And I agree. Still no response from BB or A....

He asked if we wanted it back or if he...

As BB was answering, I heard A in the background...

Almost immediately after that call my dad called again. He...

My Dad said "It's totally up to them to fix...

" He also apologized for getting so upset on sunday,...

I was really starting to feel like the "B**ch sister...

And they thought I was "meddling" in my brother's life...

I will continue to "protect our peace" as you have...

What do you think of this story?





THIS STORY SHOOK THE INTERNET – AND REDDITORS DIDN’T HOLD BACK.

No_Scarcity8249 You aren't telling them how to live .. you're...

but you can't stay here AHs. The hubris of people....

Make that known. They're living with you and having a...

They're trying to burden you and force you to support...

Youngishwidow DONT DO IT! I let my older brother,

his gf, and her dog live with me for 6...

who was fully trained, is now peeing all over the...

The room they stayed in is a total disaster and...

My sliding gla*s door won't open, and my two car...

Turbulent_Ebb5669 Stick to your guns.

They can live with any of the family members who...

Foxfire_vixen NTA,

if I was you simply say "BB I respect y'all's...

However, considering the circumstances you have brought to my attention...

Therefore I have decided it wouldn't be good decision to...

Our agreement was for you and A to live here...

but with the discussion of you actively trying to bring...

you're to be expecting at anytime in the future.

It wouldn't be fair to any of us to be...

I'm sorry I can no longer lend a hand and...

SoImaRedditUserNow but it may make them rethink things: >

I should shut up and support them or get out...

That you wouldn't support them in your home if they...

Its not like you started this whole business. They asked...

NC_Ninja_Mama I think you already know the answer, it's simple.

You need peace in your house and that should come...

You are at such a beautiful time in your life...

If they can afford a baby, they need to be...

QueenaBeena NTA Don't let any of them move in your...

Quiet-Hamster6509 " Perhaps it's best you find other accommodation.

We are all trying to live our lives and frankly,...

We need our own space and are concerned that if...

chaingun_samurai We cannot and will not want to support your...

Now my family is telling me I have no business...

"I choose the latter. Good day.

satr3d ": I wouldn't let them live in my house...

able to afford other housing. It pretty much guarantees they...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many sympathize with the original poster’s frustration. Several commenters pointed out the unfairness of BB and A pressuring everyone with their baby plans while simultaneously relying on others for financial support. Many felt that the basement rental was generous enough without the added stress of constant competition and tension about starting families. Others acknowledged the delicate nature of the situation, especially considering the OP’s recent loss and desire to start a family on her own terms.

In my opinion, while family support is important, boundaries are equally crucial to maintain healthy relationships. The OP has every right to feel upset about the pressure and the timing of BB and A’s behavior, especially since starting a family is a deeply personal decision. Renting out the basement should be about providing support, not creating a breeding ground for rivalry and resentment. Hopefully, open and honest communication can help ease tensions and allow everyone to focus on their own journeys without unnecessary competition.

Emily Davis

Emily writes heartfelt stories about family, parenting, and personal growth.

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