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AITA for having liquor in the apartment even though my roommate turns out to be a recovering alcoholic?

by Charlie Brown
October 16, 2025
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Two strangers, bound by a six-month lease, step into an uneasy partnership built on half-truths and guarded questions. What seemed like a simple conversation about drinking habits becomes the fragile foundation for a living situation that neither fully understood, where unspoken fears and assumptions quietly fester.

As the roommate’s quiet judgment surfaces with every bottle stocked and every glass poured, the tension grows beneath the surface. A shared home feels less like a sanctuary and more like a battleground of expectations, where the weight of misunderstanding threatens to unravel their fragile coexistence.

AITA for having liquor in the apartment even though my roommate turns out to be a recovering alcoholic?

My roommate and I moved in on a six month...

In hindsight I should've made sure his idea of serious...

The whole conversation was "Hey I'm sorry if this is...

" And I said yah, and he said "Serious drinking,...

" Thinking he'd probably had a bad experience dealing with...

what's all this" and I tell him I have a...

) He didn't seem thrilled but didn't bring it up...

" And I said "Nothing, just unwinding." He seemed uncomfortable...

Never occurred to me it was intentional. Fast forward to...

I haven't touched a drink in 6 years, but every...

and I'm sorry but I cannot take being in the...

Could you move some of this stuff out of the...

I was leaning towards saying I can keep the liquor...

I really like unwinding at the end of the day....

But I also get for him it's a medical condition...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

neoteucer NTA. There's a big difference between asking "Are you...

" and"Do you intend to have alcohol at all. "...

and if he would prefer a roommate that didn't drink...

but he needed to communicate that at the outset -...

390TrainsOfficial his boundaries and where he was coming from.: NAH.

He's a recovering alcoholic and is struggling not to relapse...

cabinet. He probably should've communicated his situation and desire to...

Is locking the booze up an option?

fudgeyboombah I think this is a NAH because I suspect...

misrepresented yourselves. OP,

there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a gla*s of...

your roommate no matter what his issues are. However, you...

No matter how you slice it, every single day is...

Your roommate should have been open with you about his...

I suspect that he overestimated his stage of recovery, and...

I think that he is finding out the hard way...

I don't know how you two can resolve this. Honestly,...

Perhaps it would be best to ride out your lease...

Editmypicplease NAH, he really should've said it. But confessing to...

Try to be supportive, do that stuff in your room...

haveanapfire NAH It's really subjective what const*tutes "serious" drinking.

I rarely drink, so a drink every day even with...

Gla*sReverie NAH.

Lot of people saying he's an a*s for being unreasonable...

but you both made an a*sumption based on your own...

His idea of "not serious" was probably more along the...

Your idea is having a small drink daily to unwind....

and I can understand why he'd consider drinking on a...

comingtogetyoubabs NTA - I think he's a very slight a*s...

beforehand. Plenty of people who aren't heavy drinkers still keep...

It was probably an oversight, but now he's made things...

I think the suggestion of keeping things in your room,...

is a good compromise (leaving everything in outside storage is...

Magrif_Gremlark As for the wine, maybe try having it in...

A lot of comments here are saying that your roommate...

but to an extent he did and outright telling someone...

What a lot of people are forgetting is that your...

the situations,

he actively avoided alcohol by avoiding dinner and I'm sure...

tough thing to ignore as well.

No one has done anything wrong here and if anything...

himself in a respectful and solution oriented fashion. It's the...

but that's my opinion,

you two seem like really good communications and self advocates...

Pocket-or-Penny provide your suggestions.: I'm a recovering alcoholic and this...

RwNZ Does he still go to meetings?: Not going to...

literally daily drinking to "unwind" sounds like pretty serious drinking...

I guess I can see where you're coming from, in...

It's pretty tough tbh because there's so many different definitions...

I know people who I think are borderline alcoholics who...

cla*sic). You yourself said you're not a heavy drinker at...

whereas I'd say anyone who is drinking at least once...

I've never had an issue with alcohol,

I haven't had any in about 7 years now simply...

now knowing there was a big box of oxys in...

And if I had a flatmate who took a pill...

I think it might start to chip away at me...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people sympathize with the roommate’s frustration. The issue seems to stem from a lack of clear communication about what constitutes “serious drinking,” leading to misunderstandings and resentment. Commenters suggest that setting firm boundaries and expectations upfront is crucial when sharing a living space, especially concerning habits like alcohol consumption that can significantly impact the living environment.

In my opinion, this story highlights the importance of honest and detailed conversations before moving in together. While it’s natural to want to avoid awkward topics, failing to clarify key lifestyle differences can create tension and discomfort down the line. Both roommates could have benefited from laying everything out on the table to ensure mutual respect and a peaceful coexistence during their lease.

Charlie Brown

Charlie is a creative mind who enjoys writing about art, music, and culture.

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